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Pata hai aaj kya hua So, there’s this girl I met only once in a mutual gathering. Later, she sent me a follow request on Instagram. We’ve been connected there for around 2–3 months.
One day, she posted a story saying summer is near, so I replied, “Why don’t you go grab an ice cream?” She responded with, “Ice cream treat kab de rahe ho? BTW, I live nearby.” That’s how our conversation started.
She said we’d plan something for the next weekend, and I agreed. But it’s been more than a month now. We tried making plans multiple times, but they were always cancelled by her. I didn’t initiate much—she was usually the one suggesting “this Sunday,” “this weekend,” etc.
At one point, I suggested that if weekends don’t work, we could meet on weekdays. She said okay and told me she’d call or text. I agreed—but that never really happened.
Meanwhile, we kept talking actively on Instagram and WhatsApp. I would often joke about the “pending ice cream plan” and even said that since she cancelled so many times, she now owes me two ice creams. She would laugh it off every time. To be fair, her reasons for cancelling seemed genuine—not like excuses.
Initially, I thought it might be a casual meetup where she’d be around with friends and I could join, but she made it clear that it would just be the two of us. That made me think she was somewhat interested—or maybe I just read too much into it.
We also started sharing reels and talking regularly. Once, she made a plan to meet after her college, but something came up and she got really frustrated. She even texted, “Bhaad mein jaaye college, I’m coming to meet you in one or two days.” But that didn’t happen either, and she apologized again.
Then her exams started. I told her we could meet whenever she’s free. I also suggested we could at least talk on a call if meeting isn’t possible right now. She agreed and said she’d call when free, and even asked me to let her know when I’m free—but that call never happened either.
At one point, I directly asked her, “It’s been more than a month—do you actually want to meet or not?” She said she really wants to, but isn’t able to right now.
There was also a small miscommunication where I thought she wanted to go somewhere outside the city. She initially agreed, but later I realized she didn’t mean that. Still, she said we could plan something.
Recently, we were chatting at night on both WhatsApp and Instagram. She posted a story, and I casually said, “Don’t you have to study or sleep?” She said Instagram is taking too much of her time and that she’s thinking of deleting it. Later, I realized she was talking about deleting a story, not Instagram. I asked, “You mean the story?” She said yes. I replied, “Why? It was good.” After that, she left me on seen—and that’s been our last conversation.
Now I don’t know how to interpret all this. Should I just leave it? Or do something?
A friend suggested I send her a reel about ice cream as a light way to restart the conversation. I even thought about sending a reel that jokingly reflects how things went—from showing interest to cancelling plans—but I’m not sure if that would come off as creepy or desperate.
I also considered asking her directly, but I’m unsure.
So yeah… I don’t know if I’m overthinking this or not. What would you guys suggest I do?
One thing, I also noticed like that, after that night conversation, she only replied to me because she had to put up a story on WhatsApp and Instagram for different purposes, so she replied for not being rude or something like that. That’s what I think.