u/Mammoth_Nose_9313

I’m currently D3, I was D2 but lost a decent amount of games in a row. I play on PlayStation. I’m almost level 600 and I’ve never hit champ. When I play ranked, I either solo queue or play with my two friends who are like peak plat. When I play with them, they almost always go negative and when I solo, it feels like most of my teammates should be gold-plat. I’m also pretty sure I go against xim a decent amount and almost every game I play is against multiple ex-champs. I just wanna hit champ one time but it feels impossible.

I’m currently D3, I was D2 but lost a decent amount of games in a row. I play on PlayStation. I’m almost level 600 and I’ve never hit champ. When I play ranked, I either solo queue or play with my two friends who are like peak plat. When I play with them, they almost always go negative and when I solo, it feels like most of my teammates should be gold-plat. I’m also pretty sure I go against xim a decent amount and almost every game I play is against multiple ex-champs. I just wanna hit champ one time but it feels impossible.

I’m on console and I’ve made it to D2 so far, this is the highest I’ve ever been. I play with two friends but they’re like peak plat. Once in a while they’ll do good but almost always go negative. I wanna hit champ this season but it feels like I lose when I play with my friends and I lose a decent amount when I solo queue too.

I (M19) matched with this girl (F18) on a dating app like three weeks ago. We went out two weeks ago, then went out again this previous weekend. The first date was just at the mall, the second was at a boardwalk. We talked and walked around, then got ice cream and it was like a couple hours total. It was starting to get dark, and she made a joke about it being scary so I asked if she’d wanna hold my hand. She said yes and we held hands then walked more.

We were sitting down at the end of the boardwalk, she said she had to leave soon because she was getting picked up. I was nervous but I decided to ask if I could kiss her. She said yes then we had a very quick kiss. This was my first time ever kissing so I was nervous but thought this was a very good sign. The next day, she texts me saying she had a great time but doesn’t really feel like we go together, or something like that, so she asked if I’d wanna be friends. I didn’t text back. I’m just wondering why this happened.

I (M19) matched with this girl (F18) on a dating app like three weeks ago. We went out two weeks ago, then went out again this previous weekend. The first date was just at the mall, the second was at a boardwalk. We talked and walked around, then got ice cream and it was like a couple hours total. It was starting to get dark, and she made a joke about it being scary so I asked if she’d wanna hold my hand. She said yes and we held hands then walked more.

We were sitting down at the end of the boardwalk, she said she had to leave soon because she was getting picked up. I was nervous but I decided to ask if I could kiss her. She said yes then we had a very quick kiss. This was my first time ever kissing so I was nervous but thought this was a very good sign. The next day, she texts me saying she had a great time but doesn’t really feel like we go together, or something like that, so she asked if I’d wanna be friends. I didn’t text back. I’m just wondering why this happened.

I (M19) went out with this girl (F18) on Saturday night. We matched on a dating app, talked for a few weeks, had a first date then this was our second. I offered to pick her up but she said she’d just get dropped off. We went to a boardwalk, walked around, and got some ice cream. I thought things were going very good even though we both seemed a lil bit nervous. I don’t have any dating experience, never kissed, and probably never even held hands romantically.

It was starting to get dark out so she made a joke about it being scary, and I asked if she’d wanna hold my hand. This was basically the end of the date but we held hands and walked down to the bottom of the boardwalk to sit for a few mins. We talked a lil more and it seemed like things were still going good. I asked if I could kiss her and she said yes so we had a quick kiss. Idk if me asking was bad and I should’ve just gone for it or what. That’s my first kiss ever.

The next day, she texts me saying she had a great time meeting me and all that but doesn’t feel like we fit together. I’m not sure what I did wrong. She said we could be friends if I wanted, but I didn’t even text her back. I don’t see a point in being friends with her. I’m just confused since we just kissed then she says she doesn’t like me.

