u/tessatessa75

We ve been together for 12 years, I met him when I was 21. He was my first boyfriend, first love.

The last 2 years i was in depression+ocd ( had no jobs, so I was staying at home , crying everyday, no intimacy and he cooked meals for me when he came home after his work.. I couldn’t do anything😢. But now I healed.

He left me on Valentine’s Day last year in 2025. With 0 👶🏻0💍0💒. It was horrible, I wasted my best years with him. I thought that I was an old lady and that I will end up alone.

He came back this summer, and left me again after 3 months during Halloween. For the second break up, he was not sure, and wanted some time to think about what he wants because he was lost blabla..

I told him that I will not give him more time to think and he should know ,we are are not in our early twenties to be like that, that he comes back and doesn’t know what he wants. So after the second break up, I blocked him on social media but not iMessage, because maybe he will call me in a few days and regret his decision, But he didn’t call me… He didn’t even try to know if he was blocked everywhere. And he wasn’t blocked everywhere.

And after 4 month, he said on iMessage in the end of February that he waited to be unblocked but it never happend, and told me that he was sorry and he misses me more than ever…

I didn’t answer and 3 weeks after his first message, he texted me again telling me « Eid Mubarak » because part of my family is Muslim, it’s like saying merry Christmas but I didn’t answer.. I didn’t know what to say..

I feel like these 2 messages are not enough for me to answer.. it’s to lazy…with what he did.. I need something more powerful..

Don’t know what do ? Does it mean that he wants us to be together, or he just said that without wanting us to be together and it’s  more like a random message, or just an apology message because he has some regrets or feels guilty ? Thanks a lot

It is my fault? Because of lack of intimacy ? Maybe if I didn’t become sick.. he wouldn’t left me the first time.. I felt guilty that’s why I gave him a second chance.. when we came back together I was not sick anymore..

Should I have given him time to think about what he wants at the second break up and not blocked him of insta and WhatsApp? But at the same time I didn’t block his phone number so he never tried to call me and waited 4 month just to write an easy message?

Many men told me it’s my fault that he left the first time because I was sick and depressed and cooked meals for me with no intimacy and it’s me that I should chase him even if he left me twice. Some men told me that I should have accepted the break the second time and that it was not a real break up because he was no sure if that’s what he wanted..

So it’s my fault because there were no intimacy and that I was sick?🥺

So What should I do , thanks a lot and sorry for my English

Tl ;dr he texted me back after leaving me twice

We ve been together for 12 years, I met him when I was 21. He was my first boyfriend, first love.

The last 2 years i was in depression+ocd ( had no jobs, so I was staying at home , crying everyday, no intimacy and he cooked meals for me when he came home after his work.. I couldn’t do anything😢. But now I healed.

He left me on Valentine’s Day last year in 2025. With 0 👶🏻0💍0💒. It was horrible, I wasted my best years with him. I thought that I was an old lady and that I will end up alone.

He came back this summer, and left me again after 3 months during Halloween. For the second break up, he was not sure, and wanted some time to think about what he wants because he was lost blabla..

I told him that I will not give him more time to think and he should know ,we are are not in our early twenties to be like that, that he comes back and doesn’t know what he wants. So after the second break up, I blocked him on social media but not iMessage, because maybe he will call me in a few days and regret his decision, But he didn’t call me… He didn’t even try to know if he was blocked everywhere. And he wasn’t blocked everywhere.

And after 4 month, he said on iMessage in the end of February that he waited to be unblocked but it never happend, and told me that he was sorry and he misses me more than ever…

I didn’t answer and 3 weeks after his first message, he texted me again telling me « Eid Mubarak » because part of my family is Muslim, it’s like saying merry Christmas but I didn’t answer.. I didn’t know what to say..

I feel like these 2 messages are not enough for me to answer.. it’s to lazy…with what he did.. I need something more powerful..

Don’t know what do ? Does it mean that he wants us to be together, or he just said that without wanting us to be together and it’s  more like a random message, or just an apology message because he has some regrets or feels guilty ? Thanks a lot

It is my fault? Because of lack of intimacy ? Maybe if I didn’t become sick.. he wouldn’t left me the first time.. I felt guilty that’s why I gave him a second chance.. when we came back together I was not sick anymore..

