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Frustrated

Frustrated

I’ve been in a calorie deficit for about 2.5 months and have lost roughly 1 stone and 10 pounds. This is extremely slow for me, and I’m feeling really frustrated by it.

Visually, I’m a little smaller around my waist, but overall there hasn’t been a dramatic difference, which is upsetting because I expected more noticeable changes by now. I haven’t been exercising much because I have a history of hypothalamic amenorrhea from over-exercising, so I’ve been trying to be careful not to overdo it this time.

Despite that, my period has also skipped this month for some reason, which is adding to my worry. I’ve been eating consistently around 1,300–1,400 calories a day, and I’m 5’4” for reference.

What’s confusing me is that usually after about three months of dieting, people tend to start noticing changes. Not a single person has mentioned anything to me, which I understand given the small visual difference—but I can’t figure out why the progress is so minimal overall. It’s starting to make me wonder if something like a thyroid/ hormone imbalance issue could be affecting things.

u/Alert_Truck105 — 8 hours ago
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Lost my youth but got it back and some. [29]

543lbs) to 265LBS. Lost 273 pounds in 2.5 years and not where I want to be still pushing. NO OZEMPIC OR GLP.

My name Is Johnny, from Texas originally just recently moved to Florida! Im 29 spent most of youth being extremely obese. One day I decided I had enough. Went cold turkey and haven't looked back. I tried all the gimmicks, did one surgery the lapband. Lost 80 pounds but gained it back and more all the way to 543.

Only thing that works if you change your mind, before you change your diet 😉

I decided to get into the Roofing Industry in sales. Had to make a transition mentally aswell. Hardest part was accepting im not the same person.

You learn human nature to the core seeing how people you knew all your life treat you differently. Not bitter! Just observant :)

I learned to cherish and value those people who treated me the same.

Im not boasting lol but I can say honestly Ive had much more success with the ladies.

I was counted out & basically lived that life in "600lb pound life"

I decided I was worth more than that.

The point of the this post is to hopefully reach that one person who thinks its too late or the goal is to far to reach. If I could do it, YOU GOT THIS!

Please feel free to message me or ask anything literally.

This is a photo of my journey

https://share.icloud.com/photos/056wkxGe2i5GdQHUu9ySUopVw

u/DryBanana804 — 20 hours ago

Just starting my weight loss

I'm 24 and recently had my first born son back in March and decided I wanted to change I've been eating healthier I stopped drinking* I think that's where most of my weight came from* and I've been running but I'd love to start going to the gym and get some pointers or tips thank you in advance

u/NOAHHHforthewin — 5 hours ago
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Struggling to lose/motivate

I’m 5’4 and around 140 lbs now, but I was close to 200 when I was 15, so I’ve already lost a decent amount—but for the past 2ish years I’ve been stuck in this cycle of losing and gaining the same 10 pounds. I can’t seem to actually stay “lean,” and it’s so frustrating. I eat pretty healthy overall, but I’m in college and I do go out/drink like 2–3 nights a week, which usually turns into drunk eating, so I know that’s not helping. I do hot mat Pilates 3–4 times a week and walk 10–13k steps daily (tracked on my Fitbit), so I feel like I’m doing a lot right, but my body just isn’t changing the way I want. I also feel like I under-eat during the week and then overdo it on weekends, which probably messes everything up. Honestly, I just hate how I feel in my body right now and it feels weirdly out of control. I get random bursts of motivation but nothing ever sticks long-term—does anyone have advice for something sustainable that actually works?

Edit: I eat low calorie meals and have low calorie swaps. I try not to restrict heavy but I am disciplined. I don’t feel that my problem is calorie dense food but rather over eating. I do track sometimes but can be inconsistent due to life.

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u/hello685437 — 19 hours ago
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3 months in -12.6 pounds down

Top photos are Jan 19th- 221.1lbs

Bottom photos April 20 -208.5 lbs

Height 5’6” Goal weight 165lbs

Slow and steady🫡losing about 1 pound per week.

I walk everyday and get about 5k+ steps a day, gym twice a week lifting heavy, tracking calories and eating in a calorie deficit

I have noticed since I increased my protein intake in January, I stay full waaaay longer. I used to be thinking about food constantly and always needing a snack but increasing protein has been such a game changer for me. Anyone else feel that ?

u/Kindly_Maybe_2059 — 1 day ago
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When is the fastest you’ve lost weight and how?

I’m trying to loose weight and eat to do it quickly..how quickly have you lost weight and in what way and how much?