I (M19) matched with this girl (F18) on a dating app like three weeks ago. We ended up going out last weekend to the mall and played mini golf. We went out again on Saturday to a boardwalk and got ice cream. We talked a good amount but I was nervous and probably awkward on both dates. She’s the first girl who didn’t reject me or ghost after the first date. When it started getting dark out, she made a joke about it being scary so I asked if she’d wanna hold my hand. We held hands for a while and just walked to the end of the boardwalk and sat there for a lil bit.

She was smiling and laughing so I decided to ask if I could kiss her, she said yes and we had a quick kiss. This was my first kiss ever, which I know is late. I thought the date was amazing but then she texted yesterday saying she thinks I’m sweet but she doesn’t think we’re the “best fit” and she doesn’t wanna go further because “it wouldn’t be fair” to me. She said she’d be open to being friends. I haven’t even texted back because I feel like there’s no point. I thought she liked me, so idk what I did wrong. We held hands and kissed so I thought things were going great.

Tl;dr: I (M19) went out on two dates with this girl (F18) we even ended up kissing, then she still said she doesn’t see anything more than us being friends.

I (M19) matched with this girl (F18) on a dating app like three weeks ago. We ended up going out last weekend to the mall and played mini golf. We went out again on Saturday to a boardwalk and got ice cream. We talked a good amount but I was nervous and probably awkward on both dates. She’s the first girl who didn’t reject me or ghost after the first date. When it started getting dark out, she made a joke about it being scary so I asked if she’d wanna hold my hand. We held hands for a while and just walked to the end of the boardwalk and sat there for a lil bit.

She was smiling and laughing so I decided to ask if I could kiss her, she said yes and we had a quick kiss. This was my first kiss ever, which I know is late. I thought the date was amazing but then she texted yesterday saying she thinks I’m sweet but she doesn’t think we’re the “best fit” and she doesn’t wanna go further because “it wouldn’t be fair” to me. She said she’d be open to being friends. I haven’t even texted back because I feel like there’s no point. I thought she liked me, so idk what I did wrong. We held hands and kissed so I thought things were going great.

Tl;dr: I (M19) went out on two dates with this girl (F18) we even ended up kissing, then she still said she doesn’t see anything more than us being friends.

I (M19) matched with this girl (F18) on a dating app like three weeks ago. We ended up going out last weekend to the mall and played mini golf. We went out again on Saturday to a boardwalk and got ice cream. We talked a good amount but I was nervous and probably awkward on both dates. She’s the first girl who didn’t reject me or ghost after the first date. When it started getting dark out, she made a joke about it being scary so I asked if she’d wanna hold my hand. We held hands for a while and just walked to the end of the boardwalk and sat there for a lil bit.

She was smiling and laughing so I decided to ask if I could kiss her, she said yes and we had a quick kiss. This was my first kiss ever, which I know is late. I thought the date was amazing but then she texted yesterday saying she thinks I’m sweet but she doesn’t think we’re the “best fit” and she doesn’t wanna go further because “it wouldn’t be fair” to me. She said she’d be open to being friends. I haven’t even texted back because I feel like there’s no point. I thought she liked me, so idk what I did wrong. We held hands and kissed so I thought things were going great.

I (M19) matched with this girl (F18) on a dating app like three weeks ago. We ended up going out last weekend to the mall and played mini golf. We went out again last night to a boardwalk and got ice cream. We talked a good amount but I was nervous and probably awkward on both dates. She’s the first girl who didn’t reject me or ghost after the first date. When it started getting dark out, she made a joke about it being scary so I asked if she’d wanna hold my hand. We held hands for a while and just walked to the end of the boardwalk and sat there for a lil bit.

She was smiling and laughing so I decided to ask if I could kiss her, she said yes and we had a quick kiss. This was my first kiss ever, which I know is late. I thought the date was amazing but then she texted today saying she thinks I’m sweet but she doesn’t think we’re the “best fit” and she doesn’t wanna go further because “it wouldn’t be fair” to me. She said she’d be open to being friends. I haven’t even texted back because I feel like there’s no point. I thought she liked me, so idk what I did wrong. We held hands and kissed so I thought things were going great.

