Insecure Men
Something i had noticed in this group is that some men are constantly complaining about how punjabi girls are gold diggers for wanting a financially well off partner. Men are often raised to believe they should be providers and protectors. So why shame punjabi women for wanting someone who embodies those qualities. Wanting a partner who is financially secure does not make a woman a gold digger it just means she values stability and wants a comfortable life for herself and her future children. Instead of calling women gold diggers why not put that energy into self improvement. High value men are not threatened by women with standards. Plus some punjabi women come from well off families where they were raised without financial restrictions so why would they downgrade financially just to make a man feel more secure lol.