Should I have given him time to think about what he wants at the second break up and not blocked him of insta and WhatsApp? But at the same time I didn’t block his phone number so he never tried to call me and waited 4 month just to write an easy message?

Many men told me it’s my fault that he left the first time because I was sick and depressed and cooked meals for me with no intimacy and it’s me that I should chase him even if he left me twice. Some men told me that I should have accepted the break the second time and that it was not a real break up because he was no sure if that’s what he wanted..

So it’s my fault because there were no intimacy and that I was sick?🥺

So What should I do , thanks a lot and sorry for my English

Tl ;dr he texted me back after leaving me twice

We ve been together for 12 years, I met him when I was 21. He was my first boyfriend, first love.

The last 2 years i was in depression+ocd ( had no jobs, so I was staying at home , crying everyday, no intimacy and he cooked meals for me when he came home after his work.. I couldn’t do anything😢. But now I healed.

He left me on Valentine’s Day last year in 2025. With 0 👶🏻0💍0💒. It was horrible, I wasted my best years with him. I thought that I was an old lady and that I will end up alone.

He came back this summer, and left me again after 3 months during Halloween. For the second break up, he was not sure, and wanted some time to think about what he wants because he was lost blabla..

I told him that I will not give him more time to think and he should know ,we are are not in our early twenties to be like that, that he comes back and doesn’t know what he wants. So after the second break up, I blocked him on social media but not iMessage, because maybe he will call me in a few days and regret his decision, But he didn’t call me… He didn’t even try to know if he was blocked everywhere. And he wasn’t blocked everywhere.

And after 4 month, he said on iMessage in the end of February that he waited to be unblocked but it never happend, and told me that he was sorry and he misses me more than ever…

I didn’t answer and 3 weeks after his first message, he texted me again telling me « Eid Mubarak » because part of my family is Muslim, it’s like saying merry Christmas but I didn’t answer.. I didn’t know what to say..

I feel like these 2 messages are not enough for me to answer.. it’s to lazy…with what he did.. I need something more powerful..

Don’t know what do ? Does it mean that he wants us to be together, or he just said that without wanting us to be together and it’s  more like a random message, or just an apology message because he has some regrets or feels guilty ? Thanks a lot

It is my fault? Because of lack of intimacy ? Maybe if I didn’t become sick.. he wouldn’t left me the first time.. I felt guilty that’s why I gave him a second chance.. when we came back together I was not sick anymore..

Should I have given him time to think about what he wants at the second break up and not blocked him of insta and WhatsApp? But at the same time I didn’t block his phone number so he never tried to call me and waited 4 month just to write an easy message?

Many men told me it’s my fault that he left the first time because I was sick and depressed and cooked meals for me with no intimacy and it’s me that I should chase him even if he left me twice. Some men told me that I should have accepted the break the second time and that it was not a real break up because he was no sure if that’s what he wanted..

So it’s my fault because there were no intimacy and that I was sick?🥺

So What should I do , thanks a lot and sorry for my English

Tl ;dr he texted me back after leaving me twice

We ve been together for 12 years, I met him when I was 21. He was my first boyfriend, first love.

The last 2 years i was in depression+ocd ( had no jobs, so I was staying at home , crying everyday, no intimacy and he cooked meals for me when he came home after his work.. I couldn’t do anything😢. But now I healed.

He left me on Valentine’s Day last year in 2025. With 0 👶🏻0💍0💒. It was horrible, I wasted my best years with him. I thought that I was an old lady and that I will end up alone.

He came back this summer, and left me again after 3 months during Halloween. For the second break up, he was not sure, and wanted some time to think about what he wants because he was lost blabla..

I told him that I will not give him more time to think and he should know ,we are are not in our early twenties to be like that, that he comes back and doesn’t know what he wants. So after the second break up, I blocked him on social media but not iMessage, because maybe he will call me in a few days and regret his decision, But he didn’t call me… He didn’t even try to know if he was blocked everywhere. And he wasn’t blocked everywhere.

And after 4 month, he said on iMessage in the end of February that he waited to be unblocked but it never happend, and told me that he was sorry and he misses me more than ever…

I didn’t answer and 3 weeks after his first message, he texted me again telling me « Eid Mubarak » because part of my family is Muslim, it’s like saying merry Christmas but I didn’t answer.. I didn’t know what to say..

