I tend to get more attacked by stacies than men
See I was butt ugly. Like super butt ugly. Overweight, acne, no hair (buzzed my head), hyperpigmentation all over my body (I'm not kidding just imagine cheetah spots but ugly), shrimp like posture.
When I was butt ugly, stacies and men both would talk to me but keep me at a distance.
Then I started swimming for funsies and things got a lil better. Lost weight, hair grew, hyperpigmentation started fading, posture improved.
When I improved physically, stacies would give me backhanded compliments. Question me why I was wearing a particular outfit even though her other stacy friends would wear the same kind of outfit but she never questioned them on their personal choices. Say "oh you finally turned into a girl from a boy" in front of everyone and laugh in my face. Men during this time obv became nicer as expected.
I went into a depressive phase again recently and turned into an acne prone hyperpigmented buzzed haired fat pig again. And now the same stacies are nicer to me for some reason and always wanna hangout with me. They keep wanting me to tag along as their lackey or their DUFF (designated ugly fat friend). They even mock my voice in class because it doesn't match my appearance now. Men well they stopped approaching me romantically but still talk to me as if I'm human.