u/TheBigClobbler21

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20 [M4A] #USA/Online Really Really REALLY Bored please yap to me

Hey I know most people go here for dating but I’m bored out of my mind. I live specifically East Coast if you really want to know where but it doesn’t really matter I just want someone to talk to me about their interests or really anything. Please feel free to DM about your interests or ask about mine look here are my interests:

- Anime/manga (Fullmetal, JJK, Bleach, etc etc)

- Games (Pokemon, Persona, Guilty Gear, Marvel Rivals, etc just ask me)

- Marvel and DC comics (or movies but I’m a big comic guy)

- Seals (I have seal pictures hehe)

Ok you know what I’m into feel free to talk to me doesn’t even have to be about anything important idc. You can also just ignore this post I really don’t care either

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u/TheBigClobbler21 — 1 hour ago

How I look at friends and family after the 50th autism joke (I know I’m gonna be mocked if I ever got diagnosed)

u/TheBigClobbler21 — 2 days ago

JRPG with Well-written party members centered around going on a journey

Should preface with I do have a 3DS and PS5 so I can play games on those systems too

I’ve been feeling sad and want some form of escapism. I love the idea of a game where a cast of characters go on some journey where they experience their own character arc akin to classic Final Fantasy or One Piece. Are there any games that capture that feeling of just running off on some adventure with people?

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u/TheBigClobbler21 — 2 days ago

How good is the entirety of Gintama?

I’ve had Gintama on my list of media to check out but I’ve been on the fence. Most people make it sound like it’s a simple comedy story that eventually gets really serious well written arcs every now and then. Is this true or is it consistent throughout?

u/TheBigClobbler21 — 7 days ago

I’ve been engaging with a lot more action heavy stuff recently and want a cute romance as a buffer between chapters of shonen. I saw some art of green yuri and it seem cooled, so what are some manga you guys recommend?

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u/TheBigClobbler21 — 9 days ago

I recently started star rail and for the free characters I picked Sparkle cause she looked cool and Ruan Mei because I heard she was a versatile support. I find out later on that Sparkle is also a support so it ended up being redundant. Did I mess up and should’ve gotten a DPS over Sparkle or can I still manage?

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u/TheBigClobbler21 — 9 days ago

I like the idea of a Romantic relationship and I crave being loved, my issue is the stuff to get there and required for it. I really hate dating, I hate the idea of having to approach someone and try to guess if they’re interested. I hate that I have to carry a conversation and pray they maintain interest in me. I hate planning things, and I hate socializing. I‘m also not sure if I really want anything intimate either. I also really really REALLY hate whenever I decide “maybe it’s a me problem” look up how to get better and be met with the same right-wing chuds yapping about looksmaxxing hypergamt which makes my body image issues even worse. I just want someone who I’m comfortable around, trust, live together, and can cuddle with really. Is a relationship like that real or am I better off just being alone?

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u/TheBigClobbler21 — 10 days ago

The whole Thragg v Gojo debate got me thinking about my favorite superpowered alien. Can my favorite #Supershit find a way to get through infinity?

u/TheBigClobbler21 — 11 days ago

I (20M) have been struggling with my body since I was teen. Mainly because of my height (5’6) and weight. I’ve been told I need to just be more confident and had people say my face and hair are nice but I hate looking in the mirror. I just can’t see why someone would like me and it hurts. It’s like I’m more lenient with other people’s appearance but for me I have this double standard where I want to meet male body standards but also deep down wish to be pretty. It’s like I want to be some shapeshifter that can be tall and masculine but also feminine and slim. How do I genuinely view my body in a positive way? How do I create realistic standards for myself?

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u/TheBigClobbler21 — 13 days ago

I‘m gonna preface this to say I’m not transfem myself but have always been very passionate about leftist ideologies and protecting the rights of others. That being said, this sub has the most degrading place I’ve ever seen for trans people.

It’s always the same 5 stereotypical transfem memes, the same format with that one anime girl behind it, and the whole “GGD! Skirt spin! Blahaj!” I get that naturally communities will have running gags and culture but everytime I see a post there it feels more like a transphobe making fun of trans people than someone who is genuinely taking part of a community with likeminded people.

They are also just outright weird, they are incredibly obsessive over people figuring out their identity which can make things more uncomfortable for the person. I’m not against helping someone learn how they can discover themselves but acting like every person questioning their identity is guaranteed trans defeats the purpose of giving people the freedom to choose an identity that benefits them. They also had a sex offender mod and several incidents of grooming, this video has an amazing section regarding that stuff along with other subs: https://youtu.be/axo74sLK6fo?si=xEj8VTIJjPmqIsiY

Also this part is anecdotal, but their discord The Valley is absolute horse shit. Back when I was a teenager I was struggling with my mental healthy and identity and decided to join it for support. I was taken advantage of by multiple members of the sub. Half the sub there will jump at the opportunity to talk sexually with anyone with she/her pronouns (I was like 15-17 btw). Also had multiple breakdowns and was belittled because of said breakdowns by the more communist leaning members. I think the worst part was the “venting” system. if you wanted to let out your emotions you can access a private channel where a mod from the server basically acts as your therapist. Before you ask, no these mods were not guaranteed to be professionals, and were terrible at their job. The Discord server is designed to take advantage of struggling minors.

If there was ever news that egg_irl was some psyop by conservatives to make the general public more hateful towards the lgbt community I’d entirely believe it. Every post feels like it’s bringing trans people back to the Stone Age, and I really hope it revamps it’s moderation or at least gets banned. That’s all, see ya

Sidenote: I accidentally posted this on r/ihatethissmug lmao

u/TheBigClobbler21 — 16 days ago