u/FORCE924

I am in college and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years. I commute to college now from where I live with my parents and I am off of school and working for summer break. My boyfriend lives with his family who are great and live much closer to my campus than me. So I told my parents for the fall semester I would go live with him and them to be closer to campus because I have many more classes. They are semi okay with that and know I love them and will always visit. I am the oldest and have been made the unofficial third parent for my siblings. So living at home I help cook and take them to school, which I enjoy the extra time with them but my brother who is a teenager gets to do whatever he wants. He is an actual toddler in a grown man’s body. Which means throwing literal fits when things do not go his way. My dad does nothing my mom tries to be his friend and never parents or gives punishment which is i guess how we got here. We all tip toe around his behavior and my mom just gives him what he wants to keep him from reacting. My dad does nothing to parent either, I have on occasion stepped in to give him and them a reality check (through therapy I rarely step in parenting or tell them what they should do anymore) but I am tired of watching it. I am sick of watching them let him, my siblings, and my parents run the house and their finances ground it stresses me out because I fear what they will do when they do not help themselves. I am sick of watching his behavior and nothing be done about it, I am tired of listening to the screaming and slamming. But I still love my family and I dont want to make them feel hurt or abandoned if I move into my boyfriends house early. my relationships with them have gotten so good recently and I feel like staying here will make them turn sour. I would like an explanation for why I move there early to give them to avoid fighting and pain. But idk

I am in college and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years. I commute to college now from where I live with my parents and I am off of school and working for summer break. My boyfriend lives with his family who are great and live much closer to my campus than me. So I told my parents for the fall semester I would go live with him and them to be closer to campus because I have many more classes. They are semi okay with that and know I love them and will always visit. I am the oldest and have been made the unofficial third parent for my siblings. So living at home I help cook and take them to school, which I enjoy the extra time with them but my brother who is a teenager gets to do whatever he wants. He is an actual toddler in a grown man’s body. Which means throwing literal fits when things do not go his way. My dad does nothing my mom tries to be his friend and never parents or gives punishment which is i guess how we got here. We all tip toe around his behavior and my mom just gives him what he wants to keep him from reacting. My dad does nothing to parent either, I have on occasion stepped in to give him and them a reality check (through therapy I rarely step in parenting or tell them what they should do anymore) but I am tired of watching it. I am sick of watching them let him, my siblings, and my parents run the house and their finances ground it stresses me out because I fear what they will do when they do not help themselves. I am sick of watching his behavior and nothing be done about it, I am tired of listening to the screaming and slamming. But I still love my family and I dont want to make them feel hurt or abandoned if I move into my boyfriends house early. my relationships with them have gotten so good recently and I feel like staying here will make them turn sour. I would like an explanation for why I move there early to give them to avoid fighting and pain. But idk

I am in college and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years. I commute to college now from where I live with my parents and I am off of school and working for summer break. My boyfriend lives with his family who are great and live much closer to my campus than me. So I told my parents for the fall semester I would go live with him and them to be closer to campus because I have many more classes. They are semi okay with that and know I love them and will always visit. I am the oldest and have been made the unofficial third parent for my siblings. So living at home I help cook and take them to school, which I enjoy the extra time with them but my brother who is a teenager gets to do whatever he wants. He is an actual toddler in a grown man’s body. Which means throwing literal fits when things do not go his way. My dad does nothing my mom tries to be his friend and never parents or gives punishment which is i guess how we got here. We all tip toe around his behavior and my mom just gives him what he wants to keep him from reacting. My dad does nothing to parent either, I have on occasion stepped in to give him and them a reality check (through therapy I rarely step in parenting or tell them what they should do anymore) but I am tired of watching it. I am sick of watching them let him, my siblings, and my parents run the house and their finances ground it stresses me out because I fear what they will do when they do not help themselves. I am sick of watching his behavior and nothing be done about it, I am tired of listening to the screaming and slamming. But I still love my family and I dont want to make them feel hurt or abandoned if I move into my boyfriends house early. my relationships with them have gotten so good recently and I feel like staying here will make them turn sour. I would like an explanation for why I move there early to give them to avoid fighting and pain. But idk

