Howdy! I’m B, 28, tall tattooed and more than strong enough to throw you over my shoulder 🤪

To keep this short, I’d like to connect w someone, can be friendly, could be a lil more than friendly if you’re down!

Send me your favorite pick up line 🫶🏾

Okay, I have a confession. I’m not *actually* a professor (🫢), I just “suffer” from being an Absent-Minded Professor trope (AuDHDer). Okay, okay, I’m more adept at socializing (and life) than what is typically associated with an A-MP (so there’s that), but my memory *is* abysmal and I’m usually puzzling through something when not actively engaged with someone. I also have two STEM degrees.

Anyway! 😅

I’m a late 30’s, lesbian woman (AFAB) in the North East (U.S.) who’s looking for queer women to be friends with (30+ and anywhere in the world).

**Static crackles**

*“But Charmed! This is a dating sub! What are you doing here if you just want friends?”*

Well, I’m not actively looking for a romantic relationship *right now* (I’m enjoying being single and figuring out this new iteration of myself without the influence of someone else), but I’m not staunchly against the possibility of finding a special someone, by **being friends first**, either. I want to be transparent so I don’t lead anyone on who’s focused on dating *right now* by saying, “looking for friends or something more!” Ya know? It’s a subtle, but important, difference in the way someone looks at the situation.

**Now, back to our regularly scheduled programing. ** 🤪

#A Few Passions of Mine:

- Autodidacticism (I **love** learning!)
- Reading (I read **a lot**, both fiction and non)
- Music (I’m currently going through Rolling Stone’s (2023) top 500 greatest albums of all time)
- Self-improvement (I’ve been in regular therapy for a while and do a lot of work on my own on top of it)
- Fitness (I’m slowly getting back into this after a *long*, unavoidable, hiatus; I prefer bodyweight exercises and other stuff I can do outside of the gym)

#Other Interests:

- Witchy/esoteric/spiritual stuff
- Meditation
- Journaling/keeping a commonplace book(s)
- Crafts
- Photography
- Volunteering
- Cooking and finding, or creating, new recipes to try
- Herbs and spices (I can’t stand bland food 😖)
- Travel
- Planning/going on fun little outings
- Trying new things
- Fighting fascism
- Getting side-tracked by new ideas/topics of study; I adore discovering how things connect!
- Discovering new words (I horde them like a squirrel does nuts (and have a tendency to have a little difficulty retrieving them 😅))
- Thrifting
- Avoiding online trends (can we consider sustainability, acting like competent women, having unique personalities/outfits/homes/physical features/aging as being cool… please?)
- Avoiding AI as much as possible
- Discovering impressive women in history
- Tiny/intentional/sustainable living
- Life balance (more physical balance would be pretty sweet, too, I’m clumsy AF 😬)
- Pens that write *smoothly* (colorful gel pens are amazing!)
- And many more!

I’d love to have my own version of the Leather Apron Club (it’d be less pretentious and without the dudes). It’d definitely need a different name, too. 🤔 Maybe someday…

#Self-Contradictions:

- I hate being overstimulated, but love concerts (because music)
- I’m an AuDHDer so can come off as incredibly blunt (I’m working on it) and opinionated, especially when I’m in analytical mode, but am actually quite soft-hearted
- My background is in science, but my heart has always been in the arts (particularly writing: I’m working on a couple of books! There’s paranormal stuff and *lesbians*!)
- I love going deep (giggity), but don’t mind a degree of small-talk, especially at first, it does serve a purpose after all (note: there’s a difference between small-talk and low-effort)

#Things I Value:

- Putting in the same amount of energy/effort I do (I get bored with consistently low-effort/one-sided interactions very quickly)
- Being able to make each other laugh (belly laughs are the best!)
- You often fall down idea/thought rabbit holes and like to share
- Passion, I love it when someone’s eyes light up/the energy they give off when they’re talking about something they love!
- Someone who also loves animals (I have two feline fur-babies)

#General Physical Description:

- A little taller than average
- Red hair (it’s a bit past shoulder-length now, but I’m growing it back out)
- Blue/green eyes
- Glasses
- Hour-glass figure
- Mostly femme-ish? It depends on my mood
- Currently fat (due to injuries and illness that have been healed/mostly resolved), but actively working on it. I’m usually in good shape and look forward to being so again! Never take your health/fitness for granted (and don’t make snap/uninformed judgements about others), none of us are invincible, Babes. 🤷🏼‍♀️

