u/Ephenia

I haven't done one of these in over 5 years, but I figured that I just make a post to see if I pique anyone's interest. Not going to make this one too too long or anything fancy.

Anyway, hello! I am from the US and my timezone is EST, I live over on the east coast. However, I don't mind timezones, and it doesn't really matter where you're located. I'm 30 as well, soon to be 31 this upcoming next month too.

I'm primarily looking for people who I can connect with online or anywhere, really. I'm really wanting to connect, get to know people, make friends, and hopefully foster friendships and have them flourish and be something long lasting. As for a relationship/romance, I am currently in a relationship and that's a complicated thing for me at the moment. I'll just leave it at that. I'm not going to go into much detail and delve into any of that here. Please be respectful of this too if you decide to reach out. If we do end up meeting and connecting, connect on that sort of wavelength as well, and something changes, then I will clearly communicate this to you.

I don't mind at all if you're younger or older that me, and as long as you're another woman that identifies as such and also like other women, then you're good. I preferably would like it if you aren't religious as I am not either. I would say that maybe I'm a bit spiritual perhaps, but not much other than that.

Anyway! A bit more about myself... I love to game, my favorite game and franchise absolutely being Pokémon, so if you also love Pokémon a lot, that will be a sure fire thing that would be a big connection point for sure. I am into a lot of different games too, really. Recently, I've been playing a lot of Overwatch and I have also been playing Fortnite too. There's been Minecraft as well, I absolutely love that. A while ago I was pretty hooked on Slay the Spire 2 as well when it had came out as well, and was dabbling with modding with that as well. There's no doubt for sure that I really love games I could go on and on about all the different sorts of games that I like and have played. I really love stuff like emulation as well.

This also brings me into my next thing as I mentioned mudding, but I love to program and code. Given that as well, I am definitely quite tech savvy too. I've even built my 3rd gaming PC a few months ago, and that's been treating me well too~

There's other stuff that interests me too like exercising, I really enjoy doing stuff like yoga. I love to cook, I also really love music, and my music taste is definitely quite something as there's a lot of different music that I like to listen to. I also love writing. I've contributed to Wikipedia's before, I've written poetry, and even documentation for projects. Just writing in general I love a lot.

I also am definitely someone who can be a yapper for sure, so if you're someone who likes listening to someone else even for hours on end, then I'm your type of person. However, I also am someone who likes to listen as well, so if you are a yapper too, then that's also something that can really be of interest to me as well. You will definitely find yourself yapping together with me especially if we have some interests to share or are talking about something we both l would like for sure.

As for how open I am, I would say it varies. I definitely won't be as open with you meeting me first thing first, but depending on the vibes and how our interaction goes and just like if we connect or not is really going to dictate that. I may open up to you slow, or fast, it just really depends. None of this is to say or would be an indicator either regarding like interest necessarily either. Things could go really slow yet the interest can still really be there and you could be someone who I really will like talking to. So just keep this in mind!

If you're also someone who is into personality types, my type is also an INFJ-A, and this seems to align too with how I am as well. I guess it also explains why connecting can be quite difficult, but I never still give up trying, anyway.

My main form of communication is also primarily through Discord too.

If you think we may connect and vibe well, feel free to send me a DM! 💖

I am aware just how notoriously hard they are to appeal, but what I am wanting to know is just how hard?

Has anyone had any success with appealing them? Or does anyone who if anyone has been able to appeal them and actually get an account reinstated?

Is it just next to impossible and just extremely dame rare to even appeal?

I'm wanting to know, but anyway, recently, my Discord that got hacked, but just very recently the hacker someone managed to appeal the chargeback ban on it. My account was hacked almost 3 months ago, it was definitely banned, but yeah, the hacker I noticed had regained access to it. I have no idea how, really, but I thought that would have been enough to keep the hacker off of my Discord account. The hacker didn't have access to my PayPal account where I had initiated the chargebacks with. None of the chargebacks were reversed or anything, and none of my money from those transactions made were sent back to Discord.

Maybe the hacker appealed it, and they were able to pay Discord directly the amount they lost back due to my chargebacks? I have no idea, really. I have no idea how they managed to do it.

Anyway... What I had basically resorted to now was mass reporting my Discord account by me and some friends. I had asked my partner as well to basically go digging through the DMs with my account, and I basically told them to go looking for instances where I was talking about "minors" as well as some othesr. Some stuff was pretty damning especially being taken out of context, but yeah, she ended up like reporting a bunch of messages of mine to try and get my account banned.

