
Tired of "Coparenting"
I share a level 2/ mild-moderate autistic 5 year old with my ex husband. We split shortly after I gave birth, due to him leaving us in hospital 2 hours away the first month of babies life. Since January '21 he would take Z whenever he had days off. Sometimes twice a week Sometimes none, but never consistent. When he would take him I would have to cancel his physical/ occupational therapy because he didnt want people in his house or "waste 2 hours waiting at their facility". Well he moved 3 hours away January '25 and has only seen him 3 times. He isnt paying child support but its only $350 a month so it will take a long time before the courts can get him. We moved closer (now only 1½ hour away) August '25 hoping it would make things easier. Since we moved he has only saw him twice. Once he came to my apartment for the day (which was awkward but I wasnt going to keep his child away) then he took him to a park for couple hours to introduce him to new people in his life. Since then nothing! Im just so tired of trying to get him to have a relationship with his child. I asked for full custody, so I dont have to always get his permission for anything medical, moving, or school wise. I have never kept him from seeing Z, but his still refuses. I think its messed up I have to ask for permission to do anything with a child I have all the time while he gets to do whatever he wants.