#Potential Icebreakers:

- What was the last book you read/album you listened to? Or what’s in progress at the moment?
- What’s the best thing you’ve cooked/eaten recently?
- What’s something you love to do?
- What do you think the ramifications of the opening of Pandora’s box (AI) will be?
- What’s your favorite YouTube channel(s)/content to watch?
- You can only live in one season/type of weather for the rest of your life, what is it?
- You get to go on tour with one musician/band, who is it?
- You can magically change one thing in the world, what is it?
- Which is more accurate: astrology or Myers-Briggs?
- Kurt Cobain: murder or suicide?
- Which version was better? Bowie/Queen’s or Vanilla Ice’s?
- Ghost tour: insane asylum, prison, or other location?
- Do you have a couple’s costume idea you really want to put together for Halloween someday?
- Gandalf hands you *the ring* and tells you to “Keep it secret, keep it safe.” Do you: A) do as he asks? B) list it on Facebook Marketplace as a “potentially haunted object”? C) find a way to send it to Valinor and let the elves deal with it, cuz it feels like this wasn’t included in any job description you agreed to? D) something else?
- You just got acclimated to the real world after choosing the red pill (we’re talking about the Matrix, not Incels), what’s the first thing you use your Headjack to download/learn?
- Which fanbase is more dedicated to the lore? Swifties, Trekkies, or Tolkien-ies (just go with it)?
- The only song you’ll ever be able to hear for the rest of your life is one of the following, which is it? A) You Spin Me Round (Like a Record) by Dead or Alive B) Cotton Eye Joe by Rednex or C) I’m Blue (Da Ba Dee) by Eiffel 65 and Gabry Ponte D) Crank That (Soulja Boy) by Soulja Boy E) Gangnam Style by PSY or F) Never Gonna Give You Up by Rick Astley

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I’d like to start on Reddit and eventually move to Signal or Discord (or something) when both parties are comfortable.

**Note:**

- Snapchat weirds me out (especially the filters)
- I don’t give out my phone number to people I haven’t met in person

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So, if after all of this you want to talk to me, send me a DM! ☺️ This post is an invitation (the first move has been made!); I’ll answer if you send me an actual message with some thought behind it (and you’re a queer woman who’s 30+).

**Quick Update:**

I was not expecting such an… enthusiastic response (😅), so please bear with me while I get back to everyone who’s reached out or plans to. I’m not trying to slight anyone; I’m working on getting back to everyone who paid attention to my parameters (boundaries, ya know?). 🩷

hi! i don't really know how to start this honestly, so i'll just say i am looking for a genuine connection 😊 friendships are always always welcome, but i think i'm in a place where i can be present in something More. i find myself craving that closeness with someone more and more these days. i'm not going to force it, of course, but i'm definitely welcoming it!

i'm 27, have long dark hair, brown eyes. i'm half mexican, half white, and curvy/chubby (if that matters to you). i love all things 70s and 80s—music, movies, fashion, etc!

i play guitar and sing, i love music so so much! i could talk about it all day.

i read a lot of lesbian novels. a Lot...

what i'm looking for:

-over the age of 24 preferably

-no specific body type

-typically i go for other fem women, but i wont close any doors ;)

i feel silly typing all of this out, but oh well.. if any of what i've said strikes your fancy, please send me a message! i'd love to hear from you 🤍🔆

Hey everyone,

I'm 25F and just wanted to share a little about myself with other lesbians who actually get it. My straight friends smile politely but they don't really understand.

I'm 5'9" and I mostly wear comfortable button-up shirts and hoodies, and I always carry a bunch of keys clipped to my belt loop since I'm the one who ends up fixing things. I'm pretty handy around the house and can repair most stuff, but I still get emotional and cry during animated movies.

I have a cat that I named after one of my favorite poets, and I talk to her like she's part of the family. Those little everyday things like taking care of my home, spending time with my cat, and just being myself.

If you're a lesbian too, feel free to share something about your own life or the small things that make you smile. It's nice to connect with people who relate.

