Men really are the worst. My male coworkers are bitter and rude to me because I'm a woman happily married to my sweet wife and after knowing they have absolutely zero chance at getting with me they do everything they can to make sure I feel unwelcome at work. Anyone else have this issue?
For the longest time they would keep asking if every was okay with me & my wife and it was confusing as hell.
Like, yeahh!? eventually little things like that stopped and now there's so much hostility from the men I work with because I'm a lesbian and it's honestly really annoying.
My supervisor even gets pissed and sarcastic whenever I mention my wife! I'm a traveling phlebotomist and there isn't really an HR for me to go to at my job. I've already filed complaints in the past with the national complaint system thing because men keep mistreating me. I won't name it.
One guy yelled at me the other week and took everything off the work van that I had just loaded up with medical supplies after a drive and he said that's NOT how you load it and I was like, I'm the driver I can load it how I want! I've also been here for about a year so I know what I'm doing.. he then got an attitude and made me cry in front of everyone and I just let him load it how he wanted it loaded.. took me 30 minutes to hit the road because I was so upset. my makeup was ruined and I cried all night 😭. he's in his 40s and I'm only 28 so I guess on top of everything else i guess he thinks I don't know anything because I'm 'young'.
I could go on and on with little stories like that about the mistreatment I get from men. I was never treated like this before I came out and before people knew I had a wife.
Mods if this violates any rules you can take my post down. I just needed to vent.