r/MbtiTypeMe

Both MBTI and Enneagram typings would be cool to see.

I'm sure you can tell I don't really care about how my room looks lmao. My friends have (no doubt in complete seriousness) said I have a very good eye for decoration. I have 4 guitars in my closet which aren't in the picture.

At my desk is a bookshelf which mostly just has manga, but also has a physics textbook, some Jung, Edgar Allen Poe, Nietzsche, and a lot more Shakespeare than I actually read. I think me and Poe would've been homeboys and drank together. The manga I have are to love ru (don't judge me man), reincarnation colosseum (don't judge me man, I like the hot buff girl okay), anohana, happiness, orange, a couple toradora books, Sasaki to Miyano (bl manga), Hadashino Gen (I think it's called barefoot gen in English; my dad gave it to me, it's a cool WW2 manga that my Japanese isn't good enough to read.)

I also have some PSP games, Wii games, and some old PC games, as well as 2 really fucking old laptops. I am interested in old technology, and I have a lot of it.

As for how I look/dress, I just wear black/grey cargo pants because they're convenient and look fine, and usually wear a blank t-shirt to go with it. I don't dress in any sort of stand-out way because I don't want to be associated with any particular group of people. Depending on how you dress, people make assumptions, and I don't want people to put stereotypes on me or associate me with a certain group. Then again, I'm fairly certain that doing that has actually made people think I'm weird and look at me more, rather than less. I don't really care that much tho, choosing to keep low cortisol✌️

These are just some pictures that I find funny, or feel good to look at, or just make my heart happy. I like chiikawa

I like to talk to lots of people wherever I go and I like to help people and make them happy. I love to play and joke and sing and dance and have a lot of fun, but sometimes I get very embarassed of myself because of this. I can't seem to find that perfect "in between", I either feel like I'm too uptight or too unserious. When I am having fun, it feels performative, but when I am serious, I feel like I'm not being serious enough, and I am only pretending. I like to think about a lot of things and I'd prefer to keep myself occupied than do nothing. I don't dislike solitude, but I get lonely super easily and I'd prefer company. I have no real favorite animal and I honestly can't decide what to get as a pet because I can't choose one, they're all so cute. My hobbies are all interconnected with eachother and are mostly artistic, like music, sewing, drawing, painting and cooking. I look forward to big events and I especially love planning and throwing parties. Especially planning. There's something so exciting and satisfying about having a vision and coming up with ideas to set in motion. Planning the party food is my favorite part. I don't like having fun alone, and I want other people to join me. I get curious and ask a lot of questions, because I find a lot of things cool. I try not to judge because that's stupid, and also it's not my business unless you make it. Definitely a very "live and let live" sort of person, and I love going on little adventures and meeting new people. Ironically enough I get paranoid super easily and am very self concious, so sometimes I get scared meeting new people, but my itch to get to know them and make a good first impression overrides the fear so I end up talking more than I think ha ha. Whenever I love something, I make it clear to EVERYONE. Like, I wear it, talk about it, and think about it so much. Which is kind of funny, since nobody really "knows" me. Like, not many people know my likes and dislikes, or my thoughts and opinions or feelings in general. Not because I'm closed off or anything, I'm an open book, I just forget to tell them sometimes, because I've lived with myself for so long that I don't really find myself interesting enough to talk about. Sometimes I'll think I'm super mean and confrontational, but when I get to it I always try to diffuse it. People have consistently described me as "chill", and I've been called a "social butterfly" (both as an insult and a compliment). I can tell when people don't take me seriously and it makes me sad. It makes me feel like I'm not a real person, and I've felt that way enough for two lifetimes already. I always want things to be perfect, and if it's not, I give up on it, which is a habit I am trying to break. But no matter how badly things go, I always try to have hope, and even if nothing is hopeful and I feel sick to my stomach, I just force myself to keep going, because I know that there is a future to live for, even if I do not believe it

I'm really super curious to see how the internet will type me because I've gotten varying results from different tests, but mostly they bounce between two specific types, so I'm interesred to see what you guys think!

Hello good moning, I deleted my typing just now so hopefully someone who saw me before here won't focus on one type, because honestly I am confused in wtv if people perceive me the same as me or just nod to nod when I reveal my typing coz for starters I had not very common enneagram for my type and my friends called me out on that when I had told them that from the book we were reading  (surrounded by idiots I guess) that I could be the red one being half serious and 4 of them told me absolutely fcking not. 

