u/Cold_Butterfly5191

Hi, hope everyone is having a wonderful day!

I am 20 f, lesbian and it gets very lonely sometimes. I have been touch-starved, craving another woman's intimate attention ever since forever. It's sad seeing other couples be in love because I know that won't be me anytime soon.

It get depressing at times and I often cry myself to sleep when feeling hopeless and thinking that I would never find someone to be in a relationship with.

People tell me that I'm too young or that I don't need a relationship and yeah they are right, because I don't need one. I want one. It's like my soul has faded into some darkness and it's wanting some kind of light to bring it out. I want someone to talk to, get to know then, and even watch my favorite movies with them.

I wanna know if you can relate to this, and how you would cope with loneliness, whether it's the change in mindset, or something else.

Hey, it's me again Olivia! I know I've posted on here before but l want to make it deeper this time. I've been unlucky in love and hoping to fix that, but my lucks terrible so doubt that. Here goes nothing...

Anyway where do l begin? Well, first off I'm a second year college student. Even though it sounds like I'm busy, l pretty much make time for friends, family, and school. Seriously, l host theme parties once a month (this month is conspiracy theories!) I'm looking for a serious relationship with someone who is looking to give it their all as well as l am. Not a situationship, not looking to suffer again.

I'm from the US and it doesn’t matter if its a ldr or in person as long as love and sparks exist you can love anyone from anywhere really. I also live near the mountains and see nature everyday.

I'm half hispanic and white. But l get it if I'm not your type, no hards feelings of course. Except l think I'm pretty fun *cough cough*

There are so many things that I'm passionate about and love. From spending hours at antique shops, vintage stores, paintings especially claude monet's work (check him out like seriously!!!) books, movies, good food (except seafood- apologies to the seafood lovers) finding good music, learning the guitar, board games and pretty good at badminton and volleyball if l do say so myself lol. I'm just a fan of a lot of things and would like to know what you're passionate about also. Its what makes people connect to others in deeper ways then we can imagine really. we can send yearnful love letters to each other.

Other things l like to do is bake and garden. For music preference anything really except country. I'm into indie/alternative, jazz, pop.​ my favorite song right now would be Can't Take My Eyes Off You by Frankie Vallie.

Relationship wise I'm strictly monogamous. I've never drinked​ or smoked​, and don't plan to. If you do just make sure you're drinking moderately. I'm not really religious but am not atheist.

Looks wise I'm 5'3, 130, and like to take care of myself. Not a gym person but I'm always doing something. I have long black hair and brown eyes.. shocker l know.​

I consider myself dressing feminine from high heels to sneakers, I'm really into 90s fashion right now. I would love to dress up in Regency era clothes and imagine myself as if I'm in a Jane Austen book, since I'm a big fan of hers. Especially Pride and Prejudice, love all the outfits and manners. I like to take care of my skin and if l do put on makeup it'll be very light and natural. I don't have any tattoos but if you do that's so cool and love that! For piercings l only have my ears pierced, I'm a chicken when it comes to pain so won't get a tattoo unless they can put me to sleep.

I'm pretty introverted when meeting others, but once l get to know you l can't shut up. My friends say I'm funny but just want everyone to laugh honestly and what can l say l have a pretty good sense of humor. I can go crazy when needed and love going to concerts and singing something screaming (apologies to those around me) my heart out. I also love going to ballets and would like to go to a theater show. I also like watching anime (haikyuu, fruit basket, chihayafuru) and would like to go to a comic con.

My love languages would be quality time and acts of service. Like l would rather spend my time with you and listen to you talk and that would make my day. I have a pretty good memory so I'll remember mostly everything you'll say to me because you're someone special and important to me. Plus don't we all need to be treated with the love we deserve?

As far as getting to know someone, l would like to get to know each other as much as we can, your likes and dislikes, anything holding you up and just being there for you. I'll love you with everything l have and constantly call you mine lol cringe l know. But that's what l like. Cheesy words, sweet and romantic love. I'm just a hopeless romantic seeking for a love that can feel like home.

Ooof here we go then. Some red flags l have, brace yourself! First off l can and will get jealous, not crazy or stuff like that but just know that you're mine. Like one of my favorite song phrases from cigarettes after sex says "Think l like you best when you're with me and no one else." Of course we can hang out with our friends our own time. Second red flag is I'm still a virgin but when it comes to top or bottom l can't decide on what l haven't done, but in my dreams it seems I'm a top lol, sorry for the tmi!

For my type... someone honest, loving, emotionally mature, and can take it when l flirt with them. I flirt a lot, no apologies. And can handle my random love attacks lol (lots of cuddles and hugs!) Just be you honestly.

If you've made it this far thanks for my rambling. And if l caught your eye then you know where to find me! Also, tell me what your favorite song is at the moment!

-As long as this post is up it means I'm still searching for love...

Hey, it's me again Olivia! I know I've posted on here before but l want to make it deeper this time. I've been unlucky in love and hoping to fix that, but my lucks terrible so doubt that. Here goes nothing...

