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I tend to get more attacked by stacies than men

See I was butt ugly. Like super butt ugly. Overweight, acne, no hair (buzzed my head), hyperpigmentation all over my body (I'm not kidding just imagine cheetah spots but ugly), shrimp like posture.

When I was butt ugly, stacies and men both would talk to me but keep me at a distance.

Then I started swimming for funsies and things got a lil better. Lost weight, hair grew, hyperpigmentation started fading, posture improved.

When I improved physically, stacies would give me backhanded compliments. Question me why I was wearing a particular outfit even though her other stacy friends would wear the same kind of outfit but she never questioned them on their personal choices. Say "oh you finally turned into a girl from a boy" in front of everyone and laugh in my face. Men during this time obv became nicer as expected.

I went into a depressive phase again recently and turned into an acne prone hyperpigmented buzzed haired fat pig again. And now the same stacies are nicer to me for some reason and always wanna hangout with me. They keep wanting me to tag along as their lackey or their DUFF (designated ugly fat friend). They even mock my voice in class because it doesn't match my appearance now. Men well they stopped approaching me romantically but still talk to me as if I'm human.

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u/bounty_paglu — 5 hours ago
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Negative attention and men

As worthless we are deemed by others, some men will still want to extract resources from us sliding into dms, using us as therapists, attention, stalking this sub to jerk off. We aren't romantically desirable but our energy is wanted, we are disrespected and stolen from. Wanted as punching bags or background assets to highlight others.

Because they live in this void, in order to cope they need to believe EVERYTHING in the world is made to serve them. Women have to be made for me (make my junk hard). Objectify women because men themselves don't relate to the human experience, project that onto women to cope. Men will use you to maladaptive daydream. Around you, they talk louder with their boyfriends, cough, clear throat, fart, stomp. Men live in a void, and need this audience to prove their existence is real. They are the void, see who are destroying the planet? Didn't start with women.

Non femcels are wanted in the role of a "girlfriend", get paid from the relationship with reciprocated attention/romance from the male. Then he wants to merge himself with the girl/woman because, still, he doesn't exist. Their dicks will never help them ground themselves onto reality like they believe. Reliant on their dick to assess reality, what doesn't give him a boner must be destroyed. Never having developed a heart or the mind, no amount of violence or intensity of an orgasm will make them feel alive. Men are dead, so they kill.

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u/bisceau — 6 hours ago

If you aren’t at least HTB, you’ll always be the stepping stone

You’re the practice. The thing in between moids and true love. If you aren’t beautiful, you’ll never be taken seriously as a love interest. Just the way up.

Literally go outside and look around. You never see a moid end up with a sub 5 or even average girl. If you aren’t at least HTB, you’ll be at most practice, even if you do get lucky enough to be asked out. If you ever find someone who you think likes you back and wants to hang out with you or whatever, they will just lead you on while waiting for their dream girl. It doesn’t matter who you are or what your personality is, you will never be who they want.

I am not conventionally attractive. Never have been. My face is uneven, I have a big forehead, big ears, recessed, etc. I have never been anyone’s crush. The two times someone has shown interest in me (and it wasn’t a joke) they’ve never actually wanted to date. They’ll flirt with me until they find a girlfriend. I was just practice. My life is a joke and I’ll be alone forever. Fuck moids and their hypergamy.

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u/casual-catgirl — 3 hours ago

Daily reminder that all men, especially incels and lonely men, have high standards, and would actually not date "any woman that likes them back"

Most, if not all men*,* have high standards. They only want the most attractive women. Yet they desperatly want to be the poor oppressed gender. "Women are so shallow, women dont like most men while men like most women!!". Mind you, the stats they love to pull out are multiple years old, taken from a dating app, with less than 100 participants. They have no other counter evidence, because it doesn't exist.

Go to any "Do men like x, y" on any askmen sub, and you can easily see that this holier-than-thou attitude is complete bs. They like conventionally attractive women, they have very specific standards, but have to settle for anything below. And when they settle, they act like they have done you a favor.

And naturally, they are just so non-shallow and open-minded, you see. They have such low standards that they are willing to decieve some ugly woman into thinking that he actually likes her. But he likes all of you or something, so its fine that he lied about finding you attractive and the fact that he never preferred you! /s

Most men lie about this, but many are genuinly stupid enough to not understand that the male brain filters out women it doesn't like. They only acknowledge conventionally beautiful women, and therefore they think these women are average. Thats why they gloat about liking average normal women....

u/Pleasant_Loquat_5104 — 11 hours ago

ruined another friendship by letting my guard down and becoming vulnerable award 🏅

"just talk about your feelings" only works when you are NORMAL. Don't tell people you have never been in a relationship and are afraid of men they will see you as a little baby and pity you until the end of time

u/StuffWooden288 — 13 hours ago

I don’t take males who call women “whores” or “sluts” seriously

Whenever an xy chromo says a woman is a “hoe” I don’t believe them at all. These disgusting creatures will call a woman that for quite literally anything, even if she rejects their sexual advances. They know that they can weaponize these words against women and hurt their social reputation. They even lie about having sexual relationships with women so they can look “cool.” Also even if a woman is promiscuous Idgaf bc ik a male would never be held to the same standards, in fact he would get praised. The real sluts and whores are males, they’re quite literally wild animals who only think about sex. I’m not sure how they’re classified as human beings.