Please tell me if you're basing of 16p or cognitive functions, I don't mind being typed by both by you, could be for funnies too. 

no, even if it looks like it I don't want life advices, let's focus just typing and only typing.

my daily life looks like this: I am home schooled, I don't really have a routine besides basic stuff, I go on k1 trainings, muay thai like 3-4 times a week but I could be struggling with a burn out for now, why? I could be too soft for this  and it's the sparrings, it could be light, I can communicate, I fear no communication between people if it's necessary to avoid unnecessary discomfort for me or the others around, I've been doing this for a year and half now but the more I do that the more I feel pressure and one week ago it was the first time I faked that I have no mouth guard to spar, and I am telling you this because that would fight with my Se dom that I was pretty sure of. 

 I thought of chaning the environment and doing idfk bouldering or dancing, but I wouldn't do it because I would be dwelling on that I could be SOMETHING by doing what I've been doing, I like changes it's cool by me but not regressing my work bro even though it was only a mere year and a half but I wanted to reach at least half of my potential because I was already changing my hobbies, sports like socks and I finally woke up at age 14 that I needed to be doing something for my future not temporary fun things and it hit me like a truck when I first started to feel dread after them.

The same thing for what do I want to choose to do with my life, and ig it's something normal for my age so whatever for that, coming back to my daily life, people say they admire me for studying on my own because I have like a few weeks for single exam and I grind on my own, noone asks me if I am studying or not, I have no platform for that just internet to find sources and sometimes I look into textbooks but not much, I watch movies while studying because I have pretty skilled multitasking, I have also pretty good grades, physics is my fav

since I left traditional school because of my classmates that I was too bum for  I am taking naps, catching up with friends like twice a month, lifting weights home only, living my chud life and eating and watching some science podcasts and funny people ego lifting to stress out, it's not over though remember my words. 

I also have sum group therapy sessions my mom signed me up for without my acceptance, that I would go for anyway because I love social situations, even like that. I got fond on those weirdos quickly, we have trips and I am the one to decide on most things also giving others a word in this of course, coming up to them, encouraging and taking them out of their comfort zone of shyness, it's working. 

Summing up I think that I either care for my image too much, overthink too much then be too fast paced the other day that I have 4 potential types that I could be. 

its could be something different but these r the ones i find most likely

well.. its been shoved down my throat that im not very likeable or easy to get along with. I don’t like being told what to do and value autonomy and freedom over everything, even opting to do things people dont like to prove a point, so yeah.. i get into arguments and fights alot. I js like playing devils advocate i guess? and find drama fun \^\^

i dont like being vulnerable or the cold, i dont like when people grab or drag me around like some doll or say meaningless compliments ik theyre only saying cuz its what i wanna hear like bleh. I find it hard to give or receive affection and usually push people away quickly. The cold is kinda random but its one thing i cant stand, i js like being curled up with blankets.

i kind if flip between logical and emotional i guess? im pretty clever and aware id say, usually noticing small signs about peoples body language bit i usually dont say much + yk i do good in school. I get jealous and pissed easily, even with things that probably dont even have correlation tbh, it sucks since i tend to cry easily when i get emotional and i hate that nobody takes me seriously cuz of it.

kinda expanding on the last thing, i usually keep track of details about people usually js to avoid them or not have to deal with them. I tend to be in my head alot since most people ik r dicks. I tend to mess and tease myself over my mental issues, and usually dont take them seriously and i save way too many pictures and quotes on my phones photos and notes app.

ik i sound like such a narc but sapiosexual i guess? + im like 90% sure i have bpd, im prob never gonna get tested for it tho, like i kinda said earlier my emotions flip like theyre on a dial among other stuff.

i sound soo prissy but i love to romanticise alcohol, hookups, smoking, double suicides etc. Whaa? its hot.

i make bad habits of somehow forgetting peoples faces/names yet remembering codes and where i hid my things etc.

im apparently a smartass? i dont really care for grades that much, i js like being better than people tbh.

