r/onexindia

In India, if a married woman has a child with her boyfriend (extra-marital affairs), the husband is considered the legal father, even if she had an affair.

But if a man has a child with another woman (extra-marital affairs), he is still responsible as the real father. Even though they both are not married and the man is already married.

The law focuses more on the child’s rights than the parents’ relationship. So, responsibility stays with the man connected to the child, either by marriage or by biology.

I am against Extra-marital affairs, but why can a wife do this freely without getting any legal consequences?

THESE MEN (those who are sitting in parliament) CREATING PROBLEMS FOR ALL MEN INSIDE THIS COUNTRY.

Isse accha to parliament mai 100% women reservation hi kardo.

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I just saw a pewdiepie post about how he increased racism against indians. While i agree about that but main reason i think is 4chan becoming mainstream. 4chan started it way before pewdiepie. Even modern anti semetic conspiracy theories have their origin in 4chan. Including memes like happy merchant. Best as indians we can do is ignore. Whites in america have been brainwashed by their leaders that its never their fault. In 90s chinese were taking their jobs. In 00s it was you need to pay more taxes to fund our war in iraq and afghanistan. In 10s it was fault of lgbtq and in 20s they have been given the lolipop of indians. Best part is they all a re jobless and are surviving on govt funds from taxes paid by indians. As indians are richest ethnic group. Indians are there to stay. No magahat can undo that. They can cope all they want. Also they do this to get engagement because indians are very reactionary to defend. If indians stopped caring like chinese and japanese did. Racism would reduce significantly online. Also we need to stop justifying racism. We will always be a pajeet to whites. Best to just enjoy the process of grind and let em seethe on our success

Bhagwan hi bataya inko karna kya haan

Pata hai aaj kya hua So, there’s this girl I met only once in a mutual gathering. Later, she sent me a follow request on Instagram. We’ve been connected there for around 2–3 months.

One day, she posted a story saying summer is near, so I replied, “Why don’t you go grab an ice cream?” She responded with, “Ice cream treat kab de rahe ho? BTW, I live nearby.” That’s how our conversation started.

She said we’d plan something for the next weekend, and I agreed. But it’s been more than a month now. We tried making plans multiple times, but they were always cancelled by her. I didn’t initiate much—she was usually the one suggesting “this Sunday,” “this weekend,” etc.

At one point, I suggested that if weekends don’t work, we could meet on weekdays. She said okay and told me she’d call or text. I agreed—but that never really happened.

Meanwhile, we kept talking actively on Instagram and WhatsApp. I would often joke about the “pending ice cream plan” and even said that since she cancelled so many times, she now owes me two ice creams. She would laugh it off every time. To be fair, her reasons for cancelling seemed genuine—not like excuses.

Initially, I thought it might be a casual meetup where she’d be around with friends and I could join, but she made it clear that it would just be the two of us. That made me think she was somewhat interested—or maybe I just read too much into it.

We also started sharing reels and talking regularly. Once, she made a plan to meet after her college, but something came up and she got really frustrated. She even texted, “Bhaad mein jaaye college, I’m coming to meet you in one or two days.” But that didn’t happen either, and she apologized again.

Then her exams started. I told her we could meet whenever she’s free. I also suggested we could at least talk on a call if meeting isn’t possible right now. She agreed and said she’d call when free, and even asked me to let her know when I’m free—but that call never happened either.

At one point, I directly asked her, “It’s been more than a month—do you actually want to meet or not?” She said she really wants to, but isn’t able to right now.

There was also a small miscommunication where I thought she wanted to go somewhere outside the city. She initially agreed, but later I realized she didn’t mean that. Still, she said we could plan something.

Recently, we were chatting at night on both WhatsApp and Instagram. She posted a story, and I casually said, “Don’t you have to study or sleep?” She said Instagram is taking too much of her time and that she’s thinking of deleting it. Later, I realized she was talking about deleting a story, not Instagram. I asked, “You mean the story?” She said yes. I replied, “Why? It was good.” After that, she left me on seen—and that’s been our last conversation.