I feel like these 2 messages are not enough for me to answer.. it’s to lazy…with what he did.. I need something more powerful..

Don’t know what do ? Does it mean that he wants us to be together, or he just said that without wanting us to be together and it’s  more like a random message, or just an apology message because he has some regrets or feels guilty ? Thanks a lot

It is my fault? Because of lack of intimacy ? Maybe if I didn’t become sick.. he wouldn’t left me the first time.. I felt guilty that’s why I gave him a second chance.. when we came back together I was not sick anymore..

Should I have given him time to think about what he wants at the second break up and not blocked him of insta and WhatsApp? But at the same time I didn’t block his phone number so he never tried to call me and waited 4 month just to write an easy message?

Many men told me it’s my fault that he left the first time because I was sick and depressed and cooked meals for me with no intimacy and it’s me that I should chase him even if he left me twice. Some men told me that I should have accepted the break the second time and that it was not a real break up because he was no sure if that’s what he wanted..

So it’s my fault because there were no intimacy and that I was sick?🥺

So What should I do , thanks a lot and sorry for my English

Tl ;dr he texted me back after leaving me twice

We ve been together for 12 years, I met him when I was 21. He was my first boyfriend, first love.

The last 2 years i was in depression+ocd ( had no jobs, so I was staying at home , crying everyday, no intimacy and he cooked meals for me when he came home after his work.. I couldn’t do anything😢. But now I healed.

He left me on Valentine’s Day last year in 2025. With 0 👶🏻0💍0💒. It was horrible, I wasted my best years with him. I thought that I was an old lady and that I will end up alone.

He came back this summer, and left me again after 3 months during Halloween. For the second break up, he was not sure, and wanted some time to think about what he wants because he was lost blabla..

I told him that I will not give him more time to think and he should know ,we are are not in our early twenties to be like that, that he comes back and doesn’t know what he wants. So after the second break up, I blocked him on social media but not iMessage, because maybe he will call me in a few days and regret his decision, But he didn’t call me… He didn’t even try to know if he was blocked everywhere. And he wasn’t blocked everywhere.

And after 4 month, he said on iMessage in the end of February that he waited to be unblocked but it never happend, and told me that he was sorry and he misses me more than ever…

I didn’t answer and 3 weeks after his first message, he texted me again telling me « Eid Mubarak » because part of my family is Muslim, it’s like saying merry Christmas but I didn’t answer.. I didn’t know what to say..

I feel like these 2 messages are not enough for me to answer.. it’s to lazy…with what he did.. I need something more powerful..

Don’t know what do ? Does it mean that he wants us to be together, or he just said that without wanting us to be together and it’s  more like a random message, or just an apology message because he has some regrets or feels guilty ? Thanks a lot

It is my fault? Because of lack of intimacy ? Maybe if I didn’t become sick.. he wouldn’t left me the first time.. I felt guilty that’s why I gave him a second chance.. when we came back together I was not sick anymore..

Should I have given him time to think about what he wants at the second break up and not blocked him of insta and WhatsApp? But at the same time I didn’t block his phone number so he never tried to call me and waited 4 month just to write an easy message?

Many men told me it’s my fault that he left the first time because I was sick and depressed and cooked meals for me with no intimacy and it’s me that I should chase him even if he left me twice. Some men told me that I should have accepted the break the second time and that it was not a real break up because he was no sure if that’s what he wanted..

So it’s my fault because there were no intimacy and that I was sick?🥺

So What should I do , thanks a lot and sorry for my English

Tl ;dr he texted me back after leaving me twice

We ve been together for 12 years, I met him when I was 21. He was my first boyfriend, first love.

The last 2 years i was in depression+ocd ( had no jobs, so I was staying at home , crying everyday, no intimacy and he cooked meals for me when he came home after his work.. I couldn’t do anything😢. But now I healed.

He left me on Valentine’s Day last year in 2025. With 0 👶🏻0💍0💒. It was horrible, I wasted my best years with him. I thought that I was an old lady and that I will end up alone.

He came back this summer, and left me again after 3 months during Halloween. For the second break up, he was not sure, and wanted some time to think about what he wants because he was lost blabla..

