u/Intelligent-Exit9562

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Hope you had a restful sleep. Today is a new day. You got this! ☺️

Looking for a summer choir to join? Any recommendations?

I really want to believe that I won’t be alone forever. I just feel so far behind in my late 20s.

Does anyone have any success stories? I need to know it’s possible. 😔

I’ve started going to clubs and classes. It’s been great, I’m meeting people, trying new things I have a blast when I’m there. But….

I get this extreme sadness when I think about how much time I’ve wasted being alone and depressed. 😔 I feel like I’ve missed out on so much, because I was too afraid to do it.

I’m gonna keep going to things. I just have this sadness of what could have been.

Does anyone feel like this? Or have any advice for dealing with this feeling. I would really appreciate it.

One of my favourite moments in the series is when Shirley is staying with Abe and Rose during Moishe’s health scare. they talk about if Rose goes before Abe and they go back and forth about all these things, but it ends with the poignant moment where Shirley says to Abe: “If Rose goes before you, I’ll be there for you.” And Abe looks at her and says “thank you”.

Usually these couples are at each other’s throats. But when it really comes down to it. They are always in each other’s corner. 🥹

Considering money is tight for a lot of people. I was wondering if anyone knew any affordable or free fun things to do in Victoria that y’all would recommend. ☺️

Something my therapist and I have been doing in sessions is getting me to focus on good things I’ve been doing to help take care of myself or improve my life. It doesn’t have to be big, can be something super small.

So like today, yes I’m sad and lonely, but I was able to make myself a really good lunch and had a good career growth meeting with my manager. ☺️ I’m happy I did it, so good for me.

I think it’s a good practice to do to help change one’s perspective and fight back against the loneliness/negative talk.

Thought I’d share with the subreddit. 🙂

I’d also love to hear anyone’s “Good for me” as well. ☺️

I keep the TV on while I work from home. Helps to hear other people in the background. I mostly have on Downton abbey, gilded age, and I just finished the righteous Gemstones.

Anyone else have any good recommendations? ☺️

Sleeping alone in a place at night just makes the loneliness worse.

Families going to be away for a few days and I’m dreading it.

When I was younger, I didn’t care because I had my pet dogs around so I wasn’t technically alone. But now….

The place is so quiet. It just makes the loneliness worse.

I’m also not looking for a partner or anything.

It’s just an observation I’m noticing. The silence at night makes it worse.

Does anyone have any advice on how to not feel so lonely when going to sleep at night.

I hate WFH by myself. I live in a basement suite below my parents, but they are out and about during the day. Should I get a pet (cat or dog) for my loneliness? I’d just like to have the companion so I don’t feel so lonely. I had dogs growing up and loved it, so I know how to take care of them. I’m just wondering if I’m being selfish wanting a pet to help with my loneliness.

Trying to make a list of good healthy, easy, snacks/meals I can buy at the grocery store, so that I’m not just eating junk food. Anything will help.

I have a few things already, but I find I need to switch things up ever so often so I can remember to eat something. I’m trying to also get into shape, so healthy easy meals I can meal prep would also be great.

I find it helps so I don’t let my thoughts of loneliness take over.

Just having a really low day. Can’t focus on work, can’t focus on things that traditionally made me happy. I’m just sad and alone. 😣🥺

I feel like I should take this list to the next council meeting. 😂

Looking for a good local coffee shop? ☺️

It’s just tough working from home. It’s great for people with families, but for someone who is single. It’s truly depressing.

Any tips/advice would help.