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Help me help her. I am the most committed man in the world and I would do anything for love full of unconditional support and care, no matter how long it takes. I’m heartbroken that she wants to potentially separate for good all because of a temporary state of mind/exhaustion.

2 months ago her planned new career fell through and she had a bad falling out with some housemates and she said it changed her, ever since she’s been struggling. She said since she’s been feeling empty, broken, depressed and feeling nothingness in life and is going through anhedonia.

She broke up with me a couple of days ago because she said she feels guilty and is saving me from future heartbreak because she doesn’t know how long she will feel this way. She said I’m perfect, deserve better and that she really likes me, but she feels she’s not being a good girlfriend and seems to think that I’ll be very hurt by the way she’s acting, when I don’t feel that way at all.

The thing is - she hasn’t treated me badly at all, it’s like her mind is telling her she’s been horrible to me when she hasn’t one bit. This moment has totally messed up her vision. The only thing that hurts me is that she’s making decisions through her depression and is willing to break it off with me under the assumption I don’t really know what I want when I say I want to stay.

I told her I want to ride these waves with her, that I’m the most committed and patient man, and that relationships are full of ups and downs and it’s moments like this that make couples so strong.

I know I can’t control how she thinks or break through her depression, but regardless of this, how do I make her see clearly enough that I want to stick by her the entire way and that she’s not going to break my heart by being temporarily down? How do I help her accept me as this?

I could not mean it any more when I say she is the woman for me and is not hurting me like she thinks she has been. It’s like her anhedonia is self destructing her and her vision is blurred when it comes to these assumptions. It’s clear to me she is pushing everyone away and I know it’s literally only this, it’s the only reason she’s saying this.

She’s worth it, what can I do? What can I say to her to allow her to know that I really do want to be here and that life is too short for me not to want to stick by her side through this horrible moment? She is the woman for me, hands down, I know I should respect and could run away, but I don’t want to, I wouldn’t be posting this if I didn’t want this.

Tl;dr - Girlfriend thinks I deserve better and is going through a bout of depression from some life events and wants to separate with me because she thinks I can do better. She doesn’t understand she’s not hurting me and that I want it to be my turn to only give and support through her crisis.

Help me help her. I am the most committed man in the world and I would do anything for love full of unconditional support and care, no matter how long it takes.

2 months ago her planned new career fell through and she had a bad falling out with some housemates and she said it changed her, ever since she’s been struggling. She said since she’s been feeling empty, broken, depressed and feeling nothingness in life and is going through anhedonia.

She broke up with me a couple of days ago because she said she feels guilty and is saving me from future heartbreak because she doesn’t know how long she will feel this way. She said I’m perfect, deserve better and that she really likes me, but she feels she’s not being a good girlfriend and seems to think that I’ll be very hurt by the way she’s acting, when I don’t feel that way at all.

The thing is - she hasn’t treated me badly at all, it’s like her mind is telling her she’s been horrible to me when she hasn’t one bit. This moment has totally messed up her vision. The only thing that hurts me is that she’s making decisions through her depression and is willing to break it off with me under the assumption I don’t really know what I want when I say I want to stay.

I told her I want to ride these waves with her, that I’m the most committed and patient man, and that relationships are full of ups and downs and it’s moments like this that make couples so strong.

I know I can’t control how she thinks or break through her depression, but regardless of this, how do I make her see clearly enough that I want to stick by her the entire way and that she’s not going to break my heart by being temporarily down? How do I help her accept me as this?

I could not mean it any more when I say she is the woman for me and is not hurting me like she thinks she has been. It’s like her anhedonia is self destructing her and her vision is blurred when it comes to these assumptions. It’s clear to me she is pushing everyone away and I know it’s literally only this, it’s the only reason she’s saying this.

She’s worth it, what can I do? What can I say to her to allow her to know that I really do want to be here and that life is too short for me not to want to stick by her side through this horrible moment? She is the woman for me, hands down, I know I should respect and could run away, but I don’t want to, I wouldn’t be posting this if I didn’t want this.

Help me help her. I am the most commuter man in the world and I would do anything for love full of unconditional support and care, no matter how long it takes.

2 months ago her planned new career fell through and she had a bad falling out with some housemates and she said it changed her, ever since she’s been struggling. She said since she’s been feeling empty, broken, depressed and feeling nothingness in life and is going through anhedonia.

