u/Arthif_fairoze

My Samsung A34 has been making a strange problem when making calls. Its making my voice tinny and almost mute then clear time to time. It doesn't have a constant time of doing it but it repeatedly do it so the other person cant hear me well. When we change it into speaker mode its normal, like everything is clear but I cant use this more everywhere right. If anyone has a problem like this. Please let me know and let me know if you solved it or found a solution please.

It seems to be a software issue and not a hardware issue cause its doing the same with headphones sometimes

I’ve been in a relationship for a while now, and I genuinely love this girl with everything in me. She’s not a bad person, and there are moments where she’s sweet, affectionate, caring, and makes me feel loved. But lately I’ve been feeling emotionally exhausted and confused because I constantly feel like I’m carrying the emotional weight of the relationship alone.

I’m the type of person who notices small things. I make time for her no matter how tired or busy I am. I check on her feelings, remember little details, try to comfort her, support her studies/work, think about gifts for her, and even during my own stressful days I still try to make her feel cared for. I overthink because I care deeply. But over time, I’ve started feeling like my own feelings don’t get the same level of attention or understanding back.

The hardest part is that problems never feel fully resolved. If something hurts me, I try to express it calmly, but most of the time it feels like she either avoids emotional conversations, says “I’m okay,” or acts normal the next morning like nothing happened. Meanwhile, I’m left carrying the heaviness from the previous day by myself. It makes me feel emotionally lonely even though I’m technically in a relationship.

I’ve also noticed that I’ve started becoming anxious over small changes in her tone, energy, or texting style because I’m always trying to figure out if something is wrong. Sometimes she becomes quiet or distant, and instead of communicating clearly, I feel like I’m left guessing. Then I end up questioning myself constantly: “Did I do something wrong?” “Am I too much?” “Am I not important enough?” It’s mentally exhausting.

There are also moments where I feel like my emotional needs are treated as “too much,” while I’m expected to always understand hers. If she’s upset, I immediately try to comfort her. But when I’m hurt, I often feel like I have to calm myself down alone because bringing it up too much risks making her overwhelmed or distant. It creates this painful feeling where I’m loved, but not fully emotionally held.

The confusing thing is that she still shows affection. She calls me sweet names, updates me about her day, says good morning and good night lovingly, and includes me in her life. So it’s not a simple “she doesn’t care” situation. That’s what makes this harder. It feels more like we love differently, but I’m slowly getting emotionally drained trying to adapt to a style of love that leaves me feeling unseen sometimes.

I don’t want to become controlling, toxic, emotionally dependent, or manipulative. I don’t want to guilt-trip her into loving me a certain way. But I also don’t want to keep suppressing my feelings and pretending everything is fine just to maintain peace.

At this point, I honestly don’t know if I’m expecting too much emotionally, or if I’ve just spent too long feeling emotionally under-prioritized and silently hurt.

I’ve been in a relationship for a while now, and I genuinely love this girl with everything in me. She’s not a bad person, and there are moments where she’s sweet, affectionate, caring, and makes me feel loved. But lately I’ve been feeling emotionally exhausted and confused because I constantly feel like I’m carrying the emotional weight of the relationship alone.

I’m the type of person who notices small things. I make time for her no matter how tired or busy I am. I check on her feelings, remember little details, try to comfort her, support her studies/work, think about gifts for her, and even during my own stressful days I still try to make her feel cared for. I overthink because I care deeply. But over time, I’ve started feeling like my own feelings don’t get the same level of attention or understanding back.

The hardest part is that problems never feel fully resolved. If something hurts me, I try to express it calmly, but most of the time it feels like she either avoids emotional conversations, says “I’m okay,” or acts normal the next morning like nothing happened. Meanwhile, I’m left carrying the heaviness from the previous day by myself. It makes me feel emotionally lonely even though I’m technically in a relationship.

I’ve also noticed that I’ve started becoming anxious over small changes in her tone, energy, or texting style because I’m always trying to figure out if something is wrong. Sometimes she becomes quiet or distant, and instead of communicating clearly, I feel like I’m left guessing. Then I end up questioning myself constantly: “Did I do something wrong?” “Am I too much?” “Am I not important enough?” It’s mentally exhausting.

There are also moments where I feel like my emotional needs are treated as “too much,” while I’m expected to always understand hers. If she’s upset, I immediately try to comfort her. But when I’m hurt, I often feel like I have to calm myself down alone because bringing it up too much risks making her overwhelmed or distant. It creates this painful feeling where I’m loved, but not fully emotionally held.

The confusing thing is that she still shows affection. She calls me sweet names, updates me about her day, says good morning and good night lovingly, and includes me in her life. So it’s not a simple “she doesn’t care” situation. That’s what makes this harder. It feels more like we love differently, but I’m slowly getting emotionally drained trying to adapt to a style of love that leaves me feeling unseen sometimes.

