r/stdtesting

Let me say this first, you need to tell your partners if you test positive for an STD and exposed them.

Not everyone knows this, but if you test positive for an STD the lab makes a report and your state or local health department usually will try to track down your partners. That can include calling your spouse if you're married.

In my case I didn't want to risk my spouse getting a call, so I went to lengths to test anonymously. I refrained from any sexual contact with them from the time of potential exposure until I got results.

Basically, I bought a 4U home kit, which I was able to register with an entirely fake set of information. Once you receive the test kit you sign up using a fake name, birth date, phone number, and email address. The only thing is your results are delivered by email so you'll need an email address you can access.

Don't lose that information you make up to sign up, because my guess is since you don't have an ID with that, they're not going to help you get to your results if for some reason you can't log in.

If you are feeling super careful you'll want to use an address other than your home address for the shipping, and a burner phone number and email address. The good news about the shipping, is at least for the FedEx packaging, the return address simply says "Fulfillment Center".

Just sharing for other people in my situation. Use this information responsibly, not to hide a positive result from someone you exposed.

My bf of 7 years has never been tested for STDs but I have before we got together and since we've been together, always being negative. Surely if he had something, it would have shown up through me as I have been getting tested?

a few days ago i found out that i tested positive for chlamydia and so i told my boyfriend of 6 months to also get tested. he told me his results were negative (no proof) but i have stayed completely loyal to him, i don’t even sit on public toilets 😔. we never used protection and neither of us had been tested in over a year prior to this (smart i know). he broke up with me because of this and it’s eating me alive.

how is it possible for him to be negative??????? please help

To keep it simple I gave oral to a guy for the first time on the 9th of feb. It was in the morning and he finished in my mouth. I brushed my teeth like 20 mins before hand. And occasionally my gums do bleed. In hindsight I know now I shouldn’t have done this.

I later found out we work at same place but that’s another story. I went and hung out with my friend who was ill the next day. Obviously I got ill. I had a sore throat the lot. I started getting worried when it wouldn’t go away. And my mouth had white spots at the back of my throat.

Went to the doctors told them everything they gave me antibiotics. That helped but it came back. Ended up booking a test. I went in and got tested on 19th of march. Told the woman everything except for the brushing and bleeding gums part. I forgot. she said you are probably ok but I took a blood sample, a urine sample and a throat swab. It took like 2-3 weeks to come back (14th of April) and it was all negative. I was relieved but mouth looks the same. It’s been almost a month and now I’ve got a sore throat again. I’ve taken a test at home and going to post it tomorrow but I’m still worried.

So I have been dating this guy since February, we had unprotected sex on march1 just his moth I have been experiencing hese rashes on my hands, and I noticed ever since we had sex he was always not feeling well...he's bipolar and takles like three different types of antibiotics so I thought that was why, but now we had a fight unrelated b it over all he wanted some space told me I should get my sh it together so I did..part from learning how to manage my emotions. And be a better person I remembered to have a test I always took HIV test before last December was my last, and I took it I was clean and sill am today and was takinbprep before, but just today I was offered a free syphilis test, I took. It, came out aas positive, then I had a rpr quantitative test it was 1:128, and now I'm depressed and scared he will decide to cut me off or won't talk tok me anymore once I break the news, I'm going to tell him I have syphilis and might have infected him since I came inside of him...we are 23 and in love at the time he's already. I'm goinbi tell him and take responsibility for the payments but I'm so scared I hear the final words of him. Not wanting to see me anymore, Ive been goin hrog so much with failing college and having my tuition stollen and him wanting space because I got too SF depressed for him to handle and now this...I know it's my fault for nt getting checked prior because I was taking prep I didn't account syphilis because I was normal. Those past few months, Im just so alone right now

Hey everyone so a while back I hooked up with a guy I’m a 22 f and we did condom but he took it off without me noticing nov8 5 weeks later (Dec 12 )I get a text from his wife which I had no idea about as he told me has single telling me he has “aids “ to go get checked I went to planned parenthood asap got tested hiv with their finger prick test and was negative the Dr told me it was conclusive but I did ended having a flu around Christmas time so I’m still very afraid and have been celibate since and just afraid

Do I need to get retested if I haven’t had unprotected sex for 3 years and I already got tested after the unprotected sex?

I recently had athlete's foot, and must have not washed my hands after applying my antifungal at some point, because there is now a ring of tight skin underneath my foreskin and it's milky white, almost looks like dead skin. There's also a rough patch on one point. I also developed a fungal rash on my inner thighs which has been corrected with more antifungals, but I need to know.

