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Maybe because I'm still young but I always liked pretty boys like as in PRETTY boys. Bata palang ako talaga, was never team Jerry Yan kasagsagan ng meteor garden replays HAHAHA. Ig i knew who i was from a very young age lol. Yung tipong mukhang tutumba sa kunting ihip lang ng hangin, someone who looks delicate, and someone with a mesmerizing gaze, long lashes and clean eyebrows. Gets niyo ba? haha. Yung mga ganon kasing nakikita ko, tipong nakasalubong lang eh lol tapos di na makikita ulit. Someone cute, and positive but not too loud lalo na pessimist ako.

I actually have a weird term for this: frail, sickly, pretty, a bit sharp feminine looking guys HAHAHAH

Best examples (lookwise): Hwang Minhyun in Lovely Liar haha, Nate Archibald (oo yung show character look mismo lol), and Kyoya Honda

Ano yung mga bagong bagay na napansin or nasabi ng isang lalaki na natutunan mo lang sa romantic relationship with him and not as friends or best friends ?

Reco product pls

How different was the culture/personality dynamic for you?

Kung hindi ka affected, carry on with your day.

Pero bakit niyo muna ginagawa to? Haha

Fil-Am here, late 20s. Recently my grandpa passed away, and I got some inheritance (won’t disclose how much, but it’s a good amount).

So I’m planning to get height surgery. I’m 5’4, and honestly buong buhay ko insecure ako dito haha. Most of my life nasa Pinas ako, then lilipat ako sa States after nursing school. Pabalik-balik kami before. I also want to start dating again eventually since I’m still moving on from my 5-year relationship that just ended.

And before I die, gusto ko rin talaga ma-experience maging matangkad. Hindi lang naman dahil sa babae to ah, although siyempre mas lalaki talaga dating pool mo kapag matangkad ka. Pero even studies have proven na being taller can improve outcomes in life — people respect you more, mas may opportunities ka, especially here in America. Most CEOs are like 6 footers for a reason.

I already got double jaw surgery before, but that one was more of a necessity because of my malocclusion and airway problems. Pero grabe rin yung halo effect after my jaw improved and I became more attractive. People genuinely treated me better, and I got more dating options after.

I’ll probably spend around 5 million pesos kasi balak ko gawin sa Europe para mas mura but still safe, with experienced doctors. I’m planning to get the maximum increase possible without major complications, around 6 inches, so I’d end up around 5’10 to 6 foot with shoes on.

From what I’ve researched, with top doctors in the US and EU, advanced na rin naman yung procedure ngayon and mas safe na compared before, especially if done properly.

Would you date a guy who got this surgery? I’d be open about it naman. Honestly, I don’t get bakit sobrang stigmatized ng surgery na to when people openly get BBLs, boob jobs, veneers, braces, and other cosmetic procedures. Even braces are technically altering your appearance to some extent. Pero oh well, you can’t please everybody. We only live once anyway.

Curious lang din if malaking deal ba to for Pinay women hehe.

Natanong ko na din ‘to sa AskPinoyMen pero curious lang din ako kasi ako marami akong nakakahiyang simp moments sa crushes/exes ko na pag naaalala ko naccringe na lang ako HAHAHAHA

Minamaliit niya yung Journalism and job ko as a writer. Wala daw pera diyan.

I make 6 digits now as content manager.

Wala talaga ako care noon basta aesthetic tingnan but I experienced gossip sa workplace about my jewelry na fake daw yung gold knowing na I graduated from a prestigious school. Wala naman talaga ako care kung fake or not. Or may brand yung suot ko or not since college. Late ko na nalaman na it matters pala yung brand and if real ang accessories and clothing. Lol I just focused on my studies as a scholar before & I have friends na walang care sa ganitong bagay. I just discovered it sa workplace tapos sila nga di sila financially well off but grabe naman mag judge sa suot ko while yung mga friends & classmate ko na mayayaman talaga like has a resort etc ay super humble & doesnt care about brand or real/fake gold

Just wondering how many women really care about it

May nagtanong nito sa AskPinoy, ginaya ko. Hindi lang sila ang choosy noh. For me yung braso una kong tinitingnan, kailangan kaya nya ko iheadlock (romantically)

Hi ladies!

For those women na nasa mid-size to plus size dati na ngayon pumayat na, what is your routine that made you consistent? And how long bago niyo na achieve yung goal nito?

Problem is sa umpisa lang ako then nagsasawa na mag home workout then hindi consistent sa diet.

I want to lose 10-15kg before my birthday this December 😞 I have Pcos din so hindi na kasing dali sakin tulad before ang magpapayat. Considering na nga rin mag turok pero takot ako.

Assuming the marriage is great, you have no resentment toward your parents, and your relationship with your children is healthy— who becomes your first priority?

Girls, what's that one thing na ginagawa or ginawa na sayo ng lalaki para madagdagan ang pogi points niya para sayo? And why?