Anyway where do l begin? Well, first off I'm a second year college student. Even though it sounds like I'm busy, l pretty much make time for friends, family, and school. Seriously, l host theme parties once a month (this month is conspiracy theories!) I'm looking for a serious relationship with someone who is looking to give it their all as well as l am. Not a situationship, not looking to suffer again.

I'm from the US and it doesn’t matter if its a ldr or in person as long as love and sparks exist you can love anyone from anywhere really. I also live near the mountains and see nature everyday.

I'm half hispanic and white. But l get it if I'm not your type, no hards feelings of course. Except l think I'm pretty fun *cough cough*

There are so many things that I'm passionate about and love. From spending hours at antique shops, vintage stores, paintings especially claude monet's work (check him out like seriously!!!) books, movies, good food (except seafood- apologies to the seafood lovers) finding good music, learning the guitar, board games and pretty good at badminton and volleyball if l do say so myself lol. I'm just a fan of a lot of things and would like to know what you're passionate about also. Its what makes people connect to others in deeper ways then we can imagine really. we can send yearnful love letters to each other.

Other things l like to do is bake and garden. For music preference anything really except country. I'm into indie/alternative, jazz, pop.​ my favorite song right now would be Can't Take My Eyes Off You by Frankie Vallie.

Relationship wise I'm strictly monogamous. I've never drinked​ or smoked​, and don't plan to. If you do just make sure you're drinking moderately. I'm not really religious but am not atheist.

Looks wise I'm 5'3, 130, and like to take care of myself. Not a gym person but I'm always doing something. I have long black hair and brown eyes.. shocker l know.​

I consider myself dressing feminine from high heels to sneakers, I'm really into 90s fashion right now. I would love to dress up in Regency era clothes and imagine myself as if I'm in a Jane Austen book, since I'm a big fan of hers. Especially Pride and Prejudice, love all the outfits and manners. I like to take care of my skin and if l do put on makeup it'll be very light and natural. I don't have any tattoos but if you do that's so cool and love that! For piercings l only have my ears pierced, I'm a chicken when it comes to pain so won't get a tattoo unless they can put me to sleep.

I'm pretty introverted when meeting others, but once l get to know you l can't shut up. My friends say I'm funny but just want everyone to laugh honestly and what can l say l have a pretty good sense of humor. I can go crazy when needed and love going to concerts and singing something screaming (apologies to those around me) my heart out. I also love going to ballets and would like to go to a theater show. I also like watching anime (haikyuu, fruit basket, chihayafuru) and would like to go to a comic con.

My love languages would be quality time and acts of service. Like l would rather spend my time with you and listen to you talk and that would make my day. I have a pretty good memory so I'll remember mostly everything you'll say to me because you're someone special and important to me. Plus don't we all need to be treated with the love we deserve?

As far as getting to know someone, l would like to get to know each other as much as we can, your likes and dislikes, anything holding you up and just being there for you. I'll love you with everything l have and constantly call you mine lol cringe l know. But that's what l like. Cheesy words, sweet and romantic love. I'm just a hopeless romantic seeking for a love that can feel like home.

Ooof here we go then. Some red flags l have, brace yourself! First off l can and will get jealous, not crazy or stuff like that but just know that you're mine. Like one of my favorite song phrases from cigarettes after sex says "Think l like you best when you're with me and no one else." Of course we can hang out with our friends our own time. Second red flag is I'm still a virgin but when it comes to top or bottom l can't decide on what l haven't done, but in my dreams it seems I'm a top lol, sorry for the tmi!

For my type... someone honest, loving, emotionally mature, and can take it when l flirt with them. I flirt a lot, no apologies. And can handle my random love attacks lol (lots of cuddles and hugs!) Just be you honestly.

If you've made it this far thanks for my rambling. And if l caught your eye then you know where to find me! Also, tell me what your favorite song is at the moment!

-As long as this post is up it means I'm still searching for love..

I like to dance here and there and would love to perform for my potential man someday, but I've always worried it might come off as a bit cringe. I'm scared it would end up being more funny than actually sexy, or that he'd secretly find it embarrassing. I also worry that if I suggested it, he might hesitate to tell me the truth just to avoid hurting my feelings. I'm definitely not a stripper or anything. I know how to dance a bit and dance to all kinds of music. I guess I'm overthinking whether it would feel confident and attractive or awkward and try hard. I'd want it to feel fun and intimate, not like some forced performance

I (20F) would genuinely love and appreciate to know how do I successfully flirt with you? I either come across as really nice and friendly or honestly awkward. What is the most preferred way that men like to be flirted with? Thanks!

I (20F) would genuinely love and appreciate to know how do I successfully flirt with you? I either come across as really nice and friendly or honestly awkward. What is the most preferred way that men like to be flirted with? Thanks!

I’m asking this because I genuinely want to get better at flirting with men in a way that feels natural and confident. Just trying to see what is attractive to men honestly.