Looking forward to your comments ❤️🏳️‍🌈

Hey! I’m at a point where I’m done wasting time with the wrong kinds of connections. I dress more masc but that doesn't mean I’m not a sensitive person. I’ve dealt with people treating me like I don’t have feelings or like I’m supposed to fit into roles that feel more like what straight society wants from me than anything authentic. And I’m so over that. Sometimes I just want to be hugged first and feel taken care of too 🥹

I’m handy as hell (I’ll fix things around the house if you need me) but I’ll also scream like a little kid if there’s a spider nearby. I’m definitely a take the lead kind of person but that doesn’t mean I’m always the one making all the decisions. I love a partner who can also take the initiative and plan something every now and then. Whether it’s a fun outing or just a spontaneous adventure. I think a great relationship is built on mutual effort and shared responsibility.

I’m active and love being outdoors—whether it’s hiking, rock climbing, yoga, hitting the gym, or other outdoor activities. But I also enjoy those days when I can just stay in, watch anime, dive into a good period drama or get lost in an RPG game. Finding balance between adventure and relaxation is important to me and I’m looking for someone who appreciates both.

I’m a lesbian and only interested in women who exclusively date other women. I’m monogamous and child free (you don’t have to be). I’m open to LDR if there’s a connection. I’ve got a dog. I’m allergic to cats but I still love them. Bonus points if you’ve got a bearded dragon or snake!

What I’m not looking for: I’m not here for men, games, bored housewives, or humiliation rituals so you can feel pursued. I want someone who’s genuinely interested in a steady connection. Not someone looking for a fling or to waste time.

If you value honesty and aren’t afraid to be yourself let’s chat. I promise I’m far from boring. I’m just looking for the right person who gets it.

If this matters:

• 5’8”
• 125 lbs
• Right-handed
• Age range: 34-45
• Extrovert with introvert tendencies: I love socializing and meeting new people but I also need my downtime to recharge.
• Hobbies: Playing guitar, snowboarding, skateboarding, hiking, rock climbing, trying new fitness routines, sketching, photography and cooking new recipes

I work nights. Looking for some good chats and conversations. Slow burn style. Random questions and tangents welcome!

Hey there! 🐝 it’s always a little awkward writing these things, but here goes! I'm 28 yo, a lesbian (she/her) from Chile, and Scorpio (in case it matters, lol)

My first language is Spanish, but I speak fluent English and I'm currently learning Portuguese. I'm 5'3" (160cm) with super long brown hair and brown eyes and several tattoos.

By day, I'm a technology engineer, so bonus: I can definitely help you fix your computer. 🤓 I'm a vegetarian, love animals, and I’m a pretty passionate and romantic person. I’m a good listener, patient, and I'm the type to write letters and poems to show how I feel. I’m looking for something real, I know I want to get married and have kids eventually, but I'm all about building that slowly and finding the right person.

When I’m not working, I’m usually gaming (I play on both console -PS5- and PC!). I mostly play Dead by Daylight, Fortnite, Stardew Valley, GTA V, and RDR2, but I'm always open to trying new games. I’m also obsessed with the Marvel universe, I love reading (especially wlw books), and writing poetry.

Some of my other random loves: I love Thai GL, I collect Monster High dolls, I love WWE, and I go to the gym pretty often. My music taste is all over the place, from indie and classic rock to pop and even kpop.

I’d love to find new friends to game with, but I’m definitely hoping to find something more. I don't mind starting as friends and just seeing where things go! My DMs are closed, so if any of this resonates with you, just let me know and I’ll send you a message! 🥹 LDR is totally fine 🫂

*edit: when it comes to something romantic I’m 100% monogamous.

I haven't done one of these in over 5 years, but I figured that I just make a post to see if I pique anyone's interest. Not going to make this one too too long or anything fancy.

Anyway, hello! I am from the US and my timezone is EST, I live over on the east coast. However, I don't mind timezones, and it doesn't really matter where you're located. I'm 30 as well, soon to be 31 this upcoming next month too.

I'm primarily looking for people who I can connect with online or anywhere, really. I'm really wanting to connect, get to know people, make friends, and hopefully foster friendships and have them flourish and be something long lasting. As for a relationship/romance, I am currently in a relationship and that's a complicated thing for me at the moment. I'll just leave it at that. I'm not going to go into much detail and delve into any of that here. Please be respectful of this too if you decide to reach out. If we do end up meeting and connecting, connect on that sort of wavelength as well, and something changes, then I will clearly communicate this to you.

