u/Awkward_Extent7429

Sp has a 3p

I have been manifesting for week and really living in the end, not checking social media etc. Today after meditating, and feeling super confident, I opened social media and saw his mom posted a photo where he had a new girl

Did I do something wrong? How do I revise this? I’ve been trying to affirm and persists but this is really making me have doubts since I have been affirming for weeks and it seems like things are getting worse

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u/Awkward_Extent7429 — 4 days ago

I’m afraid he’s not over his ex…

So I (23F) met this guy (23M) and we have been dating for a couple months now. He was in a 2 year relationship before me where I know he got his heart broken pretty bad and seemed to have really loved her. They broke up 8 months ago, and kept in contact for a while since she took their shared dog, but they have been no contact since me and him started talking. But I’m starting to be afraid he’s not over her. I had my suspicions before, just because he still follows her on everything and keeps the pictures and little things like that. But recently I went to a family event with him and his family posted photos on Facebook. Me and him were in the photos together, and his mom, aunts and uncles all made posts tagging us in the pictures. I checked his profile a couple of hours later and he untagged himself from all the photos me and him were in. So they don’t show up on his page. He is still friends with his ex on Facebook, and I’m worried that’s why he did it. I could totally understand that maybe he isn’t ready to go public with me yet, but he kept himself tagged in all of his old photos with his ex. I’m just confused and overthinking. Does anyone have any input?

TLDR: boyfriend removed photos of us from Facebook, is he hiding it from his ex?

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u/Awkward_Extent7429 — 4 days ago

I’m (23f) afraid he’s (23M) not over his ex…

So I (23F) met this guy (23M) and we have been dating for a couple months now. He was in a 2 year relationship before me where I know he got his heart broken pretty bad and seemed to have really loved her. They broke up 8 months ago, and kept in contact for a while since she took their shared dog, but they have been no contact since me and him started talking. But I’m starting to be afraid he’s not over her. I had my suspicions before, just because he still follows her on everything and keeps the pictures and little things like that. But recently I went to a family event with him and his family posted photos on Facebook. Me and him were in the photos together, and his mom, aunts and uncles all made posts tagging us in the pictures. I checked his profile a couple of hours later and he untagged himself from all the photos me and him were in. So they don’t show up on his page. He is still friends with his ex on Facebook, and I’m worried that’s why he did it. I could totally understand that maybe he isn’t ready to go public with me yet, but he kept himself tagged in all of his old photos with his ex. I’m just confused and overthinking. Does anyone have any input?

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u/Awkward_Extent7429 — 4 days ago

Why would my ex hide their new girl?

Me ‘23F’ and my ex ‘23M’ broke up about 7 months ago, but he continued texting me after the breakup and didn’t really move on. I finally cut contact with him so we could both heal, but it was hard. It was a breakup we both didn’t want, but for reasons too long to explain here such a distance and family issues we couldn’t be together now. I follow his family on Facebook and this weekend they posted a lot as they had a family reunion. I in a couple posts that he was with a new girl. My heart dropped, but when I went to his page I deliberately saw he untagged himself from all posts with her in it so they wouldn’t be on his feed. He kept all other pictures up. Is he trying to hide her from me? I’m confused because he was always so open and public about me and posted me everywhere.

It’s not really wishful thinking as I’m not open to getting back together, I’m just genuinely curious.

TLDR: why is my ex removing his new girl from his social media?

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u/Awkward_Extent7429 — 4 days ago

Why would my ex hide their new girl?

Me (23F) and my ex (23M) broke up about 7 months ago, but he continued texting me after the breakup and didn’t really move on. I finally cut contact with him so we could both heal, but it was hard. It was a breakup we both didn’t want, but for reasons too long to explain here such a distance and family issues we couldn’t be together now. I follow his family on Facebook and this weekend they posted a lot as they had a family reunion. I in a couple posts that he was with a new girl. My heart dropped, but when I went to his page I deliberately saw he untagged himself from all posts with her in it so they wouldn’t be on his feed. He kept all other pictures up. Is he trying to hide her from me? I’m confused because he was always so open and public about me and posted me everywhere.

