Disappointed with my sister
To give context, yung sister ko is childless by choice but has 5 dogs as her children. Wala naman sanang kaso because I believe that people should be able to decide for themselves, and I always defend her sa mga parents namin for her decision not to have a child. Ang nakakainis lang, she is very vocal sa hate nya sa responsibility, borderline child hating. Recently, we had a dinner with family for mother's day and my partner and I arrived late because our baby pooped on the way to our venue, as in we had to clean up. Upon arriving, our baby became so fussy at the resto and we had to calm him down outside the resto to avoid being nuisance sa mga diners. We returned na okay na si baby, fed as well. Nung pauwi na, my SIL volunteered to hold our baby (for context, SIL is very nice and would usually play with our baby), nagcomment ba naman sister ko na "Wag mo papaalam na magaling kang magbuhat ng bata kundi sayo na ipapaalaga lagi." Nagpanting talaga ang tenga ko and got so annoyed, kasi in the first place, we don't force people to take care of our child because we are adults who know that our baby is our responsibility, pero yung mag-comment ng ganon is too much. We exchanged words talaga and I'm so so disappointed dahil wala syang ka-amor amor sa pamangkin nya and she had the audacity to tell me na hindi rin naman nya ipapaalaga ang mga dogs nya saakin. Hay. I don't mind dogs, in fact I love her dogs. Pero may mga tao pala talaga who are borderline baby haters, kahit pa sa kadugo nila. Disappointing.