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14 someone made ai nudes of me, not worried but should I be?

yeah title, im genuinely not worried because they don’t look realistic and im also not letting myself get extorted by the freak who made it. I’ve already reported everything to the cybertipline so thats done. anything else I should do? and should I be worried or continue to be calm.

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u/Xiphoid_ProcessorALT — 2 hours ago
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How is it that I have a full bladder when I get up to use the bathroom 2 or 3 times a night but I don’t drink after 7 PM? Where does that urine come from? Not a diabetic.

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u/ChartFormal5352 — 8 hours ago
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Do any women here seek a husband?

I am looking for a partner for the disintegration of external systems and the creation of a dynasty under the sign of the "Golden Serpent." We are a deterministic system. Are you ready to merge trajectories?

About me: I am 186 cm, a former model with a background in private investments, participation in local planning for a political campaign, handling legal matters in court, and work as a photojournalist for political media. I play chess and study philosophy — particularly Nietzsche, Descartes, Marcus Aurelius, and Machiavelli, alongside an interest in the culture of monarchist eras. I plan to officially register a family coat of arms in the future.

Beyond the intellectual sphere, my interests include menswear history, fashion as a cultural code, designer furniture, and collecting art books with museum paintings. I sometimes listen to classical music late at night, keep a small collection of porcelain, and have grown indoor roses in the past. I like stray cats. I want an oil portrait in the style of early Rembrandt.

Russian.

Financial and relationship structure: I am not currently financially established. Therefore, I am looking for a relationship with a wealthy woman — preferably a business owner — who is capable of providing financial support within the framework of our marriage. I view marriage as an improvement of status, the accumulation of resources, legacy, and the continuation of DNA. In return, I offer loyalty, leadership, the ability to maintain control in high-risk situations, and a willingness to take responsibility for the family. You will remember the woody scent from my shirt on our date. Step forward — cross the Rubicon.

Health and lifestyle: I don’t drink, smoke, or use drugs. Blood type B+. Tested for HIV and other conditions. I want to have children in the near future.

Occasional training, alpine skiing, and photographing abandoned aircraft. Extreme tourism gives me a feeling of meditative calmness.

High-protein, sport-oriented diet. Night-owl, with peak intellectual concentration in the evening.

Language: My English is currently limited, and I am open to learning it with you.

F(res) = life(you) + life(me)

Every story has a beginning and an end. We could move with you toward the heat death of the universe — together.

—————

Ex Silentio, Inevitabiliter.

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u/EmergencyLost2540 — 1 hour ago
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Help with Body Image

I always feel I need to cover up my chest and butt whenever I go out. I even wear long shirts in the heat to cover them and thick jackets. I am tall and on the skinny side so it’s very obvious I carry on top and bottom. I have had numerous comments ever since I was young about them being big and how I have a rack or whatever. Having an hourglass figure doesn’t help.

I don’t care about looking attractive. People tend to think me looking “sexy” would help me feel better. I am aroace and feel repulsed by sexual comments/ interests.

Is anybody in a similar position and know how to help with this? I don’t want to feel so self conscious about my body. I have even met strangers who brought it up when meeting, saying how it’s hard to miss when it’s so obvious because of my body.

I wanted to visit the big chest subreddit for woman but didn’t think I fit well.

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u/Repulsive-Mix3114 — 2 hours ago
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question for my anxious girls

around last year, i had a panic attack which caused me to have anxiety and stress for months. that being said, i had physical symptoms like spasms in the most random places.

has anyone else gotten spasms in their vaginal area? i never used to until high amounts of anxiety & stress, it’s not as frequent now but it would genuinely confuse me and that’s the only thing i can think of being the cause since it also happens to my intestines (+ the other hole) and then i need to rush to the toilet 😭

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u/bwnnygf — 3 hours ago
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I had sex with a man and now he’s saying he and his partner have symptoms?

I’m freaking out. I had sex 2 weeks ago with a man who has another partner. Open relationship.

