I usually mix 90s jungle, uk dubstep, ukg and 2-step. But, I love mixing other genres as well such as soul, disco, dub and lovers rock. I have done it with friends before and had such a crazy good time haha. Would love to meet new people who have done b2bs themselves and just have fun.
Edit: Doesn't matter if you're a pro. As long as you can do basic mixing
For context: I posted on a local social sub that I was planning on hosting a house party the coming weekend. This person in particular was excited right off the bat. Or should I say... too excited.
Event was supposed to take place on Saturday. I posted Tuesday night. The woman dm'ed me immediately, saying we should create a group chat for this event. I said something along the lines of "we'll see how the reception is first" and wished her goodnight.
I was on noon shift the next day so naturally I couldn't be online to reply. Had to get enough shut-eye in for work later. Woke up to messages like "hihi u there", "sorry im just looking forward to it 🤣" and "heyyy can we make a group chat !!". I did not respond.
Another day passed and I woke up to "Omg are u there" and "😭😭".
At this point, I just feel extremely pressured by her. I could've communicated and tell her to chill instead of bailing. But, man I was already so stressed out from all her pressurring haha.
This continued for two weeks.
This is just one example. I planned on hosting a house party that weekend. Thing is, it's not even the weekend yet. It was Tuesday LMAO. I couldn't reply the whole day cause I was on afternoon shift that day. I understand her excitement but damn...
Thinking of hosting a chill session where everyone brings their favourite records to listen together. No buying, selling or trading. Just crate digging and vibes. I have a proper turntable setup. 1 or 2 ppl will do. All genres are welcomed. Just please be open-minded. DM if keen 🙂
I’m on high alert whenever someone is kind to me now. I was always cautious but after she left, the guard went up 100%.
She seemed kind, mature and stable. Exactly what I was looking for as someone who grew up around instability. By the end, she was like a completely different person. The grieving started a month before she even left.
Then about a month after the discard, another woman randomly messaged me saying she was interested. We talked and exchanged pictures. And she had her face censored saying “face takes time" which I respected completely.
The moment I sent mine though, she started acting really weird and just eventually bailed. As if she had seen a ghost lmao. I was laughing but deep down, that hit my confidence hard.
Since then, every act of kindness feels suspicious. And seeking connections feels like the last thing I want.
I love Sade and The Cure but they both lean quite heavily into codependence and idealisation for me. Looking for genuine love songs that feel more grounded and emotionally stable rather than intense or dependent. Arigato 🙏
Met a really special lady here back in November 2023. It started off pretty normal. Did not expect anything out of it, but it eventually grew into something deeper so quickly.
We're not in contact anymore. I've accepted that she's gone forever. But coming back here after ages brings back memories.
I still want to be able to meet new people but I've become terribly hesitant. I've been eyeing on all these posts for a week now and have yet to dm anyone.
Apologies if this is unrelated. Just need to get this out the system. Thanks everybody
Thinking of walking around Arab street this saturday night to bar hop, catch some open mics and have good conversations along the way. If you're down for a good time, drop me a dm! First round's on me
I'd be happy to show you around some spots, grab a drink or some food. I enjoy meeting new people and hearing new perspectives. If not, welcome to Singapore and enjoy your stay!
#1: Hi 🙂
#2: Helloooo 🙂
#1: How are you? 🙂
#2: Good, thanks. Wbu? 🙂
#1: Good as well, thanks 🙂
#2: Noiceee, where are you from?🙂
#1: Narnia, wbu? 🙂
#2: Siiiiick. I'm from Wakanda. Yk like... Wakanda forever? 🙂
#1: Yes, nice 🙂
#2: Yea 🙂
#1: So what do you do in your free time? 🙂
#2: Watch tv and animes, play video games, sleep, eat, serenade myself. Yk the usual tings 🙂
#1: Oh sweet. What animes do you watch? 🙂
#2: *gone for 2 hours*
#2: Oh yk Attack of titan, death note, dragonball z, powerpuff girls 🙂
#1: *dies*
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