r/makemychoice

HELP!!!! My partners 21st birthday is coming up VERY soon and so I'm trying to think of what to make him!!! He gave me a few flavour profiles that he's been really into lately so I've come up with an idea but need help making a final decision !!!

Option 1.

A rich chocolate cake with a peanut butter cheesecake on top of it, frosted with a biscoff flavoured whipped ganache

OR

Option 2.

A rich chocolate cake with a biscoff cheesecake on top of it, frosted in a peanut butter whipped ganache

I've never had biscoff nor cookie butter so I'm not sure what it tastes like/ how sweet it is. Neither of us like SUPER sweet things so whatever would be least sweet is preferred??? Ik it's ironic cause this will definitely be sweet and rich but I want it to not be intolerable

TLDR:

-chocolate cake with a peanut butter cheesecake and whipped biscoff ganache

Or

-chocolate cake with a biscoff cheesecake with whipped peanut butter ganache

option 1 is switching to a night shift that pays slightly more and has fewer people around, so it might be less stressful in some ways. the downside is it would completely flip my sleep schedule and i’m not sure how well i’d adjust long term, especially with social life and general energy levels during the day.

option 2 is staying on my current day shift, which is stable and easier to manage in terms of routine. i already have my sleep and daily habits built around it, but the pay is lower and there’s more constant activity and supervision during work hours.

i keep going back and forth because one option feels better financially and the other feels better for my overall routine and health.

tl;dr: switch to higher paying night shift with a reversed schedule or stay on stable day shift with lower pay?

I’m 20 and make around $120k/year before tax working oil & gas, but I work 12-hour shifts with a 1-hour commute each way on a 5 on / 5 off schedule, so my workdays are basically just work and sleep. I have an opportunity for a different job starting around ~$80k before tax with 8-hour days Monday to Friday, little to no commute, and a more normal schedule plus union benefits and room to move up. I know it’s a pay cut, but I’d have way more free time and a better routine—would I be crazy to make that switch or should I stick it out for the money while I’m young?

TL;DR: $120k job with long hours vs $80k job with normal hours — should I switch?

TL;DR I am trying to make my own money and i chose to degsin notebooks digital copies so i want suggests what kind of nb would you pick? Help me..

I F22 and M26 BF who is long distance got an Airbnb for a bit over a month in his country and im inviting my dad to come for 4-5 nights because he is off work and it's his birthday. This is the first time he's meeting my BF. We've been together for almost 2 years.

There's 3 bedrooms - a main one with king bed, a 2nd with queen, and a 3rd with twin beds.

My BF and I have always slept together in the same bedroom but out of comfort for my dad, should we either show him the twin room and say we're sleeping in there, one of us in the main and the other in the twin (while my dad takes the queen) or should we sleep in the same bed and go in it after he falls asleep and wake up before him? Or not care at all, haha?

When my mom came for 1 night, we slept in the same bedroom since there was only one while she was on the couch.

My parents have been split up for a while now because of past anger issues he had but he is calmer with me now but I am still a bit iffy. I say this in case you guys say to ask him directly, I'd rather figure this out and it's my 1st truly serious relationship.

Sorry, maybe this sounds silly and a 'non issue' but I am curious what other people would do in my situation.

TL;DR: Planning to invite my dad for a short visit with my long-distance BF and I. Unsure about sleeping arrangements with my BF - should we sleep separately or discreetly in the same bed? Thinking about what’s respectful and comfortable, especially since it’s his first time meeting him.