u/Aggravating_Sport495

Ever had someone show you a pic of another person and say “you look like him/her” , but you personally don’t find that person attractive at all?

I noticed when that happens, I start overthinking it a lot. Like my brain keeps going back to it thinking “wait, do I actually look like that?” and it kind of hits my confidence for some reason.

Even if it was said casually, I end up obsessing over it for days sometimes.

Ever had someone show you a pic of another person and say “you look like him/her” , but you personally don’t find that person attractive at all?

I noticed when that happens, I start overthinking it a lot. Like my brain keeps going back to it thinking “wait, do I actually look like that?” and it kind of hits my confidence for some reason.

Even if it was said casually, I end up obsessing over it for days sometimes.

Ever had someone show you a pic of another person and say “you look like him/her” , but you personally don’t find that person attractive at all?

I noticed when that happens, I start overthinking it a lot. Like my brain keeps going back to it thinking “wait, do I actually look like that?” and it kind of hits my confidence for some reason.

Even if it was said casually, I end up obsessing over it for days sometimes.

Ever had someone show you a pic of another person and say “you look like him/her” , but you personally don’t find that person attractive at all?

I noticed when that happens, I start overthinking it a lot. Like my brain keeps going back to it thinking “wait, do I actually look like that?” and it kind of hits my confidence for some reason.

Even if it was said casually, I end up obsessing over it for days sometimes.

Any one know to deal with it ? :D

I Prefers smaller groups or alone time , Gets mentally drained by too much social interaction , Recharges by being alone

also i Fear of being judged or embarrassed , Overthinking social situations, Avoiding conversations/events , Physical symptoms like sweating, shaking, fast heartbeat

can being only child or childhood affect this ?

Anyone here use Udrive? I think someone else might still be logged into my account. Is there any way to change the password and log out all devices? Or at least remove/deactivate my driving license from the account as a last option?

I just want to make sure nobody else can access or use my account.

Anyone here use Udrive? I think someone else might still be logged into my account. Is there any way to change the password and log out all devices? Or at least remove/deactivate my driving license from the account as a last option?

I just want to make sure nobody else can access or use my account.

what is it ?

for me , i was always a people pleaser and overthinks a lot and waste most of my time ! comparing me with others

I’m a new driver and sometimes I get confused while entering a main road.

Like, I’ll wait because I think an incoming vehicle is coming into the lane I want to enter, but then after waiting I realize that vehicle was actually going to another lane or turning away.

My main issue is judging the path/trajectory of incoming vehicles and deciding when it’s actually safe to enter, especially at junctions or busy roads.

Sometimes while using the accelerator and brake, instead of keeping my heel down and rotating my foot, I automatically lift my whole foot/leg to press the pedals because it feels uncomfortable otherwise.

Not sure if it’s because of seat position, nervousness, or just lack of practice.

Did anyone else struggle with this while learning? Any tips that helped you improve lane judgment and confidence?

I’m a new driver and sometimes I get confused while entering a main road.

Like, I’ll wait because I think an incoming vehicle is coming into the lane I want to enter, but then after waiting I realize that vehicle was actually going to another lane or turning away.

My main issue is judging the path/trajectory of incoming vehicles and deciding when it’s actually safe to enter, especially at junctions or busy roads.

Sometimes while using the accelerator and brake, instead of keeping my heel down and rotating my foot, I automatically lift my whole foot/leg to press the pedals because it feels uncomfortable otherwise.

Not sure if it’s because of seat position, nervousness, or just lack of practice.

Did anyone else struggle with this while learning? Any tips that helped you improve lane judgment and confidence?

Got a lien mark notice from my bank for around ₹803 due to a disputed/cyber complaint transaction. My account is not fully frozen , I can still send and receive money, only that amount is on hold.

What happened is My friend sent me ₹1000 , I sent ₹200 to another friend , Remaining ₹800 after 30 mins when i checked it was gone , i thought may some charges for Federal bank , some times it has happend , 2 days back i got notice in my home town ,

I’m currently in UAE and this is the first time I’m facing something like this. I already mailed the authority and bank staff told me , many have faced it and its not a big prob an all , sometimes only the disputed amount gets held temporarily.

Has anyone faced this before?
Did it get resolved after clarification?
what if i dont want to go behind that 800rs any problem?

,So the notice was

Dear Customer,

Reg: Restriction of transactions in your account

This is to intimate you that, based on the orders received from law enforcing authorities, transactions in your account XX****** have been restricted. More details in this regard are given below:

Type of restriction: Lien Mark for Rs.802.92/-

Order received from: KERALA

Reference No. and date

To remove restrictions in your account, please contact the police authorities concerned.

Provide below requested details and clarification to police authorities:

• Customer Full name and Address
• Business/Job details with documents
• Reason behind transaction and Disputed money
• Bank Statement which shows Disputed transaction
• Please send Customer Acknowledgement Number
• Bank account details which is Freeze.
• Aadhar Card, PAN Card
• If account belong to corporate/nodal account then provide company details like MOA, AOF, GST, MCA, director details ETC.

this was the message in the notice !

Got a lien mark notice from my bank for around ₹803 due to a disputed/cyber complaint transaction. My account is not fully frozen , I can still send and receive money, only that amount is on hold.

What happened is My friend sent me ₹1000 , I sent ₹200 to another friend , Remaining ₹800 after 30 mins when i checked it was gone , i thought may some charges for Federal bank , some times it has happend , 2 days back i got notice in my home town ,

I’m currently in UAE and this is the first time I’m facing something like this. I already mailed the authority and bank staff told me , many have faced it and its not a big prob an all , sometimes only the disputed amount gets held temporarily.

Has anyone faced this before?
Did it get resolved after clarification?
what if i dont want to go behind that 800rs any problem?

,So the notice was

Dear Customer,

Reg: Restriction of transactions in your account

This is to intimate you that, based on the orders received from law enforcing authorities, transactions in your account XX****** have been restricted. More details in this regard are given below:

Type of restriction: Lien Mark for Rs.802.92/-

Order received from: KERALA

Reference No. and date

To remove restrictions in your account, please contact the police authorities concerned.

Provide below requested details and clarification to police authorities:

• Customer Full name and Address
• Business/Job details with documents
• Reason behind transaction and Disputed money
• Bank Statement which shows Disputed transaction
• Please send Customer Acknowledgement Number
• Bank account details which is Freeze.
• Aadhar Card, PAN Card
• If account belong to corporate/nodal account then provide company details like MOA, AOF, GST, MCA, director details ETC.

this was the message in the notice !

Could be your own experience or something you’ve seen or heard from others.

I’ve(M26) been thinking about this lately and wanted to hear real perspectives.

If you’re 30+ and still single (not married / no partner), what does your future look like in your mind?

Was staying single a conscious choice, or did life just turn out that way (career, timing, bad experiences, etc.)?

Do you plan to eventually settle down, or are you comfortable continuing alone long-term?

Also, how do you deal with loneliness—especially when you see your friends getting married, starting families, and moving into a different phase of life?