It’s not really wishful thinking as I’m not open to getting back together, I’m just genuinely curious.

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u/Awkward_Extent7429 — 4 days ago

Why would my ex hide their new girlfriend?

Me and my ex broke up about 7 months ago, but he continued texting me after the breakup and didn’t really move on. I finally cut contact with him so we could both heal, but it was hard. It was a breakup we both didn’t want, but for reasons too long to explain here such a distance and family issues we couldn’t be together now. I follow his family on Facebook and this weekend they posted a lot as they had a family reunion. I in a couple posts that he was with a new girl. My heart dropped, but when I went to his page I deliberately saw he untagged himself from all posts with her in it so they wouldn’t be on his feed. He kept all other pictures up. Is he trying to hide her from me? I’m confused because he was always so open and public about me and posted me everywhere.

It’s not really wishful thinking as I’m not open to getting back together, I’m just genuinely curious.

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u/Awkward_Extent7429 — 4 days ago

I (23 F) have extremely controlling parents who believe religiously in patriarchy and that they need to control me until I’m passed off in marriage to a man. I have gone no contact and they’ve attempted to track and stalk me many times. I now know they are reading my texts messages because they know exactly what I text people. And not people who would tell them, they know about texts to people they don’t know. I’ve changed my Apple ID, passwords, etc. but they still are seeing them. How can I prevent this? When I was a kid they monitored my texts using a parental control app called bark, could they still be monitoring my texts this way? I have my own phone plan, my own phone and a new number but my Apple ID is the same. I have changed the password though. Please help! Is there somewhere I could go to get my phone checked for spyware?

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u/Awkward_Extent7429 — 10 days ago

I (23 F) have extremely controlling parents who believe religiously in patriarchy and that they need to control me until I’m passed off in marriage to a man. I have gone no contact and they’ve attempted to track and stalk me many times. I now know they are reading my texts messages because they know exactly what I text people. And not people who would tell them, they know about texts to people they don’t know. I’ve changed my Apple ID, passwords, etc. but they still are seeing them. How can I prevent this? When I was a kid they monitored my texts using a parental control app called bark, could they still be monitoring my texts this way? I have my own phone plan, my own phone and a new number but my Apple ID is the same. I have changed the password though. Please help! Is there somewhere I could go to get my phone checked for spyware?

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u/Awkward_Extent7429 — 10 days ago
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I (23 F) have extremely controlling parents who believe religiously in patriarchy and that they need to control me until I’m passed off in marriage to a man. I have gone no contact and they’ve attempted to track and stalk me many times. I now know they are reading my texts messages because they know exactly what I text people. And not people who would tell them, they know about texts to people they don’t know. I’ve changed my Apple ID, passwords, etc. but they still are seeing them. How can I prevent this? When I was a kid they monitored my texts using a parental control app called bark, could they still be monitoring my texts this way? I have my own phone plan, my own phone and a new number but my Apple ID is the same. I have changed the password though. Please help! Is there somewhere I could go to get my phone checked for spyware?

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u/Awkward_Extent7429 — 10 days ago

I (23 F) have extremely controlling parents who believe religiously in patriarchy and that they need to control me until I’m passed off in marriage to a man. I have gone no contact and they’ve attempted to track and stalk me many times. I now know they are reading my texts messages because they know exactly what I text people. And not people who would tell them, they know about texts to people they don’t know. I’ve changed my Apple ID, passwords, etc. but they still are seeing them. How can I prevent this? When I was a kid they monitored my texts using a parental control app called bark, could they still be monitoring my texts this way? I have my own phone plan, my own phone and a new number but my Apple ID is the same. I have changed the password though. Please help! Is there somewhere I could go to get my phone checked for spyware?

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u/Awkward_Extent7429 — 10 days ago