I don't mind at all if you're younger or older that me, and as long as you're another woman that identifies as such and also like other women, then you're good. I preferably would like it if you aren't religious as I am not either. I would say that maybe I'm a bit spiritual perhaps, but not much other than that.

Anyway! A bit more about myself... I love to game, my favorite game and franchise absolutely being Pokémon, so if you also love Pokémon a lot, that will be a sure fire thing that would be a big connection point for sure. I am into a lot of different games too, really. Recently, I've been playing a lot of Overwatch and I have also been playing Fortnite too. There's been Minecraft as well, I absolutely love that. A while ago I was pretty hooked on Slay the Spire 2 as well when it had came out as well, and was dabbling with modding with that as well. There's no doubt for sure that I really love games I could go on and on about all the different sorts of games that I like and have played. I really love stuff like emulation as well.

This also brings me into my next thing as I mentioned mudding, but I love to program and code. Given that as well, I am definitely quite tech savvy too. I've even built my 3rd gaming PC a few months ago, and that's been treating me well too~

There's other stuff that interests me too like exercising, I really enjoy doing stuff like yoga. I love to cook, I also really love music, and my music taste is definitely quite something as there's a lot of different music that I like to listen to. I also love writing. I've contributed to Wikipedia's before, I've written poetry, and even documentation for projects. Just writing in general I love a lot.

I also am definitely someone who can be a yapper for sure, so if you're someone who likes listening to someone else even for hours on end, then I'm your type of person. However, I also am someone who likes to listen as well, so if you are a yapper too, then that's also something that can really be of interest to me as well. You will definitely find yourself yapping together with me especially if we have some interests to share or are talking about something we both l would like for sure.

As for how open I am, I would say it varies. I definitely won't be as open with you meeting me first thing first, but depending on the vibes and how our interaction goes and just like if we connect or not is really going to dictate that. I may open up to you slow, or fast, it just really depends. None of this is to say or would be an indicator either regarding like interest necessarily either. Things could go really slow yet the interest can still really be there and you could be someone who I really will like talking to. So just keep this in mind!

If you're also someone who is into personality types, my type is also an INFJ-A, and this seems to align too with how I am as well. I guess it also explains why connecting can be quite difficult, but I never still give up trying, anyway.

My main form of communication is also primarily through Discord too.

If you think we may connect and vibe well, feel free to send me a DM! 💖

Okay. I think I’m at a point where I’m fairly sure this will be the last time I post here. Whether it’s finding someone here or growing out of looking on Reddit, who knows.

I’m pretty lonely and my area doesn’t have a very high queer population, and I’m a bit of a homebody as it is so it’s near impossible to get out and meet anyone. I'm also super exhausted from all the dating apps and unicorn-hunting couples.

**About Me:**

30 cisF.

Fem4Fem from the US Pacific Northwest.

I don’t mind where you’re from really, but I’d prefer at least North America or East Asia. The option to travel one way or the other and meet eventually should be on the table.

Medicated for ADHD, so I’d love to find someone who won’t judge me for being further behind in life than her. I’m not a workaholic myself but I do find myself attracted to them.

I really love video games! I have a bit of a competitive spirit and a drive to collect things in games! I usually prefer to connect with people who share a gaming interest, but I dont necessarily need it as long as there’s a mutual curiosity. I’m also quite into Photography as a hobbiest.

I’m 6' tall, which I realize is a bit unusual, but thems the breaks. I’d like to say I’m fairly attractive, but I am also deceptively geeky. This has led to some confusion while trying to date offline. (I’m sure you can imagine the comments). I can send a selfie early, but I am quite picky. Perhaps it’s just being a Fem4Fem lesbian or maybe it’s delusion. So I’d like someone very confident in their appearance.

l’m strictly monogamous, and not really a fan of anything else. I hate cheaters and people who play mind games.

I have long brown hair and intense eyes, and I've been told I can come across as a bit intimidating, but I promise I'm just a big ol' goofball at heart.

I'm seeking someone who shares my love for video games, nerdy fandoms, and an affinity for cats (unfortunately, **dogs are a no-go** for me). If you're into uncommon pets like tarantulas or snakes, I also consider that a major green flag! My goal one day is to settle down and have an energetic playful Savannah cat or serval.