She broke up with me a couple of days ago because she said she feels guilty and is saving me from future heartbreak because she doesn’t know how long she will feel this way. She said I’m perfect, deserve better and that she really likes me, but she feels she’s not being a good girlfriend and seems to think that I’ll be very hurt by the way she’s acting, when I don’t feel that way at all.

The thing is - she hasn’t treated me badly at all, it’s like her mind is telling her she’s been horrible to me when she hasn’t one bit. This moment has totally messed up her vision. The only thing that hurts me is that she’s making decisions through her depression and is willing to break it off with me under the assumption I don’t really know what I want when I say I want to stay.

I told her I want to ride these waves with her, that I’m the most committed and patient man, and that relationships are full of ups and downs and it’s moments like this that make couples so strong.

I know I can’t control how she thinks or break through her depression, but regardless of this, how do I make her see clearly enough that I want to stick by her the entire way and that she’s not going to break my heart by being temporarily down? How do I help her accept me as this?

I could not mean it any more when I say she is the woman for me and is not hurting me like she thinks she has been. It’s like her anhedonia is self destructing her and her vision is blurred when it comes to these assumptions. It’s clear to me she is pushing everyone away from a temporary mindset, she told me that she does this in these moments.

She’s worth it, what can I do? What can I say to her to allow her to know that I really do want to be here and that life is too short for me not to want to stick by her side through this horrible moment? She is the woman for me, hands down, I know I should respect and could run away, but I don’t want to, I wouldn’t be posting this if I didn’t want this.

I know I can’t control anything other than my side of things, but regardless of everything frustrating of someone else with depression and the skewed thinking that comes from their side, what can I say and how can I show support the most to let her see more clearly?

2 months ago her planned new career fell through and she had a bad falling out with some housemates and she said it changed her, ever since she’s been struggling. She said since she’s been feeling empty, broken, depressed and feeling nothingness in life and is going through anhedonia.

This isn’t about me taking from her, it’s about me knowing and wanting that it’s MY turn to be the giver in the relationship, to ride these waves and be an anchor.

She broke up with me a couple of days ago because she said she feels guilty and is saving me from future heartbreak because she doesn’t know how long she will feel this way. She said I’m perfect, deserve better and that she really likes me, but she feels she’s not being a good girlfriend and seems to think that I’ll be very hurt by the way she’s acting, when I don’t feel that way at all.

Her idea of hurting me and breaking my heart is her assumption that she’s been treating me bad and that she might treat me bad in the future. That’s it. That’s all this rides on and all this is motivated by.

The thing is - she hasn’t treated me badly at all, it’s like her mind is telling her she’s been horrible to me when she hasn’t one bit. This moment has totally messed up her vision. The only thing that hurts me is that she’s making decisions through her depression and is willing to break it off with me under the assumption I don’t really know what I want when I say I want to stay.

I told her I want to ride these waves with her, that I’m the most committed and patient man, and that relationships are full of ups and downs and it’s moments like this that make couples so strong.

I know I can’t control how she thinks or break through her depression, but regardless of this, how do I make her see clearly enough that I want to stick by her the entire way and that she’s not going to break my heart by being temporarily down?

I could not mean it any more when I say she is the woman for me and is not hurting me like she thinks she has been. It’s like her anhedonia is self destructing her and her vision is blurred when it comes to these assumptions. It’s clear to me she is pushing everyone away and I know it’s due to this sudden temporary mindset.

She’s worth it, what can I do? What can I say to her to allow her to know that I really do want to be here and that life is too short for me not to want to stick by her side through this horrible moment?

This relationship, or HER to be specific is far too special to let this slip away easy through skewed thinking. I understand a lot of this might be patience too, and she said I’m the man for her.

First of all my heart is shattered, and knowing the reason is because a temporary emotional state is the motivator for this, as well as assuming that she’s protecting me, is even more devastating for me and reaffirms how much fight I have for her.

This isn’t about me taking from her, it’s about me knowing and wanting that it’s MY turn to be the giver in the relationship, to ride these waves and be an anchor.

2 months ago her planned new career fell through and she had a bad falling out with some housemates and she said it changed her, ever since she’s been struggling. She said since she’s been feeling empty, broken, depressed and feeling nothingness in life and is going through anhedonia.

She broke up with me a couple of days ago because she said she feels guilty and is saving me from future heartbreak because she doesn’t know how long she will feel this way. She said I’m perfect, deserve better and that she really likes me, but she feels she’s not being a good girlfriend and seems to think that I’ll be very hurt by the way she’s acting, when I don’t feel that way at all.

