u/Imaginary_Border2009

I won’t be having my car first year. How are the buses I live in Houston. Is there any other options besides greyhound (I’ve heard mixed things about it)?

I'm in a very delicate situation my boyfriend 21M is very emotionally unstable and it's gotten to the point where | literally cannot deal with it. I do everything for him I apply to jobs for him give him money when he needs it stay on the phone when he's anxious help him get a psychologist. Like everything I have been with him for a year and a halt. It was not a smooth start my Muslim parents found out about him and I got in big trouble eventually they let me date him. There were red flags in the beginning I did not want to have s*x bc it's against my religion and his too we both Muslim but he kind of pressured me into it and would say I drove so far to see u blah blah. I gave in and I thought he loved me I loved him a lot. But last year in June started day trading which is where everything started falling apart. He also has a health condition ulcerative colitis that was pretty bad he was in and out of the er and ofc I stood by his side because also he stayed with me even when like my parents took my phone and he said he wanted to marry me and that he loved me. Obviously I was going to stick by his side. His health was bad and he did not want to major in comp sci anymore so he dropped out which his parents were very very upset with him. So he lives with his brothers now.
The day trading thing has made his mental health so bad when he loses he gets suicidal and he once tried to commit and FaceTimed me while he was trying to. It was because he was struggling financially and his health. I helped him find a good general manager job and he got it. So things started getting better. He was taking steroids and tried to get off them because the new drug Skyrizi was working but he had bad withdrawals so he quit work and was making good money from day trading. Flash forward to now he's struggling financially and is stressed out and now he has a flare again. I applied to so many jobs and he got one but it's assistant manager job so he now wants to quit because he wants a general manager job but I will basically be the one applying for him. I told him some money is better than no money but he's like no he said he's gonna trade all the money he has left away and if it doesn't work he will kill hinself. Basically almost everyday saying he will kill himself. He now will tell me to go "fuck yourseld" when I try to help him and block me on everything saying he's going to do it.
I'm just so exhausted of this cycle I'm so tired I don't know what to do because I'm his only support line. I got him a psychologist appointment for tomorrow. I really want to leave him but I'm scared he will try to kill hinself. Thus is really affecting my mental and physical health. I already have unstable parents and my own shit I deal with.
Should I leave him after he gets better (life wise) I'm scared I'll get stuck back into the cycle Or
When he blocks me again which he probably will. I block him on everything his friends and family so no one reaches out to me.
It's really hard for me to do this I do love him a lot o poured years of effort into this relationship but I'm starting to think this isn't healthy

Okay this is kinda long but please I need advice. I have been with 21M for a little over a year and a half. And it was so hard to convince my Muslim parents about him because they found out ab me meeting him in secret and things that are against Islam. A lot of fights in my family were caused over this like a lot until they kinda gave up. He has a condition called ulcerative colitis if u aren’t familiar with that it’s like crohns it’s an autoimmune disease and it’s very hard to live with. He has struggled with it and when we first got together it was at its peak like badness. He was in and out the er failing medications. Until finally he found skyrizi and it seemed to working until recently because now he is having a flare. During his flares he takes steroids (prednisone) and that has a lot of side effects irritability, insomnia etc. This is important for some background. Last year in June he started day trading because that’s an activity he can do home and it seemed promising in terms of income he did not wanna do something in computer science which was his major so he dropped out his junior year of college. Day trading I’ve heard is risky because a lot of ppl fail. Anyway he spent a lot of money on it. His dad and mom are not supportive and he got into a huge fight and then left to live with his brother who’s 30 min away. Flash forward to November he was struggling financially and was trying to find a job with a flare bc trading was not working out. I applied to manny jobs for him and found a good general manager job and he got it and
Made decent money and then he started taking off with trading and consistently was making 2k every week and ended up making 18k. He was living comfortably and quit his job because steriods were ruining his life and he was basically a zombie working. He stopped taking steriods he wasn’t as stressed and his health was so much better he wasn’t taking steriods no symptoms etc. But day trading stopped working out due to the stuff with trump affecting the market so again he started to struggle financially and his flare popped up again. He is in a bad mental state before it was bad too last year he tried to kill himself like attempted and FaceTimed me while he tried to. It was very very traumatic. Well right now it seems to be even worse he will block me saying he’s going to kill himself etc, mind you I have been trying my best to help him I have given him a lot of money for trading and just in general to pay bills. He is super unstable switching from I’m grateful for everything to he wants to end it all. What’s making it even worse is his mom who he doesn’t live with said some things ab him and his brother and she has been ignoring 21M him because he lashed out on her saying for her not to call him saying don’t day trade because that’s what he wants to do. I applied to jobs for him and he landed another general manager job which is good but still he’s really struggling some days he will block me and say he will kill himself and it’s very stressful. I’m not sure how I could help him. Because the only ppl who support him are me and his close friend.

