u/unspokenandunheard

▲ 4 r/TrueUnpopularOpinion+2 crossposts

Calling someone a “pussy” makes zero sense biologically

it’s honestly kinda wild when you think about it. We use “pussy” to call someone weak, but that’s literally the part of the body that can handle childbirth arguably one of the most painful, physically intense things a human can go through. and then “you’ve got balls” is supposed to mean bravery, when balls are so sensitive that one wrong hit and a grown man is on the floor. like the logic just doesn’t add up.it’s not even about anatomy at this point, it’s just how language has been shaped over time. same vibe as “man up,” “don’t be a girl,” or calling someone “soft” like it’s the worst thing ever. we’ve just normalized associating masculinity with strength and femininity with weakness, and it slips into everyday conversations without people even thinking twice.

if anything, it says more about how deep these biases run than about actual strength. because realistically, resilience, pain tolerance, emotional strength none of that is owned by one gender. but the way we talk about it? yeah, that’s still stuck in a pretty outdated mindset.

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u/unspokenandunheard — 5 hours ago
▲ 0 r/books

People casually return books or sell them off to make space for new ones

I genuinely cannot relate. My books aren’t just “read and done” items they’re emotional timestamps. Every dog-eared page, every highlighted line, every cracked spine carries a version of me. There’s the one I cried into at 2 a.m., the one that made me grin like an idiot, the one that gave me butterflies over fictional people who felt too real. You’re telling me I should just give that away?

Call it materialistic if you want, but I call it attachment with a personality. I don’t collect books, I archive feelings. Some people declutter i curate. My shelf isn’t storage, it’s a timeline. And yes, I will absolutely sleep surrounded by them like they’re old friends, because they are. Borrowed books can come and go, that’s fine but the ones I claim? They’re permanent residents. Not leaving, not rotating, not being “resold.”

At this point, they’re basically part of my personality so yeah, they’re coming with me everywhere yes, even to my grave.

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u/unspokenandunheard — 19 hours ago

How do you feel after casual sex? do you ever feel used or is that feeling more shaped by societal conditioning?

is it more external how society frames women and casual relationships?

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u/unspokenandunheard — 19 hours ago
▲ 24 r/self

closure is overrated. most of the time, you’re not actually looking for “understanding,” you’re looking for an answer that hurts less

u/unspokenandunheard — 4 days ago