He just texted me today saying he’s freaking out because he thinks he’s having symptoms of STI. He said she has been feeling some irritation too.

I’m freaking out now too. I don’t have any symptoms, obviously will get tested, but I’m totally freaked out.

I know I’m an idiot and should’ve gotten tested and used protection. I know this. I feel horrible and I’m so scared.

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u/curlyfries013 — 6 hours ago
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Womanhood & identity

When did y’all start truly feeling like a woman instead of just a girl? Because I’m 19 and I still feel like a girl from high school even though I just graduated almost a year ago lol.

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u/PalpitationCalm8071 — 13 hours ago
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Pad recommendations?

I used to use pads when I was a preteen but they always leaked so I switched to tampons. I turned 20 recently and it feels like all the sudden tampons have been worsening my cramps so much and they've stopped working as well as they used to. I tried using a disc/cup and it was super uncomfortable and just not for me, although I'm sure they work great for others. So I'm looking to l use pads again. I need super long pads to avoid leaking and super absorbent because I have a pretty heavy flow. Preferably super sticky so it doesn't slide around/shift/scrunch a lot. Think of damn near an adult diaper. Idk maybe I should use adult diapers lmao 😭. Any recommendations?

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u/urdaddydoesntwantyou — 9 hours ago
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Question

Do women find it weird if a guy cold approaches you ? I sometimes want to tell a girl at the mall for example that she’s pretty but I never do because I don’t know if she’ll feel comfortable

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u/Jaded-You-5379 — 9 hours ago
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The infantilisation of abusive men needs to stop

I’m not sure if infantilisation is the correct word, but if a woman speaks up about her shitty experiences with men hundreds of people will chime in to say “those aren’t men, those are boys”.
This rhetoric is so reductive & makes it easy for bad men to avoid accountability. People need to start acknowledging that bad men are grown MEN who know exactly what they are doing. I’m sick of seeing this.

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u/mousey-girl — 13 hours ago
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31F. What’s your experience with going off birth control after being on it for a long period of time?

I want to start this off by making it very clear that I am not asking for medical advice. I have already discussed it with my doctor. I know everyone’s body is different and everyone will experience different symptoms, etc. I am only looking for personal experiences.

I started taking the pill when I was 17 to help with acne and really heavy periods. Several years ago(idk how many) I started skipping the placebo week so I wouldn’t have a period at all. Long story short, my body has been making me seriously consider going off of it all together. I would love to hear other women’s experiences of what they went through (good and bad) getting off the pill after 10 or more years.

My biggest concerns with getting off it is that my acne will come back with a vengeance and gaining weight, as I’ve recently lost a significant amount and I don’t want to go backwards there.

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u/therealbananahunter — 6 hours ago
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Considering sugaring. Advice seriously needed!

Hello lovely ladies. I (25F) have reached the end of my patience and hope - as dramatic as that sounds - and am seriously considering becoming a sugar baby. I have the shittiest luck with men and am never hit on or approached despite being complimented and being told I’m beautiful (I almost spent 20k on a matchmaker - yes It was that serious). It’s been years of going to bars, clubs, gyms, dating apps, libraries, restaurants and cafes hoping to meet someone click with. I’m not even looking for the love of my life, just someone I like. Is that really too much to ask for? I feel like the universe is playing a joke on me because it doesn’t make any sense. I seem to be the one woman in the world who can’t attract a man. I’m honestly at my wits end and don’t know what else to do. It baffles me that women charge for sex when I can’t seem to get it for free. Anyways, if anyone has a hookup or anonymous way of becoming a sugar baby, that’s where I’m at mentally now. Please holla at me. I lived in Dubai (sugar baby central) and am willing to travel.