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u/kampaiiii — 1 day ago

Lost 41kg ( 90 pounds )

Hello i started my fatloss journey in december and now i lost in total 41kg

i started at 117,9kg and right now i'm at 76kg

i'm 183cm tall and 24 years old

how is it possible that i still have/ am fat

i have no sixpack and still fat around the lower belly and the chest

and i train 5 times per week

i sleep 8 hours

i do everyday +/- 15000 steps with a backpack with 15kg in it

i eat everyday around 1500calories ( and yes i track them ) and about 160gr. protein

i want to get shredded and to have clear abs

butbi thought i would get that when i reach 80 kg but no now at 76kg and still nothing

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u/Substantial-Yard469 — 4 hours ago
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non-scale victory!

same pants, some time apart. while i'd realized the need for a belt, i didn't remember just how tight these pants were when i was at my heaviest until i came across these pictures. the zipper literally didn't stay closed all the way!

also, even though you can't really see it, the chain attached to my belt loops hangs lower now.

first two pictures: ~110 kg

last picture: ~89 kg

(goal weight: 60 kg)

and the progress continues...

u/cazookiddo — 1 day ago
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My love handles are jiggly and falling too much

I lost 20 kg in the last six months and have 20 kg more to go, but the issue is my love handles are much jiggler than before and Now they are falling too much compared to earlier, as I can see in my past photos

Love handles are my biggest insecurity it ruins everything of my body from back

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Progress going so slow now… need help😔😩

So the last time I posted was about 5ish months ago?? I had just hit 180 and was just starting to get frustrated that the progress had start slowing down despite me being consistent.

Since then, the lowest weight I’ve had was about two weeks ago, where I weighed in at 176.8. Currently, I’m just jumping around between 177-178 and will lose a few ounces each week.

My weight is so sensitive to my period/cycle that there are some weeks I am bloated and don’t lose anything.

In the beginning of my weight loss, I was losing .5-1LB a week pretty consistently. It’s been a year now and I feel like my goal weight will take FOREVER to achieve.

I’m currently eating about 1300-1400 calories daily. I still work out at least 4-5 times a week in the gym, and get at least 10-11k steps no matter what.

I’m not going to give up, and I’m just going to keep pushing and hope that I break out of this. Some weeks I’m so discouraged and can’t even look in the mirror, and other days I feel like I see how different I look. I know that’s a pretty universally shared experience while losing weight, but it’s still so discouraging.

I’ve been getting so many comments lately about people noticing how much weight I’ve lost etc, but it’s hard to let that sink in when the scale budges so little. I try not to compare myself to others, but seeing how easily and consistently the scale moves for other people makes me feel like I’m doing something wrong.

Is there any advice anyone has?? Changes they think I should make? I just want to get back to losing .5 a week if I can, or just more consistency in general.

The only changes I have to note are that I started taking a new medication in December, Humira, for Ankylosing spondylitis that I was recently diagnosed with. I’m not aware of any side effects having to do with weight, so I didn’t really factor that in. Additionally, I started taking creatine two weeks ago.

As always, if anyone has any advice, thank you so much!!

Also, just want to give the cliff notes here: 30 Y female, 5’2, started weight loss about April 2025.. SW: 207, CW: 177

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u/Bubbly-Pattern-5281 — 1 day ago

Weight loss journey from June 2025 to current

Hi! I’m new here. I started my weight loss journey in June of 2025. I had the gastric sleeve surgery June 9th, 2025. I have lost over 100 pounds. My starting weight was 325 and I’m currently at 197. Pics are the day before surgery and the current on is from Saturday. I go to the gym 3X a week and drink water all day long. It’s been a journey! My goal is 140.

u/DaGr8Pretndr — 1 day ago
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Progress!

This is my progress as of right now! I am a 5’8” 21 y/o woman and as of right now my weight has been sitting around ~125lbs. At the start of my journey I was 165lbs. I unfortunately don’t have any photos from before December 2025, but I started calorie counting and consuming 1000-1200 calories a day in June of 2025. I started going to the gym and strength training 5x a week in January.

My daily calorie intake is 1200 and I eat 120-130g of protein daily. I don’t really focus on carbs and fats, but I do keep my eye on them while tracking my intake on MyFitnessPal

I go to the gym 5x a week Monday-Friday, my currently routine is Upper (Back & Biceps), Lower (Quads & Glutes), Cardio & Core, Upper (Shoulders, Chest, & Triceps), Lower (Hamstrings & Glutes)

️GUIDANCE/ADVICE NEEDED‼️

As I mentioned, my weight has been sitting around 125lbs. This has been the case for a little while now. My lowest weight has been 122.6lbs but I can’t seem to get any lower than that despite being in a calorie deficit. I have more details covering my weight loss journey on my page, but overall I would just appreciate any advice moving forward on how to decrease my weight (My goal is 120lbs)

u/ItsnotShannnon — 1 day ago
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F/29/5’4 [143lbs > 125lbs= 18lbs] (4 weeks) finally feeling more confident!

Gym. Pilates. Peptides. Calorie Deficit. 💪

u/sienna_blake2 — 3 days ago