i hate when being ignore me or abandon me, i want people to yell at me so it atleast shows they gave a shit. If people start to ignore me, i sometimes start pissing them off on purpose to talk to them.

my biggest fear is loss of autonomy or control, i hate being withheld in anyway or like i cant move my arms or legs, it freaks me out so im lucky ive had no sleep paralysis \^\^

im a brat apparently? prob the hissing and pawing with my sleeve i guess, so i guess im mature mentally but tend to act immature in my actions

i hate being wrong and i cant handle losing at stuff, i used to be heavily praised and now its like idk what im doing

i suck at trusting people and it takes a long time for me to open up, like literal months and i might js ghost u if i feel like i said too much

id say i daydream/romanticise things alot but i usually deny it, tbf i usually deny everything no matter what.

i find it hard to express my emotions, and dont know how to deal with stress that well, causing me to lash out at people.

i enjoy drama but to a certain extent, if im getting ganged up on, i feel lost and kinda freeze or run off when theres too much expected of me.

speaking of i dont like being smart, people always force expectations on me and it stresses me out, i dont strive for much anymore cuz of it.

I freakin love music, playing or listening to it and drawing sketches. I adore dressing up and doing cosplay, find it fun to dress up androgynously and be a different person for a day its why i like the internet.

I get jealous and possessive easily, i can ten to be clingy apparently and like attention solely on me

i love wrapping my arms and body arpund stuff, usually using a chair or w pillow to hold and rest my chin on

i get red in the face and embarassed easily amd start denying things rapid fire, i hate it and always try covering it up

Hello everyone

For context I’m diagnosed with autism/adhd. I’m also young so I don’t have much life experience — like 19 out of the other 100 years. So that’s the other thing I think as to why I’m struggling.

I’ve been going down a rabbit hole of cognitive functions to try and determine which mbti I am. I was introduced to this via the tests but the tests, of course, can’t be accurate so I tried researching the cognitive function descriptions.

What’s really tripping me up is these big generalisations of cognitive function doms. I’m not a fan of people relying on stereotypes.

So far I’m debating between being Ni or Ne dom. Potentially??? — INFJ.

But I really don’t want to be biased: here’s my reflection of being ‘Ni-Dom’

When having an initial impression of somebody based of looks, I think most times I can have an immediate solid idea or sense as to what kind of person they’ll be. But I remind myself that there are 8 billion people in the world and technically endless possibilities for a multitude of things, (I don’t truly know this person yet), the future can’t be fully linear and clear otherwise by that logic I’ll always be correct — so I want to hold that the thought for now but I keep a few other senses as to what else kind of a person they’ll could be otherwise. Kind of like “possibility 1, 2, 3 — so far I’m ‘confident’ in leaning to possibility x but let’s wait and see.”

When I say that there’s “technically endless possibilities for things” I don’t mean that I love to enrich myself in it for a longer period and love to not eventually lock down on 1 possibility/choice

This applies to interpretations of art as well. Abstract art fascinates me but I can’t always form a cleanly clear cohesive big picture meaning if it is just super super abstract with so many details — but I can still get a vibe. I do love details and appreciate them because how else are you meant to see the big picture without details? To ruminate in them for too long without narrowing down to one meaning though is to suffocate.

Is this really Ni dom? I think it might help me to get a third party check so I appreciate if anyone reads this and confirms

Feels nothing when alone

Extremely attached to people, wanting to be part of them; sometimes has intense emotional spikes and other times becomes stoic and nonchalant

Approaches new people easily and likes having many friends, but reserved when people approche her.

Sometimes she's cold and sometimes warm

Eventually enjoys silent moments with others, just their presence; can become stoic and nonchalant, but talks a lot through messages

Objective and able to step back even under strong emotions; views each situation rationally