I am in college and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years. I commute to college now from where I live with my parents and I am off of school and working for summer break. My boyfriend lives with his family who are great and live much closer to my campus than me. So I told my parents for the fall semester I would go live with him and them to be closer to campus because I have many more classes. They are semi okay with that and know I love them and will always visit. I am the oldest and have been made the unofficial third parent for my siblings. So living at home I help cook and take them to school, which I enjoy the extra time with them but my brother who is a teenager gets to do whatever he wants. He is an actual toddler in a grown man’s body. Which means throwing literal fits when things do not go his way. My dad does nothing my mom tries to be his friend and never parents or gives punishment which is i guess how we got here. We all tip toe around his behavior and my mom just gives him what he wants to keep him from reacting. My dad does nothing to parent either, I have on occasion stepped in to give him and them a reality check (through therapy I rarely step in parenting or tell them what they should do anymore) but I am tired of watching it. I am sick of watching them let him, my siblings, and my parents run the house and their finances ground it stresses me out because I fear what they will do when they do not help themselves. I am sick of watching his behavior and nothing be done about it, I am tired of listening to the screaming and slamming. But I still love my family and I dont want to make them feel hurt or abandoned if I move into my boyfriends house early. my relationships with them have gotten so good recently and I feel like staying here will make them turn sour. I would like an explanation for why I move there early to give them to avoid fighting and pain. But idk

I am in college and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years. I commute to college now from where I live with my parents and I am off of school and working for summer break. My boyfriend lives with his family who are great and live much closer to my campus than me. So I told my parents for the fall semester I would go live with him and them to be closer to campus because I have many more classes. They are semi okay with that and know I love them and will always visit. I am the oldest and have been made the unofficial third parent for my siblings. So living at home I help cook and take them to school, which I enjoy the extra time with them but my brother who is a teenager gets to do whatever he wants. He is an actual toddler in a grown man’s body. Which means throwing literal fits when things do not go his way. My dad does nothing my mom tries to be his friend and never parents or gives punishment which is i guess how we got here. We all tip toe around his behavior and my mom just gives him what he wants to keep him from reacting. My dad does nothing to parent either, I have on occasion stepped in to give him and them a reality check (through therapy I rarely step in parenting or tell them what they should do anymore) but I am tired of watching it. I am sick of watching them let him, my siblings, and my parents run the house and their finances ground it stresses me out because I fear what they will do when they do not help themselves. I am sick of watching his behavior and nothing be done about it, I am tired of listening to the screaming and slamming. But I still love my family and I dont want to make them feel hurt or abandoned if I move into my boyfriends house early. my relationships with them have gotten so good recently and I feel like staying here will make them turn sour. I would like an explanation for why I move there early to give them to avoid fighting and pain. But idk

I am in college and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years. I commute to college now from where I live with my parents and I am off of school and working for summer break. My boyfriend lives with his family who are great and live much closer to my campus than me. So I told my parents for the fall semester I would go live with him and them to be closer to campus because I have many more classes. They are semi okay with that and know I love them and will always visit. I am the oldest and have been made the unofficial third parent for my siblings. So living at home I help cook and take them to school, which I enjoy the extra time with them but my brother who is a teenager gets to do whatever he wants. He is an actual toddler in a grown man’s body. Which means throwing literal fits when things do not go his way. My dad does nothing my mom tries to be his friend and never parents or gives punishment which is i guess how we got here. We all tip toe around his behavior and my mom just gives him what he wants to keep him from reacting. My dad does nothing to parent either, I have on occasion stepped in to give him and them a reality check (through therapy I rarely step in parenting or tell them what they should do anymore) but I am tired of watching it. I am sick of watching them let him, my siblings, and my parents run the house and their finances ground it stresses me out because I fear what they will do when they do not help themselves. I am sick of watching his behavior and nothing be done about it, I am tired of listening to the screaming and slamming. But I still love my family and I dont want to make them feel hurt or abandoned if I move into my boyfriends house early. my relationships with them have gotten so good recently and I feel like staying here will make them turn sour. I would like an explanation for why I move there early to give them to avoid fighting and pain. But idk

I am in college and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years. I commute to college now from where I live with my parents and I am off of school and working for summer break. My boyfriend lives with his family who are great and live much closer to my campus than me. So I told my parents for the fall semester I would go live with him and them to be closer to campus because I have many more classes. They are semi okay with that and know I love them and will always visit. I am the oldest and have been made the unofficial third parent for my siblings. So living at home I help cook and take them to school, which I enjoy the extra time with them but my brother who is a teenager gets to do whatever he wants. He is an actual toddler in a grown man’s body. Which means throwing literal fits when things do not go his way. My dad does nothing my mom tries to be his friend and never parents or gives punishment which is i guess how we got here. We all tip toe around his behavior and my mom just gives him what he wants to keep him from reacting. My dad does nothing to parent either, I have on occasion stepped in to give him and them a reality check (through therapy I rarely step in parenting or tell them what they should do anymore) but I am tired of watching it. I am sick of watching them let him, my siblings, and my parents run the house and their finances ground it stresses me out because I fear what they will do when they do not help themselves. I am sick of watching his behavior and nothing be done about it, I am tired of listening to the screaming and slamming. But I still love my family and I dont want to make them feel hurt or abandoned if I move into my boyfriends house early. my relationships with them have gotten so good recently and I feel like staying here will make them turn sour. I would like an explanation for why I move there early to give them to avoid fighting and pain. But idk

