Okay. I think I’m at a point where I’m fairly sure this will be the last time I post here. Whether it’s finding someone here or growing out of looking on Reddit, who knows.
I’m pretty lonely and my area doesn’t have a very high queer population, and I’m a bit of a homebody as it is so it’s near impossible to get out and meet anyone. I'm also super exhausted from all the dating apps and unicorn-hunting couples.
**About Me:**
30 cisF.
Fem4Fem from the US Pacific Northwest.
I don’t mind where you’re from really, but I’d prefer at least North America or East Asia. The option to travel one way or the other and meet eventually should be on the table.
Medicated for ADHD, so I’d love to find someone who won’t judge me for being further behind in life than her. I’m not a workaholic myself but I do find myself attracted to them.
I really love video games! I have a bit of a competitive spirit and a drive to collect things in games! I usually prefer to connect with people who share a gaming interest, but I dont necessarily need it as long as there’s a mutual curiosity. I’m also quite into Photography as a hobbiest.
I’m 6' tall, which I realize is a bit unusual, but thems the breaks. I’d like to say I’m fairly attractive, but I am also deceptively geeky. This has led to some confusion while trying to date offline. (I’m sure you can imagine the comments). I can send a selfie early, but I am quite picky. Perhaps it’s just being a Fem4Fem lesbian or maybe it’s delusion. So I’d like someone very confident in their appearance.
l’m strictly monogamous, and not really a fan of anything else. I hate cheaters and people who play mind games.
I have long brown hair and intense eyes, and I've been told I can come across as a bit intimidating, but I promise I'm just a big ol' goofball at heart.
I'm seeking someone who shares my love for video games, nerdy fandoms, and an affinity for cats (unfortunately, **dogs are a no-go** for me). If you're into uncommon pets like tarantulas or snakes, I also consider that a major green flag! My goal one day is to settle down and have an energetic playful Savannah cat or serval.
I’m a big language fanatic. I’m currently learning my third language (Japanese) for about 3-4 years, and my fourth language (Korean) for about 5 months. My second language was French which I learned ages ago and am a bit out of practice of but still understand. If you speak any of those, let me know!
I'm decidedly childfree. Family planning isn't in my cards, as I'm not looking to have kids EVER in the future, but I do absolutely adore them. I envision being the fun, gift-giving aunts to my niece and nephews!
Women in their late 30s and 40s have a soft spot in my heart, especially if they’re put-together professionals, and share in romantic ideals. But of course those close in age to me are just as beloved, I just want to encourage women around that age to dm me as well just in case.
I’m very against tobacco use, so please be a non-smoker. Light Alcohol and Weed usage is ok in my book however, within reason.
I’m also an atheist, and being around theistic people is rather an uncomfortable situation for me. Specifically, abrahamic religions are dealbreakers for me.
If any of this resonates with you and you're up for the adventure of discovering more about each other, I'd love to hear from you!