I don’t want to become controlling, toxic, emotionally dependent, or manipulative. I don’t want to guilt-trip her into loving me a certain way. But I also don’t want to keep suppressing my feelings and pretending everything is fine just to maintain peace.

At this point, I honestly don’t know if I’m expecting too much emotionally, or if I’ve just spent too long feeling emotionally under-prioritized and silently hurt.

I’ve been in a relationship for a while now, and I genuinely love this girl with everything in me. She’s not a bad person, and there are moments where she’s sweet, affectionate, caring, and makes me feel loved. But lately I’ve been feeling emotionally exhausted and confused because I constantly feel like I’m carrying the emotional weight of the relationship alone.

I’m the type of person who notices small things. I make time for her no matter how tired or busy I am. I check on her feelings, remember little details, try to comfort her, support her studies/work, think about gifts for her, and even during my own stressful days I still try to make her feel cared for. I overthink because I care deeply. But over time, I’ve started feeling like my own feelings don’t get the same level of attention or understanding back.

The hardest part is that problems never feel fully resolved. If something hurts me, I try to express it calmly, but most of the time it feels like she either avoids emotional conversations, says “I’m okay,” or acts normal the next morning like nothing happened. Meanwhile, I’m left carrying the heaviness from the previous day by myself. It makes me feel emotionally lonely even though I’m technically in a relationship.

I’ve also noticed that I’ve started becoming anxious over small changes in her tone, energy, or texting style because I’m always trying to figure out if something is wrong. Sometimes she becomes quiet or distant, and instead of communicating clearly, I feel like I’m left guessing. Then I end up questioning myself constantly: “Did I do something wrong?” “Am I too much?” “Am I not important enough?” It’s mentally exhausting.

There are also moments where I feel like my emotional needs are treated as “too much,” while I’m expected to always understand hers. If she’s upset, I immediately try to comfort her. But when I’m hurt, I often feel like I have to calm myself down alone because bringing it up too much risks making her overwhelmed or distant. It creates this painful feeling where I’m loved, but not fully emotionally held.

The confusing thing is that she still shows affection. She calls me sweet names, updates me about her day, says good morning and good night lovingly, and includes me in her life. So it’s not a simple “she doesn’t care” situation. That’s what makes this harder. It feels more like we love differently, but I’m slowly getting emotionally drained trying to adapt to a style of love that leaves me feeling unseen sometimes.

I don’t want to become controlling, toxic, emotionally dependent, or manipulative. I don’t want to guilt-trip her into loving me a certain way. But I also don’t want to keep suppressing my feelings and pretending everything is fine just to maintain peace.

At this point, I honestly don’t know if I’m expecting too much emotionally, or if I’ve just spent too long feeling emotionally under-prioritized and silently hurt.

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I’ve been in a relationship for a while now, and I genuinely love this girl with everything in me. She’s not a bad person, and there are moments where she’s sweet, affectionate, caring, and makes me feel loved. But lately I’ve been feeling emotionally exhausted and confused because I constantly feel like I’m carrying the emotional weight of the relationship alone.

I’m the type of person who notices small things. I make time for her no matter how tired or busy I am. I check on her feelings, remember little details, try to comfort her, support her studies/work, think about gifts for her, and even during my own stressful days I still try to make her feel cared for. I overthink because I care deeply. But over time, I’ve started feeling like my own feelings don’t get the same level of attention or understanding back.

The hardest part is that problems never feel fully resolved. If something hurts me, I try to express it calmly, but most of the time it feels like she either avoids emotional conversations, says “I’m okay,” or acts normal the next morning like nothing happened. Meanwhile, I’m left carrying the heaviness from the previous day by myself. It makes me feel emotionally lonely even though I’m technically in a relationship.

I’ve also noticed that I’ve started becoming anxious over small changes in her tone, energy, or texting style because I’m always trying to figure out if something is wrong. Sometimes she becomes quiet or distant, and instead of communicating clearly, I feel like I’m left guessing. Then I end up questioning myself constantly: “Did I do something wrong?” “Am I too much?” “Am I not important enough?” It’s mentally exhausting.

There are also moments where I feel like my emotional needs are treated as “too much,” while I’m expected to always understand hers. If she’s upset, I immediately try to comfort her. But when I’m hurt, I often feel like I have to calm myself down alone because bringing it up too much risks making her overwhelmed or distant. It creates this painful feeling where I’m loved, but not fully emotionally held.

The confusing thing is that she still shows affection. She calls me sweet names, updates me about her day, says good morning and good night lovingly, and includes me in her life. So it’s not a simple “she doesn’t care” situation. That’s what makes this harder. It feels more like we love differently, but I’m slowly getting emotionally drained trying to adapt to a style of love that leaves me feeling unseen sometimes.

I don’t want to become controlling, toxic, emotionally dependent, or manipulative. I don’t want to guilt-trip her into loving me a certain way. But I also don’t want to keep suppressing my feelings and pretending everything is fine just to maintain peace.

At this point, I honestly don’t know if I’m expecting too much emotionally, or if I’ve just spent too long feeling emotionally under-prioritized and silently hurt.