I’m a big language fanatic. I’m currently learning my third language (Japanese) for about 3-4 years, and my fourth language (Korean) for about 5 months. My second language was French which I learned ages ago and am a bit out of practice of but still understand. If you speak any of those, let me know!

I'm decidedly childfree. Family planning isn't in my cards, as I'm not looking to have kids EVER in the future, but I do absolutely adore them. I envision being the fun, gift-giving aunts to my niece and nephews!

Women in their late 30s and 40s have a soft spot in my heart, especially if they’re put-together professionals, and share in romantic ideals. But of course those close in age to me are just as beloved, I just want to encourage women around that age to dm me as well just in case.

I’m very against tobacco use, so please be a non-smoker. Light Alcohol and Weed usage is ok in my book however, within reason.

I’m also an atheist, and being around theistic people is rather an uncomfortable situation for me. Specifically, abrahamic religions are dealbreakers for me.

If any of this resonates with you and you're up for the adventure of discovering more about each other, I'd love to hear from you!

Hi! I’ve never done one of these before so go easy on me! I’d love to eventually find someone special, but I’m definitely more of a “become friends first, flirt a little, accidentally talk for hours, and see where things go” kind of person!

✨ A bit about me ✨

❤️ I’m 27, femme, 5’7, slim, with long brown hair. Just to be completely honest, I am bisexual.

🧡 I’m passionate about so many things! I love animals, travelling, fashion, skincare/makeup, pilates and yoga, cinema trips, good food, bookstores, galleries, and exploring new cities. My friends would probably say I’m a little bit of a princess but have a heart of gold.

💛 My music taste is mostly pop, R&B, and hip hop. I also dabble in video games but wouldn’t call myself a gamer. My favorite games are fallout, mass effect and outer worlds and I’ve recently starting playing destiny. (Everyone gets so surprised when I tell them this!)

💚 I work in a pretty demanding career, so outside of work I’m usually trying to slow life down a bit and romanticise the small things wherever I can. I’m equally happy getting dressed up for dinner as I am staying in with takeaway, a face mask, and watching movies for hours.

💙 I'm strictly monogamous in relationships. I’ve never smoked or done drugs and I’d prefer someone who doesn’t either. I don’t have any pets right now but I would love a dog or a cat!

💜 My love languages are showering you with home baked goods, sending you photos of cute dogs and funny memes, remember tiny details about you, and asking what you ate today. I also love quality time and cuddles 🥰

✨ What I’m looking for ✨

More than anything, I think I’m looking for a “best friend you fall a little in love with” kind of connection. Someone I can adore, share little parts of my day with, and get excited to talk to every night. Eventually I’d love something genuine and long-term, but I’m not looking to rush anything and will wait for the right person.

In terms of attraction, I’m honestly pretty open - masc, chapstick, femme, somewhere in between. For me it’s much more about personality and chemistry. I’m definitely drawn to women who take care of themselves though, both physically and mentally.

I tend to connect best with women who are kind, emotionally mature, and generally have their life together. Preferably around my age (25-32) and based in the USA/Europe. I’m hoping to relocate to the USA soon. I’m open to long distance!

✨If any of this resonates with you, tell me about your favourite vacation, a city you love, or something that makes you irrationally happy ✨

Hello again lovely lesbians on the internet. I am once again seeking connection. I took a hiatus from physical intimacy (sexual or platonic) for a few months, and now I’m ovulating and lonely. I wish I could hear an androgynous, velvety voice say sweet and sexy things to me. Would you be interested in a clandestine call over your choice of app? No pressure for video calling, I really just want to hear you.

You can tell me all about how your low dose t has you climbing the walls, how badly you’d like to feel what you do to me, and how you would delight in hearing how I sound when I climax.

I’m a bottom who loves to top but is naturally submissive.

Please help me not to make a desperate fool of myself to queers irl, maybe we end up helping each other reach a physical catharsis.

My type:
Same or near my age within 3 years
Androgynous masc leaning (short hair + boobs always draws my eyes)
Femme presenting nonbinary tops

I am:
Feminine presenting nonbinary afab
Unfortunately in love with academia
Eastern time zone

Hey, it's me again Olivia! I know I've posted on here before but l want to make it deeper this time. I've been unlucky in love and hoping to fix that, but my lucks terrible so doubt that. Here goes nothing...