I (M19) matched with this girl (F18) on a dating app like three weeks ago. We ended up going out last weekend to the mall and played mini golf. We went out again last night to a boardwalk and got ice cream. We talked a good amount but I was nervous and probably awkward on both dates. She’s the first girl who didn’t reject me or ghost after the first date. When I started getting dark out, she made a joke about it being scary so I asked if she’d wanna hold my hand. We held for a while and just walked to the end of the boardwalk and sat there for a lil bit.

She was smiling and laughing so I decided to ask if I could kiss her, she said yes and we had a quick kiss. This was my first kiss ever, which I know is late. I thought the date was amazing but then she texted today saying she thinks I’m sweet but she doesn’t think we’re the “best fit” and she doesn’t wanna go further because “it wouldn’t be fair” to me. She said she’d be open to being friends. I haven’t even texted back because I feel like there’s no point. I thought she liked me, so idk what I did wrong. We held hands and kissed so I thought things were going great.

I (M19) matched with this girl (F18) on a dating app like three weeks ago. We ended up going out last weekend to the mall and played mini golf. We went out again last night to a boardwalk and got ice cream. We talked a good amount but I was nervous and probably awkward on both dates. She’s the first girl who didn’t reject me or ghost after the first date. When I started getting dark out, she made a joke about it being scary so I asked if she’d wanna hold my hand. We held for a while and just walked to the end of the boardwalk and sat there for a lil bit.

She was smiling and laughing so I decided to ask if I could kiss her, she said yes and we had a quick kiss. This was my first kiss ever, which I know is late. I thought the date was amazing but then she texted today saying she thinks I’m sweet but she doesn’t think we’re the “best fit” and she doesn’t wanna go further because “it wouldn’t be fair” to me. She said she’d be open to being friends. I haven’t even texted back because I feel like there’s no point. I thought she liked me, so idk what I did wrong. We held hands and kissed so I thought things were going great.

I (M19) went on a second date with this girl (F18) last night. We went to a boardwalk, walked around and talked for a while, got some ice cream, then walked for a lil while after too. Near the end of the date, when it was starting to get dark, she made a joke about it being scary so I asked if she’d wanna hold my hand and she did. We walked down to end of the boardwalk and just sat there for a lil bit. We talked more, and it seemed like she was happy and smiling, so I decided to just ask if I could kiss her. She said yes and we had a quick lil kiss, then she had to leave because someone was picking her up.

She said she had a good time last night but today I asked how she felt about the kiss and she said “like don’t feel bad about it, it did catch me a lil off guard, I do think I just need a lil time to think about where I am at with things.” I’m guessing this might be bad? If so, did I do something wrong?

I (M19) went out on a second date with this girl (F18). We started talking like three weeks ago, went out last weekend and just went out tonight too. We went to a boardwalk with a bunch of stores and stuff there. We walked around for a while, got some ice cream, then walked a lil more and just sat on the boardwalk. I’m guessing she was nervous too but I was pretty nervous the whole time.

Am I behind since I’ve never had any success with dating before this? On our first date, we talked a good amount but didn’t have any kind of physical contact. This time I wanted to at least hold her hand or something. It was starting to get dark, so I knew she’d have to leave soon but we still walked a lil more. She made a joke about it being scary since it was dark, so I asked if she’d wanna hold my hand and we did. We sat at the bottom of the boardwalk for a lil while talking and it seemed like she was pretty happy, so I asked if I could kiss her, she said yes and we had a quick kiss.

This was my first kiss so idk how far I am behind most people. After that, she had to leave so we held hands and I walked with her since she was getting picked up. Now I’m not sure what to do for the next date. Should I maybe ask in a couple days if she’d like to go out again?

I (M19) went out on a second date with this girl (F18). We started talking like three weeks ago, went out last weekend and just went out tonight too. We went to a boardwalk with a bunch of stores and stuff there. We walked around for a while, got some ice cream, then walked a lil more and just sat on the boardwalk. I’m guessing she was nervous too but I was pretty nervous the whole time.

