u/crystallizedo

Chill with the spam. They are cute though 😭

Hey! I’m at a point where I’m done wasting time with the wrong kinds of connections. I dress more masc but that doesn't mean I’m not a sensitive person. I’ve dealt with people treating me like I don’t have feelings or like I’m supposed to fit into roles that feel more like what straight society wants from me than anything authentic. And I’m so over that. Sometimes I just want to be hugged first and feel taken care of too 🥹

I’m handy as hell (I’ll fix things around the house if you need me) but I’ll also scream like a little kid if there’s a spider nearby. I’m definitely a take the lead kind of person but that doesn’t mean I’m always the one making all the decisions. I love a partner who can also take the initiative and plan something every now and then. Whether it’s a fun outing or just a spontaneous adventure. I think a great relationship is built on mutual effort and shared responsibility.

I’m active and love being outdoors—whether it’s hiking, rock climbing, yoga, hitting the gym, or other outdoor activities. But I also enjoy those days when I can just stay in, watch anime, dive into a good period drama or get lost in an RPG game. Finding balance between adventure and relaxation is important to me and I’m looking for someone who appreciates both.

I’m a lesbian and only interested in women who exclusively date other women. I’m monogamous and child free (you don’t have to be). I’m open to LDR if there’s a connection. I’ve got a dog. I’m allergic to cats but I still love them. Bonus points if you’ve got a bearded dragon or snake!

What I’m not looking for: I’m not here for men, games, bored housewives, or humiliation rituals so you can feel pursued. I want someone who’s genuinely interested in a steady connection. Not someone looking for a fling or to waste time.

If you value honesty and aren’t afraid to be yourself let’s chat. I promise I’m far from boring. I’m just looking for the right person who gets it.

If this matters:

• 5’8”
• 125 lbs
• Right-handed
• Age range: 34-45
• Extrovert with introvert tendencies: I love socializing and meeting new people but I also need my downtime to recharge.
• Hobbies: Playing guitar, snowboarding, skateboarding, hiking, rock climbing, trying new fitness routines, sketching, photography and cooking new recipes