I had also done the same thing, reporting some messages of my account that were in my personal server, as well as some others, and some DM messages that I had with it. Reportable stuff that actually breaks ToS or could definitely be reported that can be abused with the report system where hopefully the AI moderation or whatever can flag it.

There was some good news, since my partner did receive an email not even 2 hours later. The email said this:

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So, my account had definitely got clapped. What I am hoping for is obviously child safety, because yeah, I really don't want my account being used and access by the hacker, indefinitely, really.

I also read that Discord typically only sends 1 email, even for multiple reports even if they were successful. So, for all I know, my account has multiple violations for child safety right now after all the reporting, but yeah .I'm praying anyway, because I know 100% for sure that I am not getting my account back at this point, and Discord constantly refuses to help or do anything.

There isn't even a proper way to report a hacked account through their Support portal either. All I was getting back is Clyde responding in minutes, saying that I need to be writing from the original email or that they won't help not take any direct action against the account. I quite literally just copy and pasted and sent the same ticket multiple times until I had one that just stays open. Like bitch, even if I am reporting a hacked account even if it's not mine, I can't even do that? Even though, that is me knowing that someone is quite literally breaking your Terms of Service & Community Guidelines.

So yeah, fuck you Discord, and a big thanks for being fucking completely and utterly useless with your support.

So yeah, some ranting aside and whatever, I am just wanting to know if my account was banned for child safety, and is looking at multiple instanced of said violation, then is this good in my rather niche situation here? If my entire goal is just wanting my account that I've lost banned and keeping the hacker off of it. I do not care at all for my account back, I just don't want someone just having access to like 10 years worth of my personal data and sensitive data, that can also be used to cause severe and permanent damage to my life and everything. It can be used to doxx me, blackmail and extort me, and so much more worse shit that I don't even want to think about.

Discord is just fucking garbage, and it's extremely pathetic and demoralizing just how much that they do not care for the safety of their users on their platform.

So, back a few months ago my Discord account was hacked. I've told this story across several different comments on posts in this subreddit. But yeah, basically my email had got hacked and I had got locked out of it, and then the hacker had stole my Discord account due to it.

I had gone through support via different emails about my Discord account being hacked. I had provided outstanding evidence of the account belonging to me, years worth of transaction history associated with my account, despite not writing from the "original" email that was associated with my Discord account. When Discord says that you need to write from the original, that's what they mean. Not the email used to create the Discord account, which was one of the emails I had wrote to them through their support portal too. I had thought that's what they had meant, but it wasn't. They don't like to clarify shit.

Fuck you too Discord with your security reasons bullshit.

Anyway, moving on.

So, I had a Warframe account that was associated with that email that was hacked and that I was locked out of and could not access. So, my Warframe account, it had 2FA setup on it and everything, and I really though that I was definitely not going to get my shit back just thinking about just how notoriously fucking bad Discord is with not doing jack diddly fucking squat to help with this sort of shit and purposefully refusing to.

However, I had made a temporary Warframe account and had reached out to support there to see if there was anything that I could do with recovering and restoring my account. Little to my surprise, I had actually got someone there to help me with my account, and I was able to give them details to my account, and they had asked me questions that I had to answer to basically verify ownership of the account. I was able to basically get my Warframe account back and secured with a secure email, and the process really wasn't that bad at all. It was mostly pretty straight froward and the support there was pretty understanding and good.

I had just got my account back and secured earlier this evening.

Literally though, like this straight puts Discord support to absolute and utter fucking shame. The fact that I was able to get back and secure an account that I no longer had access to the email that it was associated with through other means of verification, it actually goes to show how vile and diabolical Discord is here. The fact that they even have AI plastered too all up in their support alone already says everything, but good lord.

You would fucking think Discord would help people out with hacked accounts like this, but literally not at fucking all. It's literally a complete fucking joke how bad Discord support truly and actually is.

Pretty big W for DE here, they deserve some good publicity for actually helping with account recovery and with account security issues.

I usually don't even at all have a crash out on a Reddit post of all things, but this shit has me fuming and I need to air this shit out. Fuck Discord though, I cannot WAIT until the day this platform keels over and dies and is dead in a fucking ditch.