u/hazelystar

Basically what the title says. Everytime I(19f) see a photo of myself it makes me feel so disgusting and honestly embarrassed that people in real life have to see me and look at my face/body. I dont know how to stop myself from thinking like this. I just feel so ugly I want to cry rn.

I'm not even overweight but somehow in every photo my body looks like its taking up SO much space compared to everyone else's and my shoulders look massive. And I can't even look at my own face in pictures bc it just makes me feel so unbelievably ugly. I can't believe I'm stuck with this face for the rear of my life. I've only ever actually missed a week of my uni lectures bc of this feeling but I feel like I need to change myself over summer so I can actually be attractive when I come back next year. Idk how I'm gonna do that tho.

Basically what the title says. Everytime I(19f) see a photo of myself it makes me feel so disgusting and honestly embarrassed that people in real life have to see me and look at my face/body. I dont know how to stop myself from thinking like this. I just feel so fricking ugly

I'm not even overweight but somehow in every photo my body looks like its taking up SO much space and my shoulders look massive. And I can't even look at my own face in pictures bc it just makes me want to cry. I've only ever actually missed a week of my uni lectures bc of this feeling but I feel like I need to change myself over summer so I can actually be attractive when I come back next year.

I have a very large chest in proportion to my frame and this is something I've been embarrassed about since my boobs started developing. I think this shame caused me to then become turned on when someone talks about how big my chest is or almost humiliates me/tries to make me feel ashamed about my size.

I hate that I feel like this because outside of a sexual context I hate when people mention my boobs or when I'm reduced to just having a big chest and the rest of me is ignored. But in a sexual context with a partner I think I would like to be reduced to just my boobs.

I'm really scared to ever admit this to anyone irl (as in a boyfriend) because I'm not sure if it would make them see me differently and lose respect for me in some way. Idk how to feel about this tbh bc it's something that I only realised recently and I feel very conflicted about it. I'm inexperienced sexually so I just feel like idk how to navigate this feeling or just ignore it.

I hate how its only "acceptable" for a woman to have saggy boobs if she went through pregnancy or is quite a bit older or went through weight loss. No I'm not overweight, nor did I lose a lot of weight this is just how my body is. I don't like it either but there's nothing I can do to change them.

I'm 19 and my chest is quite saggy. Very saggy. No one can tell since I wear a bra all day besides to sleep. I'm really scared that if I ever got a boyfriend he would be unattracted to them or think they looked ugly without a bra. The majority of boobs I've seen on tv and in movies are on the smaller side and perky ans I feel like thats what is seen as "normal" for girls my age.

I get that sagging is natural but it usually comes with age or pregnancy. I doubt any guys I will be interacting with would have seen saggy ones before and I'm scared that most guys would prefer to be with a girl who has smaller perkier ones.

I'm 19 and my chest is quite saggy. Very saggy. No one can tell since I wear a bra all day besides to sleep. I'm really scared that if I ever got a boyfriend he would be unattracted to them or think they looked ugly without a bra.

I get that sagging is natural but it usually comes with age or pregnancy. I doubt any guys I will be interacting with would have seen saggy ones before and I'm scared that most guys would prefer to be with a girl who has smaller perkier ones.

I hate how its only "acceptable" for a woman to have saggy boobs if she went through pregnancy or is quite a bit older or went through weight loss. No I'm not overweight, nor did I lose a lot of weight this is just how my body is. I don't like it either but there's nothing I can do to change them.

I'm not sure why but being "chic" is trending right now and I've seen a lot of people saying how small boobs are chic and using that as a reason for girls to be more confident about having a smaller chest. At the same time there's a "young ho" trend where girls do a dance where they're bouncing their boobs/chest.

This is just another example of how women with big boobs are seen as being more sexual and then girls with smaller boobs are treated with more respect and are seen as more classy and not sexualised (as much). It's really disappointing since these are trends started and participated in by women. I'm a student so a lot of my peers at university see similar videos/trends as me and I'd hate for any of them to perceive my body as inherently vulgar. Will the day ever come where our boobs are not overly sexualised and seen as unclassy ?

I(19f) just feel worthless and annoying. Have you ever had a friend group but always felt like you never fully fit in or was the least favourite person? That's how I feel about my friend group at uni. I only have a few friends and they're all in this same friend group. I feel like no matter how hard I try I'm still slightly on the outskirts. I don't even have any friends outside of this group which makes it worse. I feel like a loser since I'm the only person in the group who doesn't have any other friends outside the group. It's not for a lack of trying I just find it really hard to make friends for some reason.