Direct

Needs others to validate decisions and life choices

wsggg heres random memes which i find funny pls type me hahahaa

btw self-description is gonna be mid, i dont know myself completely tbh. Guess I'm kinda funny and picky. Generally unserious and silly. Chronically online but not an avid video game enjoyer, usually js watch video essays on random topics and the occasional ARG (usually minecraft. If theres any other good ARGS pls do let me know, i'd love to try em out.) Also enjoy playing chess but depends on my mood (i dont play online, js offline w my dad and friends) I try to think i'm not emotional but tbh i lowk tear up after watching smth like Clannad: After Story (that anime hit me way too hard. Still think they should've ended the series at EP 21) My classmates would likely describe me as an extrovert, but I reckon i'm an ambivert. im trash at making online friends cuzz i always forget to text back so i sometimes just leave people on delivered/read. Would say im fairly idealistic. Also romanticize alot of shit that is just not alat. My room is usually very messy/disorganized. I accidentally learn random shit which wont be useful for my future at all. Messi the goat (ik its random but i felt like i had to mention it, statistically AND on the eye test he's above CR7. no disrespect to ronaldo tho he's a machineee 🤖) anyway i dunno what else i can say. if you're goated you find my memes funny trust

also just realized, i'd like to say my grades are pretty good (highest are computer science and history) but suprisingly my grades in my native language are cheeks🥀anyway ty for reading ts you're goated fr!

‎The images above may or may not be helpful, I don't save a lot of relatable texts and stuff and as predictable as it may say undthe only things I can ever find are quite general and could apply to many, maybe. They are things I can relate to as personally as possible, the last ones are a reflection of what I see in my mind, if that helps. ‎

‎Slide four is an album I feel deeply, music is trascendental for me. Certain melodies structured in a certain way can make remember certain things, forget certain things, feel a certain way, trigger certain images and thoughts. Hence I'm really picky with music, as with everything, I appreciate and embrace individuality deeply, hence it reflects in everything I choose and like. I mean it, I physically feel a strong dislike towards the mainstream and everything that gains a certain recognition, not everything, but I think things are better when the public is select as it feels more personal and chosen, targeted, when not everyone can like something. It's something I can't control, when it comes to the latter I'm as quick to judge as possible, but in other matters It's really difficult to make me feel like that, I try to be as educated as possible and even if I hold a certain position I will try to know everything about the rest even if I don't agree with them, to know what I'm actually disagreeing with, I can't imagine being totally biased. ‎

‎Superficially, or as an overview; I'm much of an introvert, as intensely as possible, there's not a single ounce if not very little of sociability in my being, I appear as friendly and all as possible when dealing with people which to others seems apparent enough but deep down I crave leaving any crowded space and avoiding any kind of social interaction and if I don't walk away mid conversation is because zoning out is enough for me and I never outwardly show my discomfort, which is another reason why people think I'm agreable enough, I never object unless I'm interested in objecting. That, though I simultaneously yearn for a friendship of any kind, people don't quite understand me and can't keep up with my conversations, they aren't interested to a personal level on what I say and just brush it off as "intelligent" (parallel to thinking it's weird), I think I'm overrated as a person for that, people think too highly of me and I feel as if I can't quite meet those standards..

‎ ‎I tend to overanalyze everything, the "it's not that deep" is below me, and I most definitely overthink, constantly, my mind never "shuts up" plus it feels as if it were constantly multitasking jumping from one thought to another or doing various things at the same time. Sometimes (often) I get overwhelmed and I come off as colder than I already act or shut down. ‎

‎Again, I value individuality over many things and it shows off in my outward and inward world, I often stand out and I don't mind it, while I don't like being the center of attention nor would I walk to the center in a room full of people I still don't mind standing out and I'm proud of it, I dont care about coming off as weird, I can't imagine myself being anything else.

‎ I feel things deeply, extremely, it's as if my perception was dialed to the max, every little thing has an impact over me, everything holds a meaning for me, resembles anything or is simply transcendental in itself. Sometimes it gets stupid. ‎

‎I do good in school, my grades are mostly As with the occasional B, I couldn't care less, I care very little about school, I hate it, I never make any efforts there and I get good grades anyway, I'm not even clever I'm quite dumb but smart enough to pass without doing a thing. ‎

‎ Artistic, spiritual and intellectual matters are what I basically live for. I love knowing more about anthropology, linguistics, philosophy, theology, etc... I love physical media, I have a passionate streak for cinema and cinematography, I also enjoy watching Kabuki and Nō theatre, and also more things but I can't seem to remember the whole list. I love abstract stuff, the more intricate the better, I'm not one for simplicity. ‎

‎ In my free time I do research on topics that interest me, watch films, commit to "fixations", do Sudoku, draw or practice guitar or languages. ‎