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u/MarketingLocal8975 — 13 hours ago

does anyone else have the most pointless life ever

ive never been in a relationship, i dont have friends, dont travel (never left the country and gone more than a few states over) broke, dont have a job or go to school or study, dont leave the house, and i barely have hobbies or any joy in doing anything

genuinely what purpose do i serve

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u/Imaginary-Delay-5335 — 13 hours ago

Shitposting buzzword etc MJ

Buzzword song, but I actually wanted to ask what everyone thinks of MJ. I always get people annoyed at me because I call him a weirdo. This song isn’t meant to be good btw I’m just having a bit of fun girls xx

u/machine_operated_bug — 12 hours ago

We cant even age peacefully, the women on the right does not even look that bad especially considering she has had 3 children and is nearly 50

I would honestly dream of having that body even though im decades younger than her. Our worth will always be based on us looking youthful and beautiful forever

u/Naivefemale91 — 1 day ago

am i too femcel?

i'm not scared of getting assaulted and raped even such thoughts can turn me on but only scared of STDs , the only standard i have is age 💔 I'm glad that i'm awkard introverted timid loser who avoids men. My only weaknesses help me to stay infection free and healthy.

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u/jellytic — 1 day ago

Do we have hobbies & leisure activities here ? :)

Honestly, the older I get, and the more friends stop talking to me because of boyfriends (ew!) I get more time to myself whether I like it or not.

I love

- reading
- drawing
- video games
- masturbation
- films & tv
- browsing 4chan and Tumblr
- long YouTube videos
- listening to albums
- coding & fiddling with technology
- cars
- sewing

I channel my time into these things because I’ve given up on men ( and I’ve been unemployed because I was a victim of mass layoffs and I can’t find work 💔💔💔💔💔 ) but I still want to manage to be happy to SOME degree. I want to leave behind a legacy even if it won’t be with children :(((

I hate how women give up this shit once they started dating. I was friends with a girl for years and then she started dating a m*n and then she started supporting AI, made fun of me for not supporting AI, and then stopped acknowledging my birthday. All that for a guy who treated her like shit. We need to pride ourselves on the fact that we can find enjoyment away from men, and even if we do end up dating, we can never let these wonderful things go!!!!

Please tell me if you share any of my hobbbjes, or even if you don’t, just tell me about a hobby you love !!!! Even a leisure activity that isn’t a skill !!!

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u/cookieswithmemes — 1 day ago

I promise this isn't ragebait

Firstly, I am a man, do with that information what you will. I do not understand Femcels, it makes no sense to me being a man. Without being too explicit, you don't really need to do anything, if you make a female tinder profile with photos of a brick wall you will get hundreds of likes. It seems like it's more of a matter of not finding men up to your standards or not getting a relationship out of it.

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why am I still a femcel

I used to be fat, didn’t know how to dress, do makeup, I barley did my hair and wouldn’t put any product in it letting it just be frizzy.

I went through hell for about 3 years learning how to do makeup, fix and style my hair, I lost 90+ pounds and am now underweight. Everyone calls me pretty now, friends, compliments in public, older men, people are always suprised that I’ve never even dated.. and I am actually somewhat content with my appearance currently.

I’m so desperate for human connection, a boyfriend. Why am I not approachable? I’m so sick of being in a room and feeling almost desperate for a man to notice me. It’s humiliating. But I crave a relationship, a boyfriend. I’m 18 and have never had a boyfriend

I don’t openly try to flirt with men, my friend and I were at a show yesterday and I tried to request this guys insta from the show I really really liked and talked to briefly, and he never let me even follow him… things like this just make me feel so hopeless and discourage me even more. What is wrong with me?!?

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u/nancyspungensgf — 1 day ago
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do you guys have a peculiar phenotype of women you fantasize about? like, wishing you look like a specific phenotype of girl. here’s mine!

these girls are so beautiful to me and they usually have kind of deepish voices which adds to their mousy cute features. it’s like idk. it’s perfect.

i literally fantasize looking like this, or some version of it, and posting selfies and tiktoks all day. i kind of feel like so intense about it that it’s almost like a “transness” of some sort. like, if there was a surgery where i could go in and come out looking like that (and sounding like that) i’d get it almost immediately, no matter the cost, and then i’d truly be living life.

but alas, i’m a fat ugly black girl with a gross voice so that obviously won’t be possible. lol

u/Eldenringop — 2 days ago

I saw some moids in comment and Idk why they come but they should know they are not welcome here😍

u/cixo56 — 1 day ago

how my fav fictional men would act towards ugly femcels

  1. Yasu — he is gentleman, he wouldn’t be rude to anyone, would talk politely, respectful and is the only one who wouldn’t obsess over others’ appearances.
  2. Kyosuke — wouldn’t act hostile toward ugly femcels, he would be chill overall but would feel deeply sorry for their unfortunate path and be happy that he was picked by baddie.
  3. George — would be disgusted by our existence. He would spray anti-germ spray on any femcel.
u/jellytic — 1 day ago

Siempre soy la fea a dónde quiera que vaya

Estoy harta de siempre sentirme fea, no importa si trato de bajar de peso o usar maquillaje, lo único que quisiera es que me miran y pensaran que soy linda o al menos simpática pero de verdad nunca destaco por nada en ningún lado, ni los chicos ni las chicas me voltean a ver, soy una masa super fea e invisible 🥀

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u/pinkberry_050 — 1 day ago