Are the symptoms under my foreskin supposed to clear within a few days? I've been using clotrimazole, but I'm worried that I might be using the wrong solution because nothing seems to be changing despite the rash between my thighs clearing. Is this potentially something else? I've got a hookup in a month or so and don't wanna give them something by accident.

Avoiding HIV isn’t about being afraid; it’s about education and action. Thanks to advances in medicine, HIV is easily avoidable nowadays, and maintaining your safety from this infection is much easier than many people may imagine.

Getting tested regularly is essential to avoiding the spread of HIV. The truth is that not all people show clear signs of the infection, making testing critical for understanding your current state and making well-informed choices on both your health and your partner’s safety.

Having protected sex is also important when trying to avoid HIV. This is where condoms come in handy since they help lower the risks of transmission if used properly. Additionally, they protect you from other STIs in the process, so it’s an extra benefit for your future.

But there are also prevention pills that dramatically alter the playing field. One such medicine is PrEP, which is taken every day by those who want to reduce their chances of contracting HIV upon being exposed. The other one is PEP, which is supposed to be taken soon after being exposed to the virus, ideally not later than 72 hours. They are both safe, highly recommendable and extremely effective. But treatment also works as an instrument of prevention. If someone is infected with HIV and uses their treatment regularly, it can make the virus untransmittable through sexual relations. The state in which there is no risk of passing on the infection from someone else with HIV is called U=U and revolutionized our understanding of the problem.

Communication turns out to play a much more important role than anyone cares to admit. Being honest about your tests, protective measures, and boundaries reduces the risks and creates a sense of mutual trust. Yes, it may be awkward at times, but it is a necessary thing.

It’s important not to overlook other sexually transmitted infections. The presence of such infections may heighten your risk of contracting HIV, which is why HIV screening and proper medication are key aspects of prevention.

HIV prevention boils down to doing the right thing consistently. All you need is testing, practicing safe sex, taking medication where necessary, treatment, and communication. This doesn’t mean that it’s about avoiding HIV infection; rather, it’s about prioritizing your health and the health of others around you.

Vaginal discharge is your body’s natural way of keeping things clean and balanced. Most of the time, it’s completely normal and actually a sign that everything is working as it should. The trick is knowing what’s typical for you and spotting when something changes.

Normal discharge can vary throughout your cycle. It might be clear, white, or slightly milky, with a texture that shifts from thin and watery to stretchy or creamy, especially around ovulation. It shouldn’t have a strong odor or cause itching, burning, or pain. Hormones play a big role here, so it’s normal to notice changes before or after your period, during ovulation, while on birth control, during pregnancy, or even after sex.

Where you want to pay closer attention is when there’s a clear shift in color, smell, or texture. Discharge that turns yellow, green, gray, or thick and clumpy can signal an issue. A strong, fishy, or unpleasant odor is another red flag. When these changes come with symptoms like itching, burning, pain during sex, pelvic discomfort, or unexpected bleeding, it’s your body asking for a check-up.

Common causes of abnormal discharge include infections like yeast infections, bacterial vaginosis, or certain STIs. Sometimes it’s not even an infection; things like scented products, douching, or irritation can throw off your natural balance too.

If something feels off, skip the guesswork. Self-diagnosing or using random treatments can make things worse or delay proper care. Testing helps pinpoint the cause so you can treat it correctly the first time.

Bottom line: discharge is normal and healthy, but noticeable changes in color, smell, or comfort aren’t something to ignore. Knowing your baseline makes it easier to catch issues early, and when in doubt, getting checked is always the smart move.

I just got done with my 2nd week of antibiotics for my STI (gono), the symptoms are noticeably gone by the time i was about to finish my 2nd week, like there are no longer yellowish/green stains on my underwear and the pain is also gone

but there is still this uncomfortable damp feeling like there is pee dribbling at the tip of my penis and its been like 4 days since i felt this pee-like liquid

google (i know sometimes its not reliable) said some symptoms can linger after treatment. Is this normal?

I got blowjob from sex worker unprotected, vaginal sex was protected, during head she sucked the balls strongly, from that day I am feeling pain in my right ball behind upside no any other symtomps or any other thing , I took shower immediately after sex like after 30 minutes.
Only pain in right ball behind upside. Also my tongue is complete white, I think it was before as well.

I took some medicine from pharmacy which is Cefuroxime 500mg and for pain Diclofenac Potassium. Should I go for full test of this pain doesnt go after 5 days.

Hi everyone,

I am a straight male, and recently (today actually) participated in my first sex party. Now I went in with condoms, but at some point the little head got control and for the first time outside of a monogamous relationship I had unprotected sex.