‎I don't believe in any religion in particular, I'm quite spiritual and intuitive, perhaps due to my disposition I can only find fulfillment following a personal and individual path. I despise organized religion, and a part of me dies every time I meet someone religious but clearly not spiritual, I find it counterproductive. ‎

‎ I don't know what else to say, hopefully this is enough. I do have a vague idea of my type, enneagram and that stuff.........But I'd like to know from someone else anyway as I'm not too acquainted with the entirety of the matter. ‎

Ok so asking random strangers on the internet my MBTI haha cause I'm bored

So this is me. Hi. I'm 25. I work in a hospital and I HATE it. I'm not one for people and I'd much prefer to work with animals instead. I find them pure and they make me happy.

I love true crime, I'm always listening to true crime podcasts. I'm a cosplayer and I cosplay Danganronpa , Persona and I hoard cosplays like Pokémon. I game too, I'm a bit of a trophy hunter and I play stuff like Baldurs Gate 3, Danganronpa, Final Fantasy etc

I'm OBSESSED with my cat. I'm always hugging her, talking about her if she's not around. Most of the time at work, I'm just thinking bored of this, lemme see the cat. We have a real connection. She purrs in my arms every day and cuddles up to me when I cry

I actually have this habit of audiobooks for two hours a day. I have finch and tick off my reading goals so my little virtual pet can have a virtual pet of their own. Plus reading is nice. I travel a lot for work so I use it as audiobook time

I love the most unhinged funny characters, like Lucifer (from the show) Astarion, Anakin, Harley Quinn. I think maybe that says something about me I dunno

Tbh I don't like people. At all. I have family round every Monday and I hide in my room, until I'm forced to eat with them and I say nothing and think ugh, I wanna go and play games

My internet history is WEIRD. One minute it'll be murder podcasts, the next, cats meowing. And I have this weird fascination with the 1900s and history facts haha

Bem, sempre que postei algo pedindo pra me digitarem diziam que eu só falava de coisas que eu gostava ou que não ficava muito claro para digitar meu mbti. Então, afinal, como e o que eu deveria colocar nesse post? Além de se alguém ver.

Eu não sei se são as pessoas que não entendem que quero algo detalhado e digitam baseando no 16personalitys ou se eu que escrevo mal. Ou os dois de certo

Vou me descrever para o post conseguir passar

Gosto de várias coisas como mbti, psiquiatria, criar histórias, imaginar, ler, olhar pro céu, andar de carro a noite e BLABLABLA . Sou uma pessoa muito fragmentada e para que a cada ano eu tenho um jeito diferente e blablablá. Também gosto de festa sendo que nunca fui convidada pra uma creio q pelo meu jeito de alienígena e textos tristes vitimizando pra dar 400 caracteres e blablablá

Porra ainda não foram 400 letras? Enfim, não gosto de seres humanos, crianças, animais principalmente cachorros porque eles latem muito e gente burra. Eu tenho uma mania de achar que quem pensa diferente da minha lógica é burro, e às vezes a burra sou eu, na maioria das vezes.

hello I'm not too sure what to write here but I'll give it a go (also I'm far too lazy to use all the questions in the questionnaire)

Give a general description of yourself. How old are you?

I'm 15! I love bio and chem and my hobbies include doodling, doomscrolling on reddit and daydreaming.

Would you enjoy taking on a leadership position? Do you think you would be good at it? What would your leadership style be?

I would! I don't take on any at the moment but I'd want to lead people towards a goal, especially in something I want to improve on (e.g. I'd want to lead others to make something more efficient, or improve something's standards). I'm not a natural leader though since I'm naturally shy and not very outspoken about my ideas, partially because I'm scared of being seen as a fool if I make a mistake or cause disharmony. I think I'd be someone who tries to listen to people as much as possible or try to adapt my vision to what everyone wants instead of just leading with my ideas, though I wouldn't shy away from imposing part of my will on the group, if that makes sense

What's your opinion about the past, present, and future? How do you deal with them?

Past: I feel like I'm 'haunted' by my past in a way. Not that I have trauma or anything because I don't, but it seems as if I have far worse bad memories than good ones even though I know in reality that's probably not the case.

Present:

Future: Probably what I think about the most. A lot of people say I'm too busy thinking about the future I forget to enjoy the present, and I agree for the most part. I usually spend my time thinking about my life goals and plans and how I should go about achieving those.

