What’s going on with transit etiquette?
I’m visibly pregnant and recently started taking the bus to work since I can’t bike anymore. On multiple packed rides now (this was my fifth), not a single person has offered their seat.
Where I’m from, it’s pretty standard to be aware of others and give up your seat to seniors, people with limited mobility, or pregnant women. When I was in Spain a few months ago, even when I was barely showing, people (including older folks) would offer their seat without hesitation. Not that I’d always take it, but the awareness was there.
Here, it’s honestly a bit shocking how oblivious people seem. And before anyone says “maybe people don’t know,” I’ve literally had someone sitting ask me how far along I am… and still not offer their seat.
So I’m genuinely curious. is this just not a thing here? Is it not taught when growing up? Are people unaware, or just keeping to themselves?