u/OlivePractical2092

I really hope this isn’t breaking any rules, I think I read them right and it’s not but I’m sorry if it is and feel free to take this down. Anyways, I’m asking this in every MBTI’s subreddit because I’m curious. Honestly my dad is an ENTJ and I don’t have the best relationship with him and he’s kind of the only one I know so it’s not a great example lol, but I’ve definitely met some ENTJs on the internet who seem pretty chill. So I’m wondering how your relationships with INFJs are?

I’m asking this in every MBTI’s subreddit because I’m curious. Personally as an INFJ, I love INFPs. I actually thought I was an INFP for quite some time and posted in here a few times on my old account while I thought I was one. My youngest sister is an INFP and we get along so well and are great friends. So I’m curious, how are your relationships with INFJs?

I’m asking this in every MBTI’s subreddit because I’m curious. Honestly ISFPs are some of the best people I know and I would love to be friends with one. So I’m curious, how do your relationships tend to be with INFJs?

I’m asking this in every MBTI’s subreddit because I’m curious. Personally as an INFJ I love ENFPs, my dearest friend I’ve ever had was an ENFP so I really appreciate you guys, I’ve never met an ENFP I didn’t like. So I’m curious to know how your relationships with INFJs tend to be?

I’m asking this in every MBTI’s subreddit because I’m curious. Personally as an INFJ, I love you guys so much and I wish I was you. I don’t know many ENTPs but I wish I could change that because I truly love you guys. But yeah I’m curious to know how your relationships with INFJs tend to be?

I’m asking this question in all the MBTI subreddits because I’m curious! Personally as an INFJ my relationships with ENFJs are always so lovely, my grandma is one and I always have the best talks with her and I just love her so much, and I also had an old boyfriend who was one and we connected so well. I’m curious to see how your relationships are with INFJs usually

I deal with..well, honestly, a lot of things. And I sometimes worry I’m just being dramatic but I don’t think I am. I don’t know if all of this is connected? But I’m gonna say all the things that I deal with, some of them aren’t as alarming but some are. For context I’m 17 years old and generally healthy, I could move a little more and my diet could be a little bit better, as I do skip meals sometimes, but other than that, I mean I’m a healthy weight and all of my labs came back fine, except my cholesterol is a tiny tiny bit elevated, but my doctor said it’s barely enough to be a concern and it’s most likely related to genetics.

-First of all, when I’m walking or biking or exercising for a long period of time, or even not that long, for like 15 minutes, I’ll feel a sudden drop of energy, and what will happen is I get super dizzy, nauseous, a bad headache, and in general just do not feel okay. I used to think it was just me being out of shape but the thing is if it was that it would happen more gradually, this just happens out of nowhere. It doesn’t matter if I drink, eat before, this happens nearly every time.

-I will frequently get so dizzy when getting up I sometimes actually fall down because of how bad it is

-I get headaches and nausea quite frequently (this one is more normal but I thought I’d include it just in case)

-I feel so tired every day no matter how much sleep I get

-In the week before my period, I get very, very depressed and low and just so irritable and not okay. I used to think it was just related to my depression but I’m more happy now and yet this hasn’t stopped happening. I also get very tired and very socially drained from it.

-I have period cramps which are so painful it doesn’t feel normal. In fact, just last week, I went to the ER because they were so bad. The doctors didn’t find anything, except an unrelated bladder infection, but it’s because they only did a CT scan on my abdomen and not my ovaries, which my doctor (who is a woman so thankfully she understands) was mad at them for. She thinks it was probably an ovarian torsion that just untwisted itself but I’m not completely sure. And I’m so scared that’s going to happen again.

-I sometimes have cramps at random times when I’m not even on my period that impact my life.

Okay I’m sure there are more I’m not thinking of, but please don’t see me as dramatic or anything, or idk tell me if I am. I just really don’t think this is normal. Most of my family can go on long walks with no problems, except my mom, she has multiple auto-immune diseases, so I don’t know maybe it’s something genetic? Anyways I’m not asking for medical advice, but I just need advice on how to push harder for a diagnosis or just some kind of relief, because soon I’ll turn 18 and it’ll be my job.

Someone told me that it goes like this, SO4s are always 4w5, sx4s are always 4w3, and Sp4s can be either one. But I’d consider myself a 4w3 (though I still do question as I have traits of both 4w3 and 4w5) and SO4. Is this rule just the typical typing police or does it have some truth to it?

I’m 99% sure I’m an INFJ but there are rare times where I question if I’m really an ISFP or an ISFJ or sometimes even an INFP, which is funny because when I first got into it I initially mistyped as an INFP. However, I always circle back to INFJ because it really does fit me best and I relate to Ni-Ti a lot and have a lot of Fe. Does anyone else have similar experiences?