AIO by getting my friend banned from the gym
I (23M) have a really irresponsible friend (23M). We have known each other since elementary school, but he just doesn‘t care about other people’s wellbeing.
In 2022 he infected me with COVID. He litreally asked me out for a coffee, not saying he was sick. Twenty minutes in conversation he casually mentions he hadn’t been feeling well for the past couple of days, and that his aunt had tested positive for the virus. I was literallly shocked and asked him why he had invited me to hang out then, to which he responded with “I don’t believe in that nonsense“… Days later my Dad, grandma and I tested positive.
I somehow got over that, but he hasn’t changed since then. The same thing happened last week. He invited me for coffee, I got there and then mid-conversation he says “I went to the eye doctor this morning, they said I had pink eye”. What the actual hell? He had the oddacity to say “I hope you don’t catch it”, knowing I have a trip coming up. I stormed off, just didn’t know what to say.
Now, 2 days later he came to my gym, still infected. And what makes it worse is that he never goes to the gym, ever. And now that he is sick he comes here for the first time ever?
I told the staff that he was there to spread his infection on purpose, and they had him removed.
My family says I am the asshole, and that I overreacted. I do feel bad, but there is no way that he didn’t all that just to make other people sick.
I haven’t talked to him since, even though he has been texting me. AIO?