Ni or Ne dom? (INFJ??)
Hello everyone
For context I’m diagnosed with autism/adhd. I’m also young so I don’t have much life experience — like 19 out of the other 100 years. So that’s the other thing I think as to why I’m struggling.
I’ve been going down a rabbit hole of cognitive functions to try and determine which mbti I am. I was introduced to this via the tests but the tests, of course, can’t be accurate so I tried researching the cognitive function descriptions.
What’s really tripping me up is these big generalisations of cognitive function doms. I’m not a fan of people relying on stereotypes.
So far I’m debating between being Ni or Ne dom. Potentially??? — INFJ.
But I really don’t want to be biased: here’s my reflection of being ‘Ni-Dom’
When having an initial impression of somebody based of looks, I think most times I can have an immediate solid idea or sense as to what kind of person they’ll be. But I remind myself that there are 8 billion people in the world and technically endless possibilities for a multitude of things, (I don’t truly know this person yet), the future can’t be fully linear and clear otherwise by that logic I’ll always be correct — so I want to hold that the thought for now but I keep a few other senses as to what else kind of a person they’ll could be otherwise. Kind of like “possibility 1, 2, 3 — so far I’m ‘confident’ in leaning to possibility x but let’s wait and see.”
When I say that there’s “technically endless possibilities for things” I don’t mean that I love to enrich myself in it for a longer period and love to not eventually lock down on 1 possibility/choice
This applies to interpretations of art as well. Abstract art fascinates me but I can’t always form a cleanly clear cohesive big picture meaning if it is just super super abstract with so many details — but I can still get a vibe. I do love details and appreciate them because how else are you meant to see the big picture without details? To ruminate in them for too long without narrowing down to one meaning though is to suffocate.
Is this really Ni dom? I think it might help me to get a third party check so I appreciate if anyone reads this and confirms