I've also never had a boyfriend. I'm not massively bothered since I feel like I don't have time for one right now but I feel pathetic and weird since I've never had any guys interested in me whatsoever. I don't get what is so different about me that makes it so hard for people to want to be around me or connect with me :( Sometimes I just don't see the point in being here

I(19f) just feel worthless and annoying. Have you ever had a friend group but always felt like you never fully fit in or was the least favourite person? That's how I feel about my friend group at uni. I only have a few friends and they're all in this same friend group. I feel like no matter how hard I try I'm still slightly on the outskirts. I don't even have any friends outside of this group which makes it worse. I feel like a loser since I'm the only person in the group who doesn't have any other friends outside the group. It's not for a lack of trying I just find it really hard to make friends for some reason.

I've also never had a boyfriend. I'm not massively bothered since I feel like I don't have time for one right now but I feel pathetic and weird since I've never had any guys interested in me whatsoever. I don't get what is so different about me that makes it so hard for people to want to be around me or connect with me :( Sometimes I just don't see the point in being here

I(19f) just feel worthless and annoying. Have you ever had a friend group but always felt like you never fully fit in or was the least favourite person? That's how I feel about my friend group at uni. I only have a few friends and they're all in this same friend group. I feel like no matter how hard I try I'm still slightly on the outskirts. I don't even have any friends outside of this group which makes it worse. I feel like a loser since I'm the only person in the group who doesn't have any other friends outside the group. It's not for a lack of trying I just find it really hard to make friends for some reason.

I've also never had a boyfriend. I'm not massively bothered since I feel like I don't have time for one right now but I feel pathetic and weird since I've never had any guys interested in me whatsoever. I don't get what is so different about me that makes it so hard for people to want to be around me or connect with me :( Sometimes I just don't see the point in being here

I(19f) feel so stupid and have no clue what to do. I was scammed on Friday and they took £500 from me. I know its not a lot in the grand scheme of things but to a broke student I could've done a lot with that money.

Of course my card got declined after I tried to take more money out. I got away from the scammer and walked to the bank the same day and they told me my card should be working normally again but it still declines everytime. I couldn't go back to the bank as it hasn't opened since I left on Friday (not open on weekends). I assume I will have to get a new card (which can take over a week) but I don't know what to do.

I have no other cards I can use or any cash. I'm a student so my family do not live nearby. I don't have a car and obviously can't pay for the bus or an uber anymore so can only get around on foot from now on. I'm super stressed about this situation and I can't tell my parents or they will be so mad and worried and never trust me again. My exams start in a few weeks and I need to do well but it's hard to focus/find the time to revise when I have had all this going on.

I(19) have a very large chest in proportion to my frame and this is something I've been embarrassed about since my boobs started developing. I think this shame caused me to then become turned on when someone talks about how big my chest is or almost humiliates me/tries to make me feel ashamed about my size.

I hate that I feel like this because outside of a sexual context I hate when people mention my boobs or when I'm reduced to just having a big chest and the rest of me is ignored. But in a sexual context with a partner I think I would like to be reduced to just my boobs ?

I'm really scared to ever admit this to anyone irl (as in a boyfriend) because I'm not sure if it would make them see me differently and lose respect for me in some way. Idk how to feel about this tbh bc it's something that I only realised recently and I feel very conflicted about it. I'm inexperienced sexually so I just feel like idk how to navigate this feeling or just ignore it. I have no clue if this is common amongst other women or if this is seen as quite abnormal.

I have a very large chest in proportion to my frame and this is something I've been embarrassed about since my boobs started developing. I think this shame caused me to then become turned on when someone talks about how big my chest is or almost humiliates me/tries to make me feel ashamed about my size.

I hate that I feel like this because outside of a sexual context I hate when people mention my boobs or when I'm reduced to just having a big chest. But in a sexual context with a partner I think I would like to be reduced to just my boobs ? This feels wrong to me and makes me feel guilty that I like it in some contexts but not others.

Idk how to feel about this tbh bc it's something that I only realised recently and I feel very conflicted about it. I have no clue if this is common amongst other women. I'm very inexperienced sexually so I'm not sure how to go about this and navigate my feelings of embarrassment but also curiosity about my "kink" ?