u/Boring-Criticism-529

i started talking to this 31 year old while my ex and i were split up.
things were getting serious between him and i as my ex and i were trying to make amends.
which was just a couple days ago..
i’m at the point where i know this man is NOT good for me, was abusive to his ex, on drugs, still lives at home with his mom, drug dealer, the whole shabang!
i need to cut him off but i am scared? he’s never done anything to me to be scared to cut him off? but he knows where i live. i’m 23 and i still live at home with my family. i don’t want to put anyone in danger.

hopefully i can be done with this and leave this in the past.. i’ll explain one more time, and one more time only.
i was tested for all stds on april 20th, being my last exposure to a man on april 3rd.
i have been worried about hiv. when i tested negative on april 20th, it would’ve been only 17 days from last exposure.
i am now waiting to get my 4th gen blood test at 5 weeks and 3 days from exposure..
is this accurate enough? do i really need to keep testing?!?

my last exposure to him was april 3rd, i’m a female.
i was tested april 20th and was negative. i had the 4th gen and with the p24 indicator.
the last person he had with with before me back in february was late december early january, so i made him do a oraquick test beginning of april and his was negative.
can i trust ANY of this information? im so so scared.

if my last exposure was april 3rd, and i had a std screening april 20th and it was all negative, should i retest?
(with exception of hiv and sphyilis, getting that retested next week)

i’m getting ready to babysit a 2 month old..
i think im about to get a genital OB.
would it still be safe to watch the baby? i wash and sanitize religiously and never touch open sores.

once again.. very newly diagnosed hsv2, i’m a female.
i touched myself to see my discharge not realizing i have a huge open hang nail on my finger. i immediately wiped my finger off with a makeup wipe and washed my hands whenever i took a shower 10 mins later. im not in a middle of a outbreak. should i worry about it on my finger????
i just took a shower and washed my face ugh.