Now I don’t know how to interpret all this. Should I just leave it? Or do something?

A friend suggested I send her a reel about ice cream as a light way to restart the conversation. I even thought about sending a reel that jokingly reflects how things went—from showing interest to cancelling plans—but I’m not sure if that would come off as creepy or desperate.

I also considered asking her directly, but I’m unsure.

So yeah… I don’t know if I’m overthinking this or not. What would you guys suggest I do?

One thing, I also noticed like that, after that night conversation, she only replied to me because she had to put up a story on WhatsApp and Instagram for different purposes, so she replied for not being rude or something like that. That’s what I think.

I am applying for modelling since i feel i have worked enough to look good. First of all work on face because face is the first impression. Most indians have bloaty face you need to let go off water retention. Try dandelion tea for that. It will help flush out extra fluid in your face. When your body takes out all the fluids. You appear more veiny face appears more lean and sharp. Second do pull ups. Pull ups form your back. Use machines to do them if you cant. But pull ups are essential for your back. For shoulders do lateral raises. They are the best when it comes to wide shoulders. For chest do incline bench press i prefer dumbbells since it helps to balance me asymmetry for triceps skull crushers again i prefer dumbells for it and for biceps i would recommend incline bicep curls. I am not gonna sugrcoat it was i was already 6ft with 20% body fat. And looks are life. And as for protein as long as you are taking 1g/kg of bodyweight its fine. And thats easy to fulfill even with vegeterian diet.

Also supplements i would recommend d3 and zinc as they help with low testosterone and fatigue.Zinc helped me with sleep which ended up fixing my dark circles. Dont go for skincare its expensive and gaslighting tool which was suppsed to be marketed towards women. Since male beauty standards have risen more men are getting trapped into it Indian men are skinny fat and skinny fat is sign of low testosterone and multiple studies show testosterones have decrased significantly then what it was in 20th century. Warning its not gonna work for everyone. Only for people with a good base already. I dont want to gaslight everyone.

Also for people who cant afford gym get a resistance band and start doing pushup variations for chest. Do pike pushups for shoulder or use band to lateral raise. For biceps just start with school bags/college bags. And add 5 litre bottles or 5kg worth of weight.

Hello gentlemen, 19M here.

Today JEE results came out and I scored 66%ile as a dropper and feel like KMS.

My father and grandmother trashed me really hard for failing JEE and told me that I'm a failure. I know that they don't mean those words they are just angry but such a low score already shows me that there are lakhs of students ahead of me and even in college I won't be able to to perform well. I will end up in some no name college and there if don't get a good branch I will never get a good placement.

I feel even worse coz last year I had a better score and thought I will do really good next year. I even gave boards again just so I could clear the 75% criteria. But I'm sure I won't even get 70%.

I failed in JEE twice and in Boards twice as well. The guilt of not preparing well and meeting my parents expectations is killing me. And I'm doubtful about my future.

Is there any chance for me live a good life after this ?

Life of Indian man
- Born
- Start studying
- No time for hobbies or sports
- Treated harshly by teachers and society
- Compete against millions for college
- Compete for jobs
- Finally get a job
- Responsibility of the family
- Marry and have kids
- Take care of wife, kids, and parents
- Sacrifice all dreams for them
- Work whole life
- Die

Is this how everyone judges men? Like everyone thinks both inc3ls and fu*kbois are bad people somehow.

PewDiePie actually doesn't deserve the love and support he gets since he quit YouTube and moved to Japan.

Man literally destroyed a whole country's reputation with gross generalizations and harsher words in his diss songs.

Blud literally polarized the world against India vs Him, blud spewed venom, instead of growing as a content creator with good subscribers he literally made his followers and subscribers hate on India to reach 100M.

I still remember how many dumb fuck Indians actually vouched for this and actually showed this solidarity to that fucker.

