u/Colume_

She’s down a mental spiral, do you think we could get back together? 19M and 18F

I’m writing this to get get some opinions on the situation I’m on, I just got broken up with by my gf, we’ve been dating for a little bit and we had a great relationship, very caring and very loving and understanding from both ends, we both showed great appreciation for one another and showed we both cared a lot, we both valued communication the most and never had a fight, when smtn bothered one of us we both fixed it together, but it ended, we ended on good terms, nothing about the relationship ended it, her mental state is what drove her to break up with me, she had some traumatic events happen a few months before she ment me, s/a, grape, losing her best friend, losing her favourite work because of Yk, losing her dad. And when she broke up with me we talked on her porch for atleast an hour about it, she gave me a cigarette and her time, she said that she doesn’t have the mental capacity to continue because of how much is going on, she said she’s not done doing certain things and doesn’t quite want to settle yet because of how chaotic her life is at the moment. She also said that she knows she’ll miss this down the line and miss it so so much. I’m just on here to ask if we could ever get back together?

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u/Colume_ — 1 day ago

We just ended on good term (19M) and her (18F) could we get back together in the future?

I’m writing this to get get some opinions on the situation I’m on, I just got broken up with by my gf, we’ve been dating for a little bit and we had a great relationship, very caring and very loving and understanding from both ends, we both showed great appreciation for one another and showed we both cared a lot, we both valued communication the most and never had a fight, when smtn bothered one of us we both fixed it together, but it ended, we ended on good terms, nothing about the relationship ended it, her mental state is what drove her to break up with me, she had some traumatic events happen a few months before she ment me, s/a, grape, losing her best friend, losing her favourite work because of Yk, losing her dad. And when she broke up with me we talked on her porch for atleast an hour about it, she gave me a cigarette and her time, she said that she doesn’t have the mental capacity to continue because of how much is going on, she said she’s not done doing certain things and doesn’t quite want to settle yet because of how chaotic her life is at the moment. She also said that she knows she’ll miss this down the line and miss it so so much. I’m just on here to ask if we could ever get back together?

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u/Colume_ — 2 days ago

We just ended in good terms (19M) and her (18F) could we possible get back together?

I’m writing this to get get some opinions on the situation I’m on, I just got broken up with by my gf, we’ve been dating for a little bit and we had a great relationship, very caring and very loving and understanding from both ends, we both showed great appreciation for one another and showed we both cared a lot, we both valued communication the most and never had a fight, when smtn bothered one of us we both fixed it together, but it ended, we ended on good terms, nothing about the relationship ended it, her mental state is what drove her to break up with me, she had some traumatic events happen a few months before she ment me, s/a, grape, losing her best friend, losing her favourite work because of Yk, losing her dad. And when she broke up with me we talked on her porch for atleast an hour about it, she gave me a cigarette and her time, she said that she doesn’t have the mental capacity to continue because of how much is going on, she said she’s not done doing certain things and doesn’t quite want to settle yet because of how chaotic her life is at the moment. She also said that she knows she’ll miss this down the line and miss it so so much. I’m just on here to ask if we could ever get back together?

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u/Colume_ — 2 days ago

We just ended on good terms (19M) and her (18F), could we get back together in the future?

I’m writing this to get get some opinions on the situation I’m on, I just got broken up with by my gf, we’ve been dating for a little bit and we had a great relationship, very caring and very loving and understanding from both ends, we both showed great appreciation for one another and showed we both cared a lot, we both valued communication the most and never had a fight, when smtn bothered one of us we both fixed it together, but it ended, we ended on good terms, nothing about the relationship ended it, her mental state is what drove her to break up with me, she had some traumatic events happen a few months before she ment me, s/a, grape, losing her best friend, losing her favourite work because of Yk, losing her dad. And when she broke up with me we talked on her porch for atleast an hour about it, she gave me a cigarette and her time, she said that she doesn’t have the mental capacity to continue because of how much is going on, she said she’s not done doing certain things and doesn’t quite want to settle yet because of how chaotic her life is at the moment. She also said that she knows she’ll miss this down the line and miss it so so much. I’m just on here to ask if we could ever get back together?

tl;dr, we ended on good terms, she broke up for mental issues and nothing about the relationship, could we get back together in the future in thes circumstances?

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u/Colume_ — 2 days ago

We just ended on good terms, could we get back together?

I’m writing this to get get some opinions on the situation I’m on, I just got broken up with by my gf, we’ve been dating for a little bit and we had a great relationship, very caring and very loving and understanding from both ends, we both showed great appreciation for one another and showed we both cared a lot, but it ended, we ended on good terms, nothing about the relationship ended it, her mental state is what drove her to break up with me, she had some traumatic events happen a few months before she ment me, s/a, grape, losing her best friend, losing her favourite work because of Yk, losing her dad. And when she broke up with me we talked on her porch for atleast an hour about it, she gave me a cigarette and her time, she said that she doesn’t have the mental capacity to continue because of how much is going on, she said she’s not done doing certain things and doesn’t quite want to settle yet because of how chaotic her life is at the moment. She also said that she knows she’ll miss this down the line and miss it so so much. I’m just on here to ask if we could ever get back together?

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u/Colume_ — 2 days ago

I just got broken up with (19M) by my now ex (18F) could we get back together?

I’m writing this to get get some opinions on the situation I’m on, I just got broken up with by my gf, we’ve been dating for a little bit and we had a great relationship, very caring and very loving and understanding from both ends, we both showed great appreciation for one another and showed we both cared a lot, but it ended, we ended on good terms, nothing about the relationship ended it, her mental state is what drove her to break up with me, she had some traumatic events happen a few months before she ment me, s/a, grape, losing her best friend, losing her favourite work because of Yk, losing her dad. And when she broke up with me we talked on her porch for atleast an hour about it, she gave me a cigarette and her time, she said that she doesn’t have the mental capacity to continue because of how much is going on, she said she’s not done doing certain things and doesn’t quite want to settle yet because of how chaotic her life is at the moment. She also said that she knows she’ll miss this down the line and miss it so so much. I’m just on here to ask if we could ever get back together?

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u/Colume_ — 2 days ago