ISFP ESFP or ESTP??
I’m the oldest in my family.
When someone hurts me, or something like that happens, I analyze the situation objectively instead of letting my emotions guide me. If, objectively, it doesn’t make sense, then it’s hurtful; otherwise, I don’t care.
The only strong emotions I feel are only attachments to others. I really love people, especially my friends, i can seems emotional, expressive when i show that I like them.
But overall, it’s all quite superficial. My heart is “above all that.” Nothing really gets through to me. When I’m with people or when I meet them, things stay superficial, and if it doesn’t work out, I can easily forget and move on, because I just ignore what’s superficial. Nothing really affects me. That’s why I need to do everything with other people. Alone, I feel bored, emotionally flat, and depressed. If I go to the pool or into town, I want to go with people. If I go to school, I want to be surrounded by people. Or with someone I like and that I approached.
But it’s impossible for me to stay with the same people. I end up getting bored, I look around and think “wow, all these people!”, and I can’t stay with the same ones. I constantly meet new people, I add them on Instagram and suggest we meet just for fun. In the end, I don’t have deep friendships.
And then I end up deleting everyone, telling myself what’s the point of keeping in touch if I liked them anyway. In the end, I’m always alone inside. I’m very independent and capable of being alone; it’s not a dependency.
Group social situations (like voice calls) leave me rather indifferent, especially online.
I’m more comfortable in real life, going out and doing things rather than just talking.
In groups, I tend to observe, or I sometimes have a brief spontaneous emotional outburst, but then I go back to being calm and I stay sitting quietly without talking.
I’m very observant: people, my environment, everything. I can get to know someone just by observing them.
I’m analytical and logical. I like talking about my life to others and sharing a lot of my private life. I approach a lot of people, whether they’re alone or attractive. I’d like to have a lot of friends and go out.
I don’t necessarily try to start conversations, but sometimes I become very talkative, and other times not at all. I’m talkative when I feel emotions.
I like chatting with my friends by messages after classes, sending them texts and Reels. I ask them what they’re eating, what they’re doing, I’m curious!
I can sometimes seem very expressive and attached, like ENFPs and ESFPs, and other times stoic, like INTPs and ISTPs ?