How do you act when others request your help to do something (anything)? If you would decide to help them, why would you do so?

Usually I'd try to help them, even if it inconveniences me. There aren't a lot of reasons why I wouldn't help someone, unless it significantly burdens me, or if I harbour any resentment towards them.

I don't know why I'd try to help them, I just do. It's just natural to me in a way?

What are your hobbies? Why do you like them?

I like reading, especially about mbti or psychology in general. I like the human mind and I want to analyse it even deeper, and seeing the logic of how everything works together is something that naturally appeals to me.

What is your learning style? What kind of learning environments do you struggle with most? Why do you like/struggle with these learning styles? Do you prefer classes involving memorization, logic, creativity, or your physical senses?

I'm a kinaesthetic learner (even though I hate sports and I'm mostly terrible with my hands). I like doing things and even though I like concepts and theories, I want to apply those in real life, otherwise it seems like a bit of a waste of time. I also like learning visually and by listening to someone else teach, anything but long lines of words to be honest. I struggle with anything that requires rote memorisation, especially when I don't understand the "why" behind what's being taught. I prefer classes surrounding logic and analysis for the most part, like literature or biology for example.

How good are you at strategizing? Do you easily break up projects into manageable tasks? Or do you have a tendency to wing projects and improvise as you go?

I would say I'm not great at strategising - I'm good at coming up with plans, but they end up being unfeasible mostly. I tend to bite off more than I can chew when it comes to my commitments. I'm a planner, but I can improvise if needed (though I'm usually not as happy with the end result), and for projects I like having a vision of what I want to achieve (this applies to real life as well)

What are your fears? What makes you uncomfortable? What do you hate? Why?

I'm scared of failure and of people seeing me as one. I tend to present myself in a way that I think others will find admirable or at the very least 'acceptable'.

I'm uncomfortable with people being ingenuine about their emotions, and I tend to see people who exaggerate their sadness or their problems as annoying.

I hate it when things, or people, get in the way of my goals, and I hate it when I feel like someone's getting better at something I pride myself on than me.

Other info about me:

- ever since I was young I found myself thinking about the idea of perception, and how I'm perceived as to others. I remember as a four-year-old thinking about how people saw me and whether or not I was looked at the same way I looked at myself I DONT KNOW OKAY

- as a child, I also tended to go down rabbitholes in my mind, then at the end try to retrace my steps to the thought that kickstarted that process

(I'm not sure I just felt like this could help in my typing)

thanks! excited to see the results

Hi I did sakinorva test and i'm confused. Like which is

my type? How i can have Ni and Si both high at the same time? My grant function type is Intj, but myers letter type is Estj? Like am i a Si/Ne type or Ni/Se??

I have a problem with tests bc it's always these four

types and i don't know which one is a right answer 🥲

Here are some information about me:

I am a high school student. I'm good at school. I want to go to college and want to study engineering (civil, mechanical or chemical idk for now but these are the options). My life goal is to get my degree and be successful in my job. I alse want to be a mother of a girl (not before 25, i'm 19 now). I'm very organised. Everything needs to be perfect, there's no space for failure. I get irrationally annoyed if my stuff isn’t perfectly organized or if my notebook isn’t sitting at just the right angle. Perfectionist. I plan my day in my head, i don't use planners.

My hobbies is reading (books, mangas etc.) I mostly like fantasy, romance gendres. Also painting and drawing when i have time. Looking at tiktok edits of my bias all day when i don't want to do anything 🤣 (i listen to kpop). I don't have much free time for hobbies, i study a lot. In my free time i'm thinking about what i need to do or study. I can't rest bc if my body is resting my brain doesn't.

I really like solving math problems while listening to music.

I like playing sudoku and genshin impact. Sudoku bc i use my logic to guess the numbers and i just guess when i don't know. Genshin bc it's fun to escape in another world.

I can just guess things without knowing how or why. I just know. How? - i can't explain.

My life is normal.

I don't like being involved in drama, but i like to hear other's people drama.

I don't feel like a 100% introvert or a 100% extrovert. It depens of who am i with, place where i am... I don't hate people in general. But i can't say i love them.