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u/pinke20 — 10 hours ago
▲ 9 r/women

Dating Feels Hopeless (F22)

Not sure if this is the right place for this sort of thing. I’ve been in and out of relationships with men and women for the past few years. For relationships with other women it feels they are so entrenched in hetero dynamics that it is replicated in our relationship which is something I do not desire (having a ‘man’ in our dynamic.) with men it never feels they respect nor think about women with any sense of clarity.
I have met many self depicted ‘awakened men’ and have found myself disappointed every time. It feels like the self appointed feminist men think about gender equality in the ways it directly benefits them, rather than thinking how it has both impacted the ways they think and how these structures are still baked into our social sphere and their own biases as a whole.

I know I am only 22 and relationships are not the whole point for life. I have a life I am proud of, I have a budding career, friends I love, hobbies I actively engage in.
I am not lonely, but in many ways I am. I feel alone in the way I scrutinize the behaviours of men, I cannot tell if I’m asking for too much, or am too critical of those I am looking to share my bed with.
Any advice or personal stories would be incredible, thank you.

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u/cowboygo0se — 13 hours ago
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how to get a boyfriend as a 18 yrs old

yh same as title.....idk I have nothing to do not sure ABT it either but kindda lonely these days with suicidal thoughts

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u/thundermang — 12 hours ago
▲ 3 r/women

MEN

why is it so common that men when left with nothing or when rejected either hurts the girl and threaten them or get all suc*dal and put the blame on the women or make it seem like its her fault why tf they think them saying they attempting and putting the girl in guilt is their extent of love and why tf men like that are still considered victim and women the villian cuz wtf has anybody saying no do with somebody doing something suc*dal. cuz tf man your mental issues does justify you guilt tripping somebody into a relationship with you.

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u/Legitimate_Owl5063 — 13 hours ago
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Why is female competition a thing?

Post weight loss, I noticed more competition and subtle jabs from women. I hate it. I notice women scan me up and down, analyze me, or are just generally more cruel, cold. Has it always been like this, or am I privy to it now because I'm a "worthy opponent"? I don't want to participate. The most jarring change has been from friends and family.

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u/popsandya — 16 hours ago
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The amount of "women" posting very lewd and out of touch questions on here is telling.

That's it. That's the post. Fairly certain there are creepy men posing as women asking these weird ass questions as some sort of power play. Why can't women have undisturbed spaces? Literally go away and STFU

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u/KittySitting — 1 day ago
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I’ve been reading more about social engineering, manipulation psychology, and grooming tactics, and I think there needs to be more open discussion about how these tactics specifically target women.

A lot of people imagine “social engineering” as just phishing emails or hacking, but in reality it often involves emotional manipulation, cultural trust, religion, family issues, health insecurities, loneliness, and sexual coercion.

Some patterns I’ve noticed from case studies and investigations:

Rapid emotional attachment (“you’re different from everyone else”)

Using shared culture/religion to build trust quickly

Positioning themselves as emotionally safe or spiritually trustworthy

Asking increasingly personal questions about health or body image

Gradually sexualizing conversations

Encouraging secrecy from friends/family

Creating emotional dependency

Using guilt, shame, or fear when boundaries are set

Requesting photos, money, or private information later on

What’s disturbing is how gradual it can be. It often starts as empathy, support, validation, or “understanding.” The manipulative behavior escalates slowly enough that the victim may not recognize the shift immediately.

I also learned that investigators often look for:

grooming stages,

repeated scripts,

coercive control patterns,

fake identity inconsistencies,

emotional escalation timelines,

and boundary testing behaviors.

A lot of victims end up blaming themselves afterward, especially when manipulation involved:

romance,

religion,

sexuality,

trauma,

or family pressure.

But these tactics are designed to bypass skepticism by exploiting normal human psychology like trust, empathy, belonging, and emotional need.

I think more awareness is needed around:

coercive control,

romance scams,

sextortion,

emotional grooming,

and psychological manipulation disguised as care or love.

Has anyone here studied this topic professionally or experienced seeing these tactics in real life? What warning signs do you think people miss most often?

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u/Wantedz13 — 14 hours ago