Am I behind since I’ve never had any success with dating before this? On our first date, we talked a good amount but didn’t have any kind of physical contact. This time I wanted to at least hold her hand or something. It was starting to get dark, so I knew she’d have to leave soon but we still walked a lil more. She made a joke about it being scary since it was dark, so I asked if she’d wanna hold my hand and we did. We sat at the bottom of the boardwalk for a lil while talking and it seemed like she was pretty happy, so I asked if I could kiss her, she said yes and we had a quick kiss.

This was my first kiss so idk how far I am behind most people. After that, she had to leave so we held hands and I walked with her since she was getting picked up. Now I’m not sure what to do for the next date. Should I maybe ask in a couple days if she’d like to go out again?

I (M19) matched with this girl (F18) on a dating app and we’ve been talking for like three weeks. We went on our first date last weekend, went to the mall and played some mini golf, then went out again tonight to a boardwalk, walked around, and got some ice cream. We were just talking and walking around most of the time but when it was starting to get dark she knew she’d have to leave soon.

We walked a lil more to the end of the boardwalk, she made a joke about being scared of the dark, so I asked if she’d wanna hold my hand and she did. After that, we sat at the end of the boardwalk, talked and she kept looking over at me and kinda laughing/smiling. I asked if I could kiss her and she said yes, that’s my first kiss ever. It kinda feels like she was hinting for me to do it but I just wanna make sure.

I (M19) went out on a second date with this girl (F18). We started talking like three weeks ago, went out last weekend and just went out tonight too. We went to a boardwalk with a bunch of stores and stuff there. We walked around for a while, got some ice cream, then walked a lil more and just sat on the boardwalk. I’m guessing she was nervous too but I was pretty nervous the whole time.

Am I behind since I’ve never had any success with dating before this? On our first date, we talked a good amount but didn’t have any kind of physical contact. This time I wanted to at least hold her hand or something. It was starting to get dark, so I knew she’d have to leave soon but we still walked a lil more. She made a joke about it being scary since it was dark, so I asked if she’d wanna hold my hand and we did. We sat at the bottom of the boardwalk for a lil while talking and it seemed like she was pretty happy, so I asked if I could kiss her, she said yes and we had a quick kiss.

This was my first kiss so idk how far I am behind most people. After that, she had to leave so we held hands and I walked with her since she was getting picked up. Now I’m not sure what to do for the next date. Should I maybe ask in a couple days if she’d like to go out again?

I (M19) went out on a second date with this girl (F18). We started talking like three weeks ago, went out last weekend and just went out tonight too. We went to a boardwalk with a bunch of stores and stuff there. We walked around for a while, got some ice cream, then walked a lil more and just sat on the boardwalk. I’m guessing she was nervous too but I was pretty nervous the whole time.

Am I behind since I’ve never had any success with dating before this? On our first date, we talked a good amount but didn’t have any kind of physical contact. This time I wanted to at least hold her hand or something. It was starting to get dark, so I knew she’d have to leave soon but we still walked a lil more. She made a joke about it being scary since it was dark, so I asked if she’d wanna hold my hand and we did. We sat at the bottom of the boardwalk for a lil while talking and it seemed like she was pretty happy, so I asked if I could kiss her, she said yes and we had a quick kiss.

This was my first kiss so idk how far I am behind most people. After that, she had to leave so we held hands and I walked with her since she was getting picked up. Now I’m not sure what to do for the next date. Should I maybe ask in a couple days if she’d like to go out again?

I (M19) matched with this girl (F18) on a dating app like three weeks ago. We’ve been texting a lot and went out together last weekend. We just went to the mall and played some mini golf. We’re probably gonna go out again tomorrow. We were talking about going somewhere we can just walk around for a while then grabbing ice cream after since there’s an ice cream spot where she wants to go.

She doesn’t have her license yet so I offered to pick her up but she said she’ll just get dropped off. I don’t see why she would lie about being 18, but also how do I make sure she’s 18? She said she doesn’t have it because she moved from another state. One other thing is that I get very nervous/awkward and I never know what to talk about or say. I’ve never even kissed a girl and I’m 19. Should I try to make any move like holding her hand or hugging her? Sorry if these are dumb questions but I basically have no dating experience at all.