I have a small friends cirle. I think people don't like me that much.

I value structure, clearity, hard-working, truth, results.

I’m brutally honest, and sometimes I just blurt things out instead of keeping them to myself.

I often zone out in conversations without even realizing it, and my mind just drifts off.

I get stressed pretty easily and I often worry about the future.

I focus more on the present and the future than on the past. I often get annoyed when people talk about what already happened.

I’m afraid of the unknown, heights, dogs, and failure.

And i'm also a cat person (i like cats more than dogs).

Sorry for the messy text (and my english). I know i said i love structure but it's late and i'm tired.

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I always want my intuitions about people to be wrong, and I even know ahead of time that the person is/will be someone that hurts me, but I always ignore my own intuition and have faith in them to prove me wrong but alas they prove me right and they did exactly what I predicted. And I hate how predictable people really are, it's a curse to be able to predict exactly what everyone is gonna do when all you're seeing is the evil in them and all you want is to be proven wrong (and so you give them a chance, not because you're gullible or naive, but because you want to be wrong and shown true love and integrity from others instead; to be shown the same love, faith, and integrity you demonstrate toward others).

I believe we were all created with the purpose to serve one another in some way (which vary from person to person as it concerns the details, but the larger purpose remains the same), and if we fail at fulfilling this purpose (for whatever selfish reasons we try and excuse ourselves with), we have failed at being a human. We have failed at doing what we were created for to begin with, the same way a cup fails at its purpose if it fills itself with poison instead of water for others to drink from (because the cup selfishly thought the poison would benefit itself, despite the cup ending up unhappy, unfulfilled, and eroded away in the end by that very same choice to hold poison rather than water for others).

I have to periodically remind myself that an empty cup cannot fill others', and that setting some boundaries is not inherently selfish or wrong.

I've put some random images including some test results that could maybe help in figuring out my type? I cant figure it out myself so help me.

I used the template for this because i just like answering questions.

What do you do as a job or as a career (if you have one)? Do you like it? Why or why not? If you are not working, what kind of job do you want to do or what are you studying?

I'm in a technical school and i study ICT. Computer science is nice too, without excel, access and all the other microsoft office stuff.

Describe your childhood/upbringing. Did it have any kind of ideological or structured influence? How did you respond to it? Did you have any significant negative experiences that may have affected how you think or behave?

My parents used to argue a lot. They're divorced now but i still find the memories of their arguments unpleasant. I'm not going to go in-depth about what exactly happened between them, but it sure impacted my grades and i feel like i would have been a better person if they just got along.

If you had to spend an entire weekend by yourself, how would you feel? Would you feel lonely or refreshed?

I wouldn't feel lonely, there were moments where i did have weekends to myself and i just found myself doing something. But preferably, i would spend that weekend doing some schoolwork and playing some games with my friends.

What is your relation with movement and your surroundings? For instance do you prefer a sport or outdoors event? If an outdoors event what is it? And why? If not what type of activities do you tend to engage?

I don't like any sports, like actually. I would only go out to an outdoor event like a local fair to buy stuff for cheap and scavenge for something good. I would also attend comic cons or some other cosplay meetups, but none of them occur close to me.

How curious are you? Do you have more ideas then you can execute? What are your curiosities about? What are your ideas about - is it environmental or conceptual, and can you please elaborate?

I don't exactly know how to answer this one, but i think i do have a lot of ideas, and i need to put them in order to actually execute them because there's just so much i want to do. I would say i'm just curious about things i like and could be useful to me. I'm not interested in things that i don't care about, that's for sure.

Would you enjoy taking on a leadership position? Do you think you would be good at it? What would your leadership style be?

I don't mind leadership, but in the deep depths of my heart i'm worried about being seen as some stupid/incompetent leader which is why i usually let others take charge in things like group projects, but i would like that to change someday. I would be the type of leader to assign people tasks and complain when someone's slacking off. I wouldn't yell at people though, i know how much it discourages them from working.

Do you prefer hands on activities or working with your hands in some form? Describe your activities.

I only like hands on activities that i'm good at. Like drawing, dissembling stuff, that sort of thing.

Are you artistic? If yes, describe your art? If you are not particular artistic but can appreciate art please likewise describe what forums of art you enjoy. Please explain your answer.

