u/Livid-Carob8279

Why this caste issue in Arranged marriage ?

So my female friend is an SC girl from Rajasthan, and she is facing caste discrimination on matrimony apps.

Even guys in Delhi do this.

In the profile of the guys they mention that Caste is no bar but when they hear that she is an SC then their mood changes and rejects her after few days.

If caste is an issue then why don’t they mention it in their profile.

Also most guys from SC are orthodox according to her. They want a maid and she is not okay with it.

What should she do next?

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u/Livid-Carob8279 — 3 days ago
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Why most girls have same backstory?

So i am currently talking to few prospects in arranged marriage.

Almost all have a similar backstory - toxic ex, got cheater, have unsupportive parents, past traumas

One even said that she rejected 20+ guys in the past because if she find one shortcoming then she reject them.

I thought what do you have to offer?

I am like is there a script for them to gain empathy? Or are they telling truth.

Will probably ghost them, cause i ain’t gonna accept their mental trauma and baggage.

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u/Livid-Carob8279 — 5 days ago