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I wonder as is this a normal age difference no one would care about in universe or would peers of both parties be suspect

for example does the older person come across as dating that young as they can't get women their age so should they be portrayed in a negative light? Like being seen as a manchild/loser/bum etc

honestly what's the most realistic way to depict this romance and how would readers feel about this sort of relationship?

Child marriage is a problem now and we have more advancements showing the harms that are biological/physical as well

but was wondering were Hausa/Igbo/Fula etc physicians aware of. the harms of very early pregnancy under 15? Any notes or stuff indicating that

So my friend told me she went on a few dates with a dude who was 19 a few months back and she was 25. She said it was cuz she wanted to do a hook up but ended not doing so cuz the dude was too young

But am feeling the ick/appalled even that she even went on dates despite not doing anything. I mean if someone told you they went on dates with a 16/17 year old, it'd be gross and its the same thing honestly as she went out with a child

So am not sure but leaning towards cutting her of or telling people tbh

Curious what would your thoughts be and why?

For example 18 and 26-30 I'd be disgusted and suspicious so how about this?

I wonder how bad it is and all?

So I am concerned when white women say this about all men which includes black men

a white woman said she believes men deserve less rights and should start in jail

However I am wary as this comes from a context of white women having a history of enslaving and getting black men lynched and mass incarceration

So are you also wary of these statements

I wonder as a friend (younger) did this for 2 years and they don't seem to regret it

but I heard people say 22 is ethically a child to someone almost 30 so what's your view honestly?

I wonder as one is a young adult and the other isn't so is it odd?

People use phrases such as kids and young adults so does that mean its creepy?

So was wondering as would not do this as feel its not compatible but that said..does it fall under grooming perhaps

I saw people say this but i dunno tbh

feel mid 20s is old enough and 30s not that old

I mean things such as

18/21

19/22

20/23

22/25

On twitter see many black women say these age gaps are weird or would not do them and I have to wonder why is that?

These are nothing burgers and people in similar age range going out so what's the fuss?

So a friend of mine posted a statement in support of the black community and against racism and in it they said "my black brothers and sisters"

So tbh not sure how to interpret this as good or bad or something as I feel they meant in humanity or maybe they get it but are a little confused

Anyway what' s y'alls take?

For example a 28 year old having a celeb crush on a 21 year old would that be a red flag

If it was 30 and 18 crimson flag but how for 28 and 21?

Does this imply they find 17 year olds hot too?

Was wondering what are the etiquettes of follow ups after a few days? Are they seen as annoying or desperate or invasive or fine?

So my sibling (NB) is 27 and once said they don't think 27/21 is that bad to date

Tbh I felt that was weird to say to be ok with someone that old dating someone so young and gave me the ick

Today we were talking about celeb crushes and brought up someone 17 and asked if they would date

They got annoyed and said that was a dumb question and they said ofc not

I then brought up how they said 27/21 isnt that bad and they said its not even comparable

Anyway they are pissed at me now so AITA?

So at a campus club and we were hosting an event. One of the people brought up if we can play songs that have the N word and said if we do play it, the crowd can't say it as most would be white

I was there and don't use it personally say but brought up jokingly I can say it

and my friend there said it'd be funny to hear me say it cuz I don't but then her expression changed to one of realization/embarrassment and realized it could sound bad and clarified she didn't mean it in the way that its a funny word or in that way

So what to do here?

So tried to use the Law to manifest being friends with someone in town but 0 luck and they are leaving

So I wonder why didn't it work and what may I do?