I used to be very artistic when i was younger, and now i still draw occassionally, but i'm just an amateur if you compare a lot of artists my age to me. I feel like my art is usually stiff and boring to look at, i always chicken scratch whatever sketch i make and only finish it if i feel like it's nice looking. I also think i lack an original art style and need to mix other artists art style into one to make something good. I only like to draw creatures (especially dragons) than humanoids of any kind. There's this one graphic novelist whose art style i'm constantly copying now and i don't feel like changing it, so yeah. And i only do basic shading, something like 'pillow shading' because i don't feel like studying how shadows work and all that. As long as it looks good, it should be fine.

What's your opinion about the past, present, and future? How do you deal with them?

I usually think about the past when i'm sad and i need to predict what a teacher, for example, will say or do during a test, for example (to know how to cheat around them, yknow). When it comes to the present i like cherishing moments and doing everything to grant me a good future. I really don't wanna work some boring job, so i'm basically being as productive as i can be to get good grades, more knowledge, all that. If i do land a nice job i'm satisfied with, whatever comes next just doesn't require much planning, except for things like monthly calendars or some silly grocery lists.

How do you act when others request your help to do something (anything)? If you would decide to help them, why would you do so?

I would help anyone as long as it's something i can solve/do. I won't help with anything i find difficult or something like mathematical equations. I just suck at it although i wish i didn't.

How important is efficiency and productivity to you?

I think those two things are important to me. I would hate for people to view me as lazy, stupid or lame because i couldn't open a book and study or anything. I wouldn't be the type to do productive things all day though, that's a little overboard.

What are your hobbies? Why do you like them?

I basically like drawing (although i'm not the best at it, as i mentioned earlier), anything about computers, and i would like to make videos in the future. I like those simply because i do, no idea how to describe it, it just naturally came to me like that.

What is your learning style? What kind of learning environments do you struggle with most? Why do you like/struggle with these learning styles? Do you prefer classes involving memorization, logic, creativity, or your physical senses?

I like to learn theory of subjects that don't require you to solve million of equations. I don't like chaotic or disruptive environments, i can't focus on studying with music on, so i need to be somewhere peaceful, like my room. I basically like memorizing stuff, a little bit of logic as long as it's not maths or anything like that, and creativity is nice too.

How good are you at strategizing? Do you easily break up projects into manageable tasks? Or do you have a tendency to wing projects and improvise as you go?

As long as the project is thorough about what needs to be done, turning it into tasks won't be a problem. Improvizing sounds a little risky to me.

What's important to you and why? A nice life, money, good image, reputation, and i do like being seen. This is simply stuff i always liked and i can't exactly elaborate on why.

How attached are you to reality? Do you daydream often, or do you pay attention to what's around you? If you do daydream, are you aware of your surroundings while you do so?

I only daydream when something is incredibly boring. I do think i pay attention to what's happening around me, and i wouldn't miss an interesting moment in class for example.

Imagine you are alone in a blank, empty room. There is nothing for you to do and no one to talk to. What do you think about?

I would think about the stuff i could do and maybe my life. But after a while, i would just think about getting out of that room.

How long do you take to make an important decision? And do you change your mind once you've made it?

I take long to think about something. I think i can be quite stubborn about things i'm sure about, so i would only change my mind only if someone convinced me why a different decision would be better.

How long do you take to process your emotions? How important are emotions in your life?

I don't think they're that important, when i get sad for example i always tell myself to suck it up because it doesn't bring anything useful. But obviously i'm not completely cold or a stoneface.

Do you ever catch yourself agreeing with others just to appease them and keep the conversation going? How often? Why?

No, i think i can be honest when i dont agree with others and if someone doesn't want to talk because of that, i don't find it a problem.

Do you break rules often? Do you think authority should be challenged, or that they know better? If you do break rules, why would you?

I really don't, unless it's something silly, like modding apps, crosstrading in games, etc. Authority is obviously here to keep peace and i won't argue with that, unless they get all mighty because they're 'superior' or something. Serious rule breaks are never okay.

What is the ideal life, in your opinion? A peaceful life on some island without a worry about the future, with a nice paying job and preferably someone around. I would also love being rich and sleeping on gold. But i think the island part is for retirement.

Ill appreciate every answer. Thanks!