r/pinkscare

beautiful men are so scarce and so in demand that i feel the only way i could get one is if i were very rich and successful. but then i would be constantly paranoid that he'd cheat on me. there was a guy on main sub (he mentioned he used to model) who said his wife was some sort of hyper competent woman in stem and that she was funding his phd in literature which i think is my ideal scenario. handsome man with an unemployable degree so he won't go out to work where the stress might make him bald or where he might meet other women. i would give him a generous allowance of course. but i would always worry that he married me only for the money :( because i do want to be loved.

can beautiful men love? all of the ones i've met so far are borderline sociopathic. and i don't want a sociopathic husband.

i go on instagram on my ipad 2-3 times a week and like and reply to everyone’s stories.

idc if i haven’t seen them in three years. i am saying “wow” to their trip to italy and “nom nom nom” to their plates of food. i am telling people they have nice kneecaps and incredible hair dos.

i am interacting with people on social media. mark zuckerberg can’t stop me.

Im not a fan of Olivia Rodrigo but I keep seeing discourse pop up regarding her recent fashion choices. Other women are outraged at what shes wearing and claiming its pedo bait. Outside of the ridiculous notion of grown women trying to appease the predilection of mentally ill perverts (they literally can't), they're just engaging in repackaged "woke" misogyny.

They did this w Sabrina and Chappell Roan too. I think the reason for this is other women, consciously or not, think that they have a better chance of getting women to change themselves than making a dent in the patriarchy. Some are more eager and willing participants in the paniopticon ig.

I’m opting for maxi skirts, but I don’t want to veer towards fundamentalist.

what are your favourites

My b*yfriend got arrested for DV (third-degree, first-time offender). he got released after the 24 hour mandatory hold. He blocked me on everything (whatever) and is pleading not guilty. Everything feels raw and painful.

Not asking if anyone has gone through the exact same thing, but just advice on how to move forward with my life and what you’ve done to make your life better.

Asking for a friend

I’m anti surrogacy so that’s also not an option for me. Another ideal apart from this is solo pregnancy where the child only has my genes and resembles me , and takes only the good immune system upgrade genes from his father but otherwise looks and takes after mostly me. If he looks like his dad more that’s like investing a couple million and the product comes out entirely different from what u ordered.

I’m not like a super tall girl I’m just short of 5’7” but I still harbor this awful feeling of being bigger than other girls. I stopped wearing cutie stuff like bows or flats because I thought I needed to dress sexier as a woman who’s slightly on the taller side. I know how lame that sounds trust me but when you have other women who are smaller than you in stature just keep telling you—almost negging— you about how much bigger you are than them, it can get to you at a certain point. anyway I found out pink is like 5’8” and idk why but I just love it!! I’ve got a more youthful like cute face like hers so the super sexy aesthetic wasn’t really working for me. It’s not like I need permission, but it is nice to see some cutie patootie tall girl representation in popular media!
Also side note she really does make great music and I’m so happy we have her ❤️❤️ yay ok

what would you do differently. i am going to be PROACTIVE in joymaxxing. How u ppl make the most of it / how u make the Least of it. Reflect and discuss Thank you

the comments are so misogynistic like ladies what are we doing

Curious if anyone else has skipped their graduation ceremonies?

I’m supposed to be walking this week… long story short my father and I have a very fraught relationship and he had no interest in attending. I’m graduating from a pretty good (IMO) university with a master’s in a male-dominated field . I know it sounds cringe but I was super excited to walk the stage and cement the accomplishment. Like wow, i did this really difficult thing (this is the cringe part) that very few women of my background are able to do.

Anyways i made peace with it until i started seeing everyones sweet graduation posts and videos, esp the ones of first-generation students.

Anyone have any advice or similar experiences? Congrats to all pinkscare grads 💗💗💗

One of those boujee yoga/Pilates place where their Instagram is filled with beautiful women. My hair needed to be washed YESTERDAY, I have a pimple on my cheek, my neck and under eye is eerily red because I was stupid and put a very old salyilic acid serum on there two nights ago, hairy arms and slightly hairy armpits, I may be bloated because i ate breakfast yet still no normal morning poo so I WILL be farting, but also still hungry with a growling stomach, and speaking of yoga itself for a 21 year old I have the flexibility of a 90 year old with arthritis . There is some kind of calmness I have achieved in knowing I will be the ugliest and worst one there