I'm really upset with myself about this and how I could be so stupid. Directly after I washed off and spoke to the organizer (the woman in question was his wife) to address my concern. He told me that both he and his wife are on PrEP and DoxyPeP, and are tested regularly. Even going as far as to show the most recent results.

This made me feel a bit better, but I also know I wasn't the first person through the door if you know what I mean. What's my exposure risk from the other gents who went before me?

Freaking out a little bit. I've got a clean record and I really want to keep it that way lol

Update: Thanks to those who posted! I'm still a little anxious and I won't lie, I lost a bit of sleep. I was able to get on PeP and DoxyPeP. I have an appointment in a month for testing again, and another a few months later.

I have a question maybe you can give some advice I had a sexual exposure vaginal only condom protected… I got sypmtoms after a week like flu like lower abdominal pain or above pelvic pain nasea and dirrhea chill fatigue etc with in that year after sex I did the following
5 hiv ag/ag screen
5 sphyilis (RPR)
3 gonorrhea urine and throat swab
3 chlamydia urine and throat swab
3 hsv 1 and 2igg
4 urine culture
Testicle ultrasound
CT scan of pelvic
Hepatitis C AND B screen negative
all my test been negative,nonreative, no inflammation, no swollen lymph nodes, no abnormalities only test I haven’t done is Mgen
Yet all test were done 5months to 1year and 2 months out since my exposure and and it’s been 2 years since my exposure now so I’m not for sure what to do I’m having on going random lower abdomen intense burn with testicle aches inner groin burn as well I get relief when laying down but as the does go walking or bending irritates me and certain food and drink irritates as well

You may be concerned about the best time to test for STDs. If you have had unprotected sexual contact, our doctors recommend testing 3 weeks after initial exposure, and again 3 months after to confirm your initial diagnosis. This is the best way to ensure you test at the right time because different sexually transmitted infections become detectable at different times.

If you’re trying to understand STD testing, this thread breaks down the most common tests, how they work, and when to take them. Whether you’ve got a new partner, multiple partners, or just want peace of mind, getting tested regularly is one of the easiest ways to stay on top of your sexual health.

I did a blowjob to stranger (50-60 years old) 16 days ago, i regret it. He did not cum on me but he open my hole with his hands. I understand Pre cum can get infected. Now im scared to dead

My symptom

I have muscle ache behind my back

The roof top of my mouth is dry

I feel cold even tho it 75*c

I feel tired

My balls feel heavy

I feel itchy everywhere hands legs my private area and pelvic and more

My tongue has white

My throat feel little sore

I got diarrhea

I also taking Cephalxin 250 mg last week full 5 days

Im scared i might have symptom HIV:Herpes:HPV: Hepatitis

https://docs.google.com/document/d/1-i3FGd08BjxuX21EpDj7kjpe2AR\_pD7NJp82K\_9lFBA/edit?usp=drivesdk

Treatment for HIV is one of the biggest wins in modern medicine. What was once life-threatening is now highly manageable, and with the right care, people living with HIV can lead long, healthy lives while also protecting their partners.

The foundation of HIV care is antiretroviral therapy, commonly known as ART. This treatment works by reducing the amount of virus in the body, often to levels so low they can’t be detected in standard tests. When the virus is suppressed, the immune system stays strong, and the progression to AIDS can be prevented. Even more important, consistent treatment makes it extremely unlikely to pass HIV to sexual partners. This is where the concept of U=U (undetectable equals untransmittable) comes in, and it’s backed by strong scientific evidence.

Starting treatment early makes a huge difference. The sooner someone begins ART after diagnosis, the better their long-term health outcomes tend to be. Early treatment helps avoid complications, keeps the immune system functioning properly, and reduces the risk of transmission from the start. Waiting only gives the virus more time to affect the body.

Treatment isn’t just a one-time decision; it’s an ongoing process. Regular check-ups are important to monitor viral load, make sure medications are working effectively, and adjust treatment if needed. With consistent care and support from healthcare providers, most people are able to stay on track and manage HIV successfully.

What makes HIV treatment even more powerful is its impact beyond the individual. When people living with HIV maintain an undetectable viral load, they are not passing the virus on through sex. That means treatment doesn’t just improve one person’s health; it actively helps prevent new infections across communities.

HIV is manageable, and treatment changes everything. Taking medication consistently protects your health, prevents complications, and plays a major role in stopping the spread of the virus. With early diagnosis, proper care, and ongoing support, people living with HIV aren’t just surviving; they’re thriving.