I am in college and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years. I commute to college now from where I live with my parents and I am off of school and working for summer break. My boyfriend lives with his family who are great and live much closer to my campus than me. So I told my parents for the fall semester I would go live with him and them to be closer to campus because I have many more classes. They are semi okay with that and know I love them and will always visit. I am the oldest and have been made the unofficial third parent for my siblings. So living at home I help cook and take them to school, which I enjoy the extra time with them but my brother who is a teenager gets to do whatever he wants. He is an actual toddler in a grown man’s body. Which means throwing literal fits when things do not go his way. My dad does nothing my mom tries to be his friend and never parents or gives punishment which is i guess how we got here. We all tip toe around his behavior and my mom just gives him what he wants to keep him from reacting. My dad does nothing to parent either, I have on occasion stepped in to give him and them a reality check (through therapy I rarely step in parenting or tell them what they should do anymore) but I am tired of watching it. I am sick of watching them let him, my siblings, and my parents run the house and their finances ground it stresses me out because I fear what they will do when they do not help themselves. I am sick of watching his behavior and nothing be done about it, I am tired of listening to the screaming and slamming. But I still love my family and I dont want to make them feel hurt or abandoned if I move into my boyfriends house early. my relationships with them have gotten so good recently and I feel like staying here will make them turn sour. I would like an explanation for why I move there early to give them to avoid fighting and pain. But idk

TL;DR SHOULD I LEAVE MY FAMILY AND MOVE IN WITH MY BOYFRIENDS FAMILY

I am in college and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years. I commute to college now from where I live with my parents and I am off of school and working for summer break. My boyfriend lives with his family who are great and live much closer to my campus than me. So I told my parents for the fall semester I would go live with him and them to be closer to campus because I have many more classes. They are semi okay with that and know I love them and will always visit. I am the oldest and have been made the unofficial third parent for my siblings. So living at home I help cook and take them to school, which I enjoy the extra time with them but my brother who is a teenager gets to do whatever he wants. He is an actual toddler in a grown man’s body. Which means throwing literal fits when things do not go his way. My dad does nothing my mom tries to be his friend and never parents or gives punishment which is i guess how we got here. We all tip toe around his behavior and my mom just gives him what he wants to keep him from reacting. My dad does nothing to parent either, I have on occasion stepped in to give him and them a reality check (through therapy I rarely step in parenting or tell them what they should do anymore) but I am tired of watching it. I am sick of watching them let him, my siblings, and my parents run the house and their finances ground it stresses me out because I fear what they will do when they do not help themselves. I am sick of watching his behavior and nothing be done about it, I am tired of listening to the screaming and slamming. But I still love my family and I dont want to make them feel hurt or abandoned if I move into my boyfriends house early. my relationships with them have gotten so good recently and I feel like staying here will make them turn sour. I would like an explanation for why I move there early to give them to avoid fighting and pain. But idk

I am in college and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years. I commute to college now from where I live with my parents and I am off of school and working for summer break. My boyfriend lives with his family who are great and live much closer to my campus than me. So I told my parents for the fall semester I would go live with him and them to be closer to campus because I have many more classes. They are semi okay with that and know I love them and will always visit. I am the oldest and have been made the unofficial third parent for my siblings. So living at home I help cook and take them to school, which I enjoy the extra time with them but my brother who is a teenager gets to do whatever he wants. He is an actual toddler in a grown man’s body. Which means throwing literal fits when things do not go his way. My dad does nothing my mom tries to be his friend and never parents or gives punishment which is i guess how we got here. We all tip toe around his behavior and my mom just gives him what he wants to keep him from reacting. My dad does nothing to parent either, I have on occasion stepped in to give him and them a reality check (through therapy I rarely step in parenting or tell them what they should do anymore) but I am tired of watching it. I am sick of watching them let him, my siblings, and my parents run the house and their finances ground it stresses me out because I fear what they will do when they do not help themselves. I am sick of watching his behavior and nothing be done about it, I am tired of listening to the screaming and slamming. But I still love my family and I dont want to make them feel hurt or abandoned if I move into my boyfriends house early. my relationships with them have gotten so good recently and I feel like staying here will make them turn sour. I would like an explanation for why I move there early to give them to avoid fighting and pain. But idk