Anyway where do l begin? Well, first off I'm a second year college student. Even though it sounds like I'm busy, l pretty much make time for friends, family, and school. Seriously, l host theme parties once a month (this month is conspiracy theories!) I'm looking for a serious relationship with someone who is looking to give it their all as well as l am. Not a situationship, not looking to suffer again.

I'm from the US and it doesn’t matter if its a ldr or in person as long as love and sparks exist you can love anyone from anywhere really. I also live near the mountains and see nature everyday.

I'm half hispanic and white. But l get it if I'm not your type, no hards feelings of course. Except l think I'm pretty fun *cough cough*

There are so many things that I'm passionate about and love. From spending hours at antique shops, vintage stores, paintings especially claude monet's work (check him out like seriously!!!) books, movies, good food (except seafood- apologies to the seafood lovers) finding good music, learning the guitar, board games and pretty good at badminton and volleyball if l do say so myself lol. I'm just a fan of a lot of things and would like to know what you're passionate about also. Its what makes people connect to others in deeper ways then we can imagine really. we can send yearnful love letters to each other.

Other things l like to do is bake and garden. For music preference anything really except country. I'm into indie/alternative, jazz, pop.​ my favorite song right now would be Can't Take My Eyes Off You by Frankie Vallie.

Relationship wise I'm strictly monogamous. I've never drinked​ or smoked​, and don't plan to. If you do just make sure you're drinking moderately. I'm not really religious but am not atheist.

Looks wise I'm 5'3, 130, and like to take care of myself. Not a gym person but I'm always doing something. I have long black hair and brown eyes.. shocker l know.​

I consider myself dressing feminine from high heels to sneakers, I'm really into 90s fashion right now. I would love to dress up in Regency era clothes and imagine myself as if I'm in a Jane Austen book, since I'm a big fan of hers. Especially Pride and Prejudice, love all the outfits and manners. I like to take care of my skin and if l do put on makeup it'll be very light and natural. I don't have any tattoos but if you do that's so cool and love that! For piercings l only have my ears pierced, I'm a chicken when it comes to pain so won't get a tattoo unless they can put me to sleep.

I'm pretty introverted when meeting others, but once l get to know you l can't shut up. My friends say I'm funny but just want everyone to laugh honestly and what can l say l have a pretty good sense of humor. I can go crazy when needed and love going to concerts and singing something screaming (apologies to those around me) my heart out. I also love going to ballets and would like to go to a theater show. I also like watching anime (haikyuu, fruit basket, chihayafuru) and would like to go to a comic con.

My love languages would be quality time and acts of service. Like l would rather spend my time with you and listen to you talk and that would make my day. I have a pretty good memory so I'll remember mostly everything you'll say to me because you're someone special and important to me. Plus don't we all need to be treated with the love we deserve?

As far as getting to know someone, l would like to get to know each other as much as we can, your likes and dislikes, anything holding you up and just being there for you. I'll love you with everything l have and constantly call you mine lol cringe l know. But that's what l like. Cheesy words, sweet and romantic love. I'm just a hopeless romantic seeking for a love that can feel like home.

Ooof here we go then. Some red flags l have, brace yourself! First off l can and will get jealous, not crazy or stuff like that but just know that you're mine. Like one of my favorite song phrases from cigarettes after sex says "Think l like you best when you're with me and no one else." Of course we can hang out with our friends our own time. Second red flag is I'm still a virgin but when it comes to top or bottom l can't decide on what l haven't done, but in my dreams it seems I'm a top lol, sorry for the tmi!

For my type... someone honest, loving, emotionally mature, and can take it when l flirt with them. I flirt a lot, no apologies. And can handle my random love attacks lol (lots of cuddles and hugs!) Just be you honestly.

If you've made it this far thanks for my rambling. And if l caught your eye then you know where to find me! Also, tell me what your favorite song is at the moment!

-As long as this post is up it means I'm still searching for love..

About Me!

Hello, my name is Eli! Im a 19yo enby that lives in the Pacific Northwest! (Portland, OR) Im a big nerd that really likes to do digital art, watch anime, and play video games!