They literally thought that if they sided with PewDiePie they'd be somehow better and cool, now flipside, since post-covid the racist tirade against Indians and India ain't stopping at all.

And yeah this guy was definitely causative of the majority of it, see I'm not gonna lie, his initial jokes on India was lighthearted and could've been taken as a joke, but in 2018 it took a massive 180 turn when he literally used cuss words or straight up racist remarks for his channel to be the first 100M subbed channel.

Now he's chilling and enjoying life in Japan after literally ruining one country's whole reputation online.

It's almost what if that Austrian painter and his gf fled to Argentina and lived a happy life after what that painter did in Poland and the majority of West Europe.

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So i always used to go to local gym where it was empty.But now it was too much for me since it used to be dirty and fans not working. So i switched to a new gym. and all females here are married housewives. who just warmip in name of workout and circle out gym trainer and always try to push themselves on him with poorass joke and humor. And even touch him. Gym trainer always goes out whenever that group comes. Today i saw one of that newly married aunty since she had chooda staring constantly at a 6'4 quite muscular doing tricep extension. At first i thought it was imagination but its been 3 weeks i have been noticing it. its not a coincidence. lol. and i have seen gym uncles as well. who just mind their own business. i have literally seen no one in the gym even talk to these married housewife aunties. I posted in the fitness and response were just me getting blamed and horny jokes

So my female friend is an SC girl from Rajasthan, and she is facing caste discrimination on matrimony apps.

Even guys in Delhi do this.

In the profile of the guys they mention that Caste is no bar but when they hear that she is an SC then their mood changes and rejects her after few days.

If caste is an issue then why don’t they mention it in their profile.

Also most guys from SC are orthodox according to her. They want a maid and she is not okay with it.

What should she do next?

Hello everyone. So me (24M) there is a girl i really like, and she is honestly the best, no flaws nothing, but the girl has a past trauma with her ex. Her ex has been physical with her multiple times and also has her photos in a compromising state.

My only problem is that I can't get this out of my head. I just really can't. I have had no past relationships and this has been affecting me for a long time. I really don't know how to let go of this.

I don't want the girl to go, she is a good woman and has got attached to me as well.

But idk what to do. Please help

Its an emergency post.

I'm 20 years old and recently completed BCA. Today my Mom got so weak that she didn't have energy to lift her hand and moving eyes also hurts and also the center back side of brain hurts along with the whole body got so so weak that she can't even move her hands or even talk and Also she got vomiting for 1 hour.

Like this happened to her a month ago and also another month ago (2 times) and today it happened again for 1 hour (little severe).

And she may have kidney problem Cuz she gets frequent urination in early morning 3-4 times and the urine is foam type and bubbles.

Mom won't got to govt hospital because she has OCD (very cleaniness about everything). Also can't afford to go to Private because financial situation had been bad from my childhood.

I've been Applying for Company around 100+ till now. For salary range of 20k or above because I don't have any money and I need for my mom's treatment. I've skills and did internships, my own projects.

From my childhood my Mom suffered a lot by my dad's family and both got divorced few years back and mom got nothing from the divorce because she's naive and innocent.

I can't even get donations because I don't have reports or proofs that people will believe.

Please I'm requesting if anyone have any referrals please please help me I'll send my resume with complete details.

Preferred Location because I can't leave my Mom alone / Stay far from her: Andhra Pradesh

Tldr: mom may have chronic kidney problem and fell so weak body that moving eyes pains, her centre back brain hurting ,Vomiting, can't talk or open her mouth even a little and happened 2-3 times and today it got severe ones that I terrified. I can't ask for donations because I don't have proof that people can believe.

I've been Applying for companies above 20k salary because I've to take her to Private hospital and treatment but she wont go to govt hospital because of her OCD (very cleaniness person). Actually she said she won't go to / leave house until I get a govt job. I've no time to get her into severe condition so please help me to get a referral in Andhra Pradesh state because I can't leave her / stay far from her due her current condition.