I told him that I will not give him more time to think and he should know ,we are are not in our early twenties to be like that, that he comes back and doesn’t know what he wants. So after the second break up, I blocked him on social media but not iMessage, because maybe he will call me in a few days and regret his decision, But he didn’t call me… He didn’t even try to know if he was blocked everywhere. And he wasn’t blocked everywhere.

And after 4 month, he said on iMessage in the end of February that he waited to be unblocked but it never happend, and told me that he was sorry and he misses me more than ever…

I didn’t answer and 3 weeks after his first message, he texted me again telling me « Eid Mubarak » because part of my family is Muslim, it’s like saying merry Christmas but I didn’t answer.. I didn’t know what to say..

I feel like these 2 messages are not enough for me to answer.. it’s to lazy…with what he did.. I need something more powerful..

Don’t know what do ? Does it mean that he wants us to be together, or he just said that without wanting us to be together and it’s  more like a random message, or just an apology message because he has some regrets or feels guilty ? Thanks a lot

It is my fault? Because of lack of intimacy ? Maybe if I didn’t become sick.. he wouldn’t left me the first time.. I felt guilty that’s why I gave him a second chance.. when we came back together I was not sick anymore..

Should I have given him time to think about what he wants at the second break up and not blocked him of insta and WhatsApp? But at the same time I didn’t block his phone number so he never tried to call me and waited 4 month just to write an easy message?

Many men told me it’s my fault that he left the first time because I was sick and depressed and cooked meals for me with no intimacy and it’s me that I should chase him even if he left me twice. Some men told me that I should have accepted the break the second time and that it was not a real break up because he was no sure if that’s what he wanted..

So it’s my fault because there were no intimacy and that I was sick?🥺

So What should I do , thanks a lot and sorry for my English

Tl ;dr he texted me back after leaving me twice

We ve been together for 12 years, I met him when I was 21. He was my first boyfriend, first love.

The last 2 years i was in depression+ocd ( had no jobs, so I was staying at home , crying everyday, no intimacy and he cooked meals for me when he came home after his work.. I couldn’t do anything😢. But now I healed.

He left me on Valentine’s Day last year in 2025. With 0 👶🏻0💍0💒. It was horrible, I wasted my best years with him. I thought that I was an old lady and that I will end up alone.

He came back this summer, and left me again after 3 months during Halloween. For the second break up, he was not sure, and wanted some time to think about what he wants because he was lost blabla..

I told him that I will not give him more time to think and he should know ,we are are not in our early twenties to be like that, that he comes back and doesn’t know what he wants. So after the second break up, I blocked him on social media but not iMessage, because maybe he will call me in a few days and regret his decision, But he didn’t call me… He didn’t even try to know if he was blocked everywhere. And he wasn’t blocked everywhere.

And after 4 month, he said on iMessage in the end of February that he waited to be unblocked but it never happend, and told me that he was sorry and he misses me more than ever…

I didn’t answer and 3 weeks after his first message, he texted me again telling me « Eid Mubarak » because part of my family is Muslim, it’s like saying merry Christmas but I didn’t answer.. I didn’t know what to say..

I feel like these 2 messages are not enough for me to answer.. with what he did.. I need something more powerful..

Don’t know what do ? Does it mean that he wants us to be together, or he just said that without wanting us to be together and it’s  more like a random message, or just an apology message because he has some regrets or feels guilty ? Thanks a lot

It is my fault? Because of lack of intimacy ? Maybe if I didn’t become sick.. he wouldn’t left me the first time.. I felt guilty that’s why I gave him a second chance.. when we came back together I was not sick anymore..

Should I have given him time to think about what he wants at the second break up and not blocked him of insta and WhatsApp? But at the same time I didn’t block his phone number so he never tried to call me and waited 4 month just to write an easy message?

Many men told me it’s my fault that he left the first time because I was sick and depressed and cooked meals for me with no intimacy and it’s me that I should chase him even if he left me twice. Some men told me that I should have accepted the break the second time and that it was not a real break up because he was no sure if that’s what he wanted..

So it’s my fault because there were no intimacy and that I was sick?🥺

So What should I do , thanks a lot and sorry for my English

Tl ;dr he texted me back after leaving me twice

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