Location interests

I am looking for someone that is preferably living in the Pacific Northwest! However, I am fine with long distant relationships (Within North America), but I would preferably like someone more nearby. (Let's especially go on a date if u live in or near the Portland area >:3)

Age groups

Since I am still a very young adult, I would preferably like to date people between 18 - 26. (I am turning 20 this winter!) Anyone slightly older is fine as long as you're not 30 or older. Anyone younger than 18 is absolutely NOT OKAY!!! I would love for y'all to not lie about your age...

Hobbies/Interests

Like I said in my About Me, I really like to draw, watch anime, and play video games. Here's a list of top 3 fav video games.

Final Fantasy Series, Nintendo games, and Baldurs Gate 3!

And here's a list of my top 3 anime

Madoka Magica, Lycoris Recoil, and Re:Zero!

I would love to date someone with atleast one or more similar interests as me. I am fine if you have other interests too!

Romantic interests

I am someone who likes to emotionally and physically bond with others! For the emotional side, I bond the most by just talking, being there in the moment, and expressing my love. For the physical side, (when we get deeper into the relationship) I really like holding hands, hugs, cuddles, and kisses. I would like to someday experience more ahem very intimate acts. With all that being said, Ive had bad experiences with being in relationships with aromantic/asexual people (no hate for y'all though, you guys are good friends!) so I would love someone that is more on the emotional and physical side like I am.

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Since the internet and irl are full of scary and bad people, I would very much prefer to get to know you more before deciding on if I'm (and you are) interested in actually being in a full relationship. To filter out the bots (and if you actually read) please type "kbity :3" (without the crossed lines). Dms are open, but please comment here first, thank you!!!

Hi everyone! I’m a bit of a hopeless romantic and looking for someone similar to me. Since I’m a redditor, I figured it’d be a decent place to find dates too! A bit about me:

• 39, Asian, tallish, femme, monogamous
• Looking mainly in Seattle
• Into cozy, small group hangouts, deep chats
• Enjoys strategic board games and the occasional video game
• Primarily a homebody but somewhat sporty too (mainly volleyball, racket sports)
• Watches sci-fi, fantasy, anime, Asian dramas, etc

Not necessarily looking for someone who is also all of these things, but having a few things in common to get conversations started would be great! Looking forward to chatting with you all 🥰

Hi there. This will be a bit long. I appreciate you reading it all lol :)

What I’m Looking For:

I want a deep connection with someone, where we truly know and understand each other. I’m looking for something serious, a partner who wants to build a future together and someone I can share my life with. I want to find my future wife. Hopefully near future lol.

I want someone I can share every part of myself, the good, the bad, and the unhinged lmao. I can be myself and feel safe, accepted, and this person wants to be just as vulnerable with me. I have a world of love to give and want someone I can pour that into, and hopefully create something that will last forever. I believe in true love and I think it’s possible to find.

I want something that will truly last forever through anything. “Ride or die” is such a cringe term to me lol, but that’s what I’m really looking for. I have an unbreakable loyalty when I’m committed to someone.

**Only message if you’re sure looking for something serious, and you’re ready for it. And do not message me if you ever ghost people.**

I’m not too fond of small talk btw. Let’s get heavy early lol. I’m down to talk about anything.

A little bit about me.

I’m an INTJ 5w4, and tbh I’m like 2 different people. On one side, I’m sweet, affectionate, and always there for the people I care about, and constantly telling them how much they mean to me. But on the other, I can be an overly logical jerk and a bit cynical lol. I am strongly opinionated, but I try to stay positive and nonjudgmental. I’m also a total hopeless romantic, that loves cheesy moments lol. When I’m comfortable, I can be loud and extra, giving a goofy, crackhead energy but in the beginning I’m quite shy and reserved. I’m also a mixture of wholesome and dark. I enjoy the light and fluffy things of life, while at the same time I get into my misanthropic, brooding moments, talking about how fucked up the world is lol.

I’m a walking contradiction but I love that about myself lol.

Important tidbits.

•I am very obsessive and clingy when I fall for someone. (Not in a crazy way) lol

•Strictly Monogamous

•Agnostic atheist.

* I have a quite blunt and honest way of speaking. That may not mesh with particularly sensitive people

•I don’t have BPD, but I have a few BPD adjacent traits lol. We can talk about what that entails

•I have a pretty dark humor XD

•I’m currently in college, while working part time.