I’ve been in a relationship for a while now, and I genuinely love this girl with everything in me. She’s not a bad person, and there are moments where she’s sweet, affectionate, caring, and makes me feel loved. But lately I’ve been feeling emotionally exhausted and confused because I constantly feel like I’m carrying the emotional weight of the relationship alone.

I’m the type of person who notices small things. I make time for her no matter how tired or busy I am. I check on her feelings, remember little details, try to comfort her, support her studies/work, think about gifts for her, and even during my own stressful days I still try to make her feel cared for. I overthink because I care deeply. But over time, I’ve started feeling like my own feelings don’t get the same level of attention or understanding back.

The hardest part is that problems never feel fully resolved. If something hurts me, I try to express it calmly, but most of the time it feels like she either avoids emotional conversations, says “I’m okay,” or acts normal the next morning like nothing happened. Meanwhile, I’m left carrying the heaviness from the previous day by myself. It makes me feel emotionally lonely even though I’m technically in a relationship.

I’ve also noticed that I’ve started becoming anxious over small changes in her tone, energy, or texting style because I’m always trying to figure out if something is wrong. Sometimes she becomes quiet or distant, and instead of communicating clearly, I feel like I’m left guessing. Then I end up questioning myself constantly: “Did I do something wrong?” “Am I too much?” “Am I not important enough?” It’s mentally exhausting.

There are also moments where I feel like my emotional needs are treated as “too much,” while I’m expected to always understand hers. If she’s upset, I immediately try to comfort her. But when I’m hurt, I often feel like I have to calm myself down alone because bringing it up too much risks making her overwhelmed or distant. It creates this painful feeling where I’m loved, but not fully emotionally held.

The confusing thing is that she still shows affection. She calls me sweet names, updates me about her day, says good morning and good night lovingly, and includes me in her life. So it’s not a simple “she doesn’t care” situation. That’s what makes this harder. It feels more like we love differently, but I’m slowly getting emotionally drained trying to adapt to a style of love that leaves me feeling unseen sometimes.

I don’t want to become controlling, toxic, emotionally dependent, or manipulative. I don’t want to guilt-trip her into loving me a certain way. But I also don’t want to keep suppressing my feelings and pretending everything is fine just to maintain peace.

At this point, I honestly don’t know if I’m expecting too much emotionally, or if I’ve just spent too long feeling emotionally under-prioritized and silently hurt.

**TL;DR; : I (23M) Love Her (23F) Deeply, But I’m Starting to Feel Emotionally Alone in My Own Relationship**.

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I’ve been in a relationship for a while now, and I genuinely love this girl with everything in me. She’s not a bad person, and there are moments where she’s sweet, affectionate, caring, and makes me feel loved. But lately I’ve been feeling emotionally exhausted and confused because I constantly feel like I’m carrying the emotional weight of the relationship alone.

I’m the type of person who notices small things. I make time for her no matter how tired or busy I am. I check on her feelings, remember little details, try to comfort her, support her studies/work, think about gifts for her, and even during my own stressful days I still try to make her feel cared for. I overthink because I care deeply. But over time, I’ve started feeling like my own feelings don’t get the same level of attention or understanding back.

The hardest part is that problems never feel fully resolved. If something hurts me, I try to express it calmly, but most of the time it feels like she either avoids emotional conversations, says “I’m okay,” or acts normal the next morning like nothing happened. Meanwhile, I’m left carrying the heaviness from the previous day by myself. It makes me feel emotionally lonely even though I’m technically in a relationship.

I’ve also noticed that I’ve started becoming anxious over small changes in her tone, energy, or texting style because I’m always trying to figure out if something is wrong. Sometimes she becomes quiet or distant, and instead of communicating clearly, I feel like I’m left guessing. Then I end up questioning myself constantly: “Did I do something false?” “Am I too much?” “Am I not important enough?” It’s mentally exhausting.

There are also moments where I feel like my emotional needs are treated as “too much,” while I’m expected to always understand hers. If she’s upset, I immediately try to comfort her. But when I’m hurt, I often feel like I have to calm myself down alone because bringing it up too much risks making her overwhelmed or distant. It creates this painful feeling where I’m loved, but not fully emotionally held.

The confusing thing is that she still shows affection. She calls me sweet names, updates me about her day, says good morning and good night lovingly, and includes me in her life. So it’s not a simple “she doesn’t care” situation. That’s what makes this harder. It feels more like we love differently, but I’m slowly getting emotionally drained trying to adapt to a style of love that leaves me feeling unseen sometimes.

I don’t want to become controlling, toxic, emotionally dependent, or manipulative. I don’t want to guilt-trip her into loving me a certain way. But I also don’t want to keep suppressing my feelings and pretending everything is fine just to maintain peace.

At this point, I honestly don’t know if I’m expecting too much emotionally, or if I’ve just spent too long feeling emotionally under-prioritized and silently hurt.