The thing is - she hasn’t treated me badly at all, it’s like her mind is telling her she’s been horrible to me when she hasn’t one bit. This moment has totally messed up her vision. The only thing that hurts me is that she’s making decisions through her depression and is willing to break it off with me under the assumption I don’t really know what I want when I say I want to stay.

I told her I want to ride these waves with her, that I’m the most committed and patient man, and that relationships are full of ups and downs and it’s moments like this that make couples so strong.

I know I can’t control how she thinks or break through her depression, but regardless of this, how do I make her see clearly enough that I want to stick by her the entire way and that she’s not going to break my heart by being temporarily down?

I could not mean it any more when I say she is the woman for me and is not hurting me like she thinks she has been. It’s like her anhedonia is self destructing her and her vision is blurred when it comes to these assumptions. It’s clear to me she is pushing everyone away because of a temporary mindset.

She’s worth it, what can I do? What can I say to her to allow her to know that I really do want to be here and that life is too short for me not to want to stick by her side through this horrible moment?

2 months ago her planned new career fell through and she had a bad falling out with some housemates and she said it changed her, ever since she’s been struggling. She said since she’s been feeling empty, broken, depressed and feeling nothingness in life and is going through anhedonia.

This isn’t about me taking from her, it’s about me knowing and wanting that it’s MY turn to be the giver in the relationship, to ride these waves and be an anchor.

She broke up with me a couple of days ago because she said she feels guilty and is saving me from future heartbreak because she doesn’t know how long she will feel this way. She said I’m perfect, deserve better and that she really likes me, but she feels she’s not being a good girlfriend and seems to think that I’ll be very hurt by the way she’s acting, when I don’t feel that way at all.

The thing is - she hasn’t treated me badly at all, it’s like her mind is telling her she’s been horrible to me when she hasn’t one bit. This moment has totally messed up her vision. The only thing that hurts me is that she’s making decisions through her depression and is willing to break it off with me under the assumption I don’t really know what I want when I say I want to stay.

I told her I want to ride these waves with her, that I’m the most committed and patient man, and that relationships are full of ups and downs and it’s moments like this that make couples so strong.

I know I can’t control how she thinks or break through her depression, but regardless of this, how do I make her see clearly enough that I want to stick by her the entire way and that she’s not going to break my heart by being temporarily down?

I could not mean it any more when I say she is the woman for me and is not hurting me like she thinks she has been. It’s like her anhedonia is self destructing her and her vision is blurred when it comes to these assumptions.

She’s worth it, what can I do? What can I say to her to allow her to know that I really do want to be here and that life is too short for me not to want to stick by her side through this horrible moment?

2 months ago her planned new career fell through and she had a bad falling out with some housemates and she said it changed her, ever since she’s been struggling. She said since she’s been feeling empty, broken, depressed and feeling nothingness in life and is going through anhedonia.

This isn’t about me taking from her, it’s about me knowing and wanting that it’s MY turn to be the giver in the relationship, to ride these waves and be an anchor.

She broke up with me a couple of days ago because she said she feels guilty and is saving me from future heartbreak because she doesn’t know how long she will feel this way. She said I’m perfect, deserve better and that she really likes me, but she feels she’s not being a good girlfriend and seems to think that I’ll be very hurt by the way she’s acting, when I don’t feel that way at all.

I told her I want to ride these waves with her, that I’m the most committed and patient man, and that relationships are full of ups and downs and it’s moments like this that make couples so strong.

I know I can’t control how she thinks or break through her depression, but regardless of this, how do I make her see clearly enough that I want to stick by her the entire way and that she’s not going to break my heart by being temporarily down?

I could not mean it any more when I say she is the woman for me and is not hurting me like she thinks she has been. It’s like her anhedonia is self destructing her and her vision is blurred when it comes to these assumptions. It’s clear to me she is pushing everyone away and I know it can’t be helped, but this could be something she later regrets, especially when she thinks she knows what’s best for me. It’s also clear to me all of this is the anhedonia from the depressive moment talking and not her.

She’s worth it, what can I do? What can I say to her to know I’m here to support her no matter how rocky the road is?

It’s something I’ve noticed for a while now during certain instances, this time it’s that hard flips and inward heels are looking different and smoother than they did last week. I haven’t played for a few days so it may have been little tweaks for the Earth Day update?

Also, did they update the frame rate too or something? Things are feeling a lot slower and it feels like it’s due to some kind of frame rate/refresh rate, but in a smooth way. I notice it with minimally popped tricks that would look a bit rapid, but now they’re looking more in motion.