Looks wise: I’m black, 5’2, very masc presenting, I have a short haircut and dress masc. I am def plus size, but definitely not like huge lol and currently losing weight as well :)

Interests: Gaming, true crime docs, horror/thriller movies, I love all kinds of music. Particularly R&B, rock/metal, and Kpop though XD. I watch a lot of YouTube and tiktok. I also post a lot on TikTok as well, mostly commentary videos. Working out, as I’ve started losing weight. I’m kind of huge homebody tbh, wanting to get out more and have new experiences.

Who I’m Looking For:

Looks don’t matter much to me, but I do prefer women with long hair. Fem or androgynous, not masc.

Race doesn’t matter either by the way.

Personality wise: I like a lot of different personalities. Some important traits though would be having emotional intelligence, Someone patient and caring. Also having a good logical/rational side is very very important to me. If you let feelings dictate your decisions often we wont mesh. As I said above I’m pretty affectionate and clingy so I’d match best with someone also like that lol. You can be introverted or extroverted. But too extroverted won’t be a match, as I’m particularly introverted.

I am an atheist, but I don’t mind certain beliefs systems. Would just have to talk about what they are and see if we can be compatible.

Age 24 to 35. I am from Chicago in the US, but I would love to talk to women from anywhere because relocation is something I definitely want. I’m open to relocate anywhere gay marriage is legal lol

Thank you for reading all of this. If you’re interested please message me a little about you. :)

Hey everyone,

I'm 25F and hoping to connect with other lesbians here — for real friendships and possibly something more if the vibe feels right.

I'm 5’9 and I feel most comfortable in button-up shirts and soft hoodies. I’m the handy type who always has my keys clipped to my belt loop and ends up fixing things around the house. I can repair pretty much anything, but I’m also a big softie who cries during animated movies.

I have a sweet cat named after one of my favorite poets and I talk to her like she’s family. I find joy in the simple things — taking care of my home, quiet cozy evenings, reading, listening to music, and having deep, meaningful conversations.

I’m genuine, loyal, a little shy at first but warm and open once I feel comfortable. I value kindness, honesty, and real connections.

I’d love to start with low-pressure friendships: chatting here, sharing memes, coffee meetups, park walks, or just talking about life. If we click and the connection grows, I’m very open to exploring more.

If any of this sounds like you or resonates, feel free to comment or message me. I’d really love to hear about you and your story too ❤️🏳️‍🌈

You’re out there somewhere, wearing a tool belt or cape or power suit, missing me too.

You have cheerful, optimistic energy. You’re motivated to take on the world with me. Even if we’re half dead fighting an invasive alien species. You’ll still have my back. We’ll still be laughing, wielding battle axes in a blaze of glory.

Outside of alien warfare, you’ll help me with my morning routine because my morning routine sucks. What do you need bae?

You live for the exceptional and extraordinary. You have a keen eye for recognizing them in the wild. The presence of brilliance and mastery makes your breath hitch. You’re ambitious and productive without being an a**hole.

About me: Monogamous and out seeking same. Women interested in LTR only. Switch for enthusiastic switch or top. Active and healthy lifestyle. Chubby little soft masc. Only message if you can make me smile uncontrollably. For a reply, put your area and age in your dm.

Hello! 👋

I’m 30F, cis lesbian, looking to connect with others in SEA.

I can tell you more about myself in DM so we can do a vibe/chemistry/interest check, but for now:

• I’m not masc/butch, but I’m not super femme either. I guess you could see me as a tomboy, I have a long hair and people think I’m straight but I am WLW 🥹

• Looking for connections but if I am lucky to find love again, my ideal date would be being silly at the arcade (maybe dancing on DDR together, shooting some hoops) or trying out mini golf because I haven't done that before. I'd be happy to go to the beach or go for a light hike/walk too! Honestly, I have been in the mood to go to a theme park.

• Ideally your age is 25-35

• In terms of attraction, I am normally interested in people who identify similarly to me or more on the femme side 👉👈 there seems to be an abundance of butch/masc lovelies out there. Also, it matters to me that a potential partner is both physically and mentally fit

Feel free to drop a comment or send a message, we can see if we match up or not, you can ask me lots of questions.

Note: if you’re in a very different time zone/are from the US, I’m sorry but from lots of experience, that just does not work for me.