Civil naman kami ni mother and nag chchat minsan pag about kay bf or may pasuyo siya sa house nila, nag oovernight kasi ako mga 1-2x pag weekdays. Pag weekends naman, may times na si bf ang natutulog samin.

Sabay sila umuuwi ni boyfie after work kasi magkalapit lang sila ng office. Sometimes kapag mag date kami ni bf after work haharangin niya o kakapitan niya si bf sa pagcocommute para hindi mag iba ng sasakyan na jeep/bus bf ko. May times din na pipilitin niya na sumama kahit na sa bahay ko ung punta – which is pag ganto hindi na tumutuloy bf ko kasi syempre hello ayaw ko din naman papuntahin si tita samin ano gagawin niya don di ba. Never pa naman natutuloy ung pagsama niya sa date namin kasi sinasabi ko sa bf ko ayaw ko dahil time namin un dapat together tsaka ang awkward.

Sa side ko naman alam kong hindi gagawin ng mommy ko ung mamimilit sumama sa date naming mag jowa.

Latest issue ko din is pumunta ako sa nearby cafe sa house nila kaso madalas ako mag grab/angkas so hindi ko alam pano mag commute pa sa area. Sabi ko kay bf sunduin niya ko and ituro sakin pano ba sakayan para next time itry ko. Nung sinabi niya sa mom niya na susunduin ako ang sabi niya sakin “Nang loko pa nga si mama sabi kung hindi ka daw ba marunong maglakad”. No comment na lang ako pero napaisip ako na baka ganun lang nga sila mag biruan.

May pagka-bungangera mother niya sa kanilang magkakapatid. Medj culture shock din ako kasi minumura niya like tar*nt*do ka, 8080, etc. Hindi kasi ganun samin. Well, anyway…may kailangan ba ko gawin or itry para mawala tong pag worry ko?

Sa papa niya naman goods kami. Ewan kung bait baitan kasi pina-swipe ko sa cc para sa phone ng kapatid haha. Tho papa niya madalas nakikipag kwentuhan sakin pag asa bahay nila ako.

Hi guys, Im not a Filipino (much love to you all)

I got my hands on the kojie san soap and I have been using it for 2 months now. However, I have only been able to see a very subtle, like a 0.5% difference on body and almost nothing on my face.

I am committed to using it long term as I did talk to a few Filipinos and they said it took them a couple years to completely change their skintone

I wanted to ask this to long term users of Kojie San, when was it when they first saw significant skintone change, after how many months use? is it okay if i haven't seen any results or v subtle results yet?

i work from home, have UV blocking curtains installed at home and religious with sunscreen as well.

Love! 🩷🌸🎀

I recently encountered someone here in Reddit who is hard wired to assume that women put on make-up for men? Personally, I think not. Kayo ba? Bakit kayo namemake up? Bakit kayo nag-skin care?

I have this friend who just got out from a relationship. Early 30s. Handsome, accomplished in life (he has 4 licenses), very driven and above all funny.

He now preoccupies himself sa work but is also stressing out because he has no date. Now girls, where should he go to find quality women? I suggested work, but he dont want to date workmates. I suggested din sa gym since regular gym goer sya, wala daw interesting sa gym nya.

Help this poor guy out.

Ano yung mga hobbies/sports na kapag nalaman mong ginagawa yun ng lalaki, mas naaattract ka sa kanya? like you find that guy hot/sexy because of that

Hi ladies! I grew up fending for myself while I had a mother expected princess treatment from her children because my father did. To be truthful, I have both mommy and daddy issues so feeling ko tuloy ako yung problem 😆 anyway, when it comes to a group setting, I want to be treated as an equal like hindi yung kailangan para akong damsel in distress whereas with my partner, I want equal respect but ofc I tend to crave for princess treatment.

Now here’s the tricky part: when I’m in a group conversation and napupunta na sa usapang babae vs lalaki, I get identified as a feminist and when the topic gets deeper parang minsan nasasabihan pang double standards because I tend to express my expectations honestly. For example, not paying the bill on the first date while not giving out sex din. Mga ganyang arguments kumbaga. Automatically biglang galawang gold digger kinemerlu kahit for us women, I believe it’s just a standard dating expectations especially when we’re the ones who were asked to go out.

Anyway, I’m just curious bc somehow this part of me is something that makes me split when it comes to my sense of identity. As a woman, I cry about all our common struggles (period/hormonal problems, how we are perceived by society, disrespect thru catcalling/name-calling) but yea at the same time it feels flawed to want to be taken cared of by a man when you’re expressive of being a manhater.

1st time ko lang makakita ng babaeng sinuntok at natumba dahil hindi makahinga sa suntok ata sa sikmura.

Nasasaktan ng Dad ko si Mama ko pero daplis lang sa pagsipa pero never naman hinimatay nanay ko ng ganun..

Di ako nakahinga habang bagsak ung wife..