Btw before anyone says his therapist appointment (first one) is this Tuesday. We had to call insurance and figure out a way he could get it for free.

Edit: background on me I am trying to be a doctor and on the pre med path I go to a private school both my parents are doctors they aren’t very supportive of this relationship.

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I ‘18F’ have a bf ‘21M’ have been with bf for 1 1/2 year. I am going to try to keep this brief but provide a lot of context to the situation. My bf has been acting very not normal and he has been and currently is suicidal it comes in waves but when it starts it gets very bad and each time this happens it has escalated. For context he has an autoimmune disease called ulcerative colitis and is taking Skyrizi. He recently had a flare because he has been so stressed about day trading he made a lot of money on it like 18k then he didn’t work and traded for like 5 months and gradually it all went away. He recently has been struggling with money but the financial problems have happened before in August and that’s when he tried to commit by swallowing steroids in his mouth I called 911 and he was sent to the hospital thankfully no damage was done but it was very traumatic bc he FaceTimed me while he was swallowing them. It was because of day trading. When he lost money it would hit him very hard. I told him to take a break and that I’d find him a job I applied to 100 of jobs and somehow landed him a general manager job and he was getting paid very good but he was on steroids and went through steroid withdrawals so he quit and he had enough money now fast forward to now his health was actually doing so well until again he had a flare which I’m 99% it’s from stress. What stress? Day trading. Before when he would get suicidal talking to me would make him feel better but now he blocks me and I get very worried I’m currently blocked right now I texted his brother and friends to check up on him. He wants money to day trade but I’ve gotten in trouble from my dad for sending him money. I’ve sent him 1k I think in total in the last 1 1/2 year I’ve been with him. He wanted me to buy I him a trading acc each cost 120 I told him my dad would get super upset (my dad yelled at me last time) now he’s saying he will kill hinself if the market dumps. It’s been like this for 2 weeks. Im trying to help so again I applied to so many jobs and he landed another general manager job that he will train for 2 weeks then start so he will be making good money so Im not sure why he’s doing this to himself. Hes currently waiting till the market goes down so he can kill himself and is staying up until that happens despite him being exhausted he’s on steroids for his flare and that makes his head worse. I don’t know what to do I’m also in the middle of studying for AP exams. I’m so lost on what to do and have been on edge everyday worried something bad will happen. I don’t even know what to do. He is telling me to leave him alone find someone new and to go fuck myself. Currently right now I’m blocked because I can’t send him money immediately right now because my dad got so mad at me i offered to give him cash but I have to wait till he doesnt have work he said he wants it now which I can’t do now he said he will kill himself and blocked me on everything and is saying he wont go to work and stuff. Please give me any advice I legit I’m so lost I have no one to talk to about this I’m sorry if my story isn’t super clear I’ll answer questions I’m just desperate for help. TL;DR what do I do

Warning suicide

I ‘18F’ have a bf ‘21M’ have been with bf for 1 1/2 year. I am going to try to keep this brief but provide a lot of context to the situation. My bf has been acting very not normal and he has been and currently is suicidal it comes in waves but when it starts it gets very bad and each time this happens it has escalated. For context he has an autoimmune disease called ulcerative colitis and is taking Skyrizi. He recently had a flare because he has been so stressed about day trading he made a lot of money on it like 18k then he didn’t work and traded for like 5 months and gradually it all went away. He recently has been struggling with money but the financial problems have happened before in August and that’s when he tried to commit by swallowing steroids in his mouth I called 911 and he was sent to the hospital thankfully no damage was done but it was very traumatic bc he FaceTimed me while he was swallowing them. It was because of day trading. When he lost money it would hit him very hard. I told him to take a break and that I’d find him a job I applied to 100 of jobs and somehow landed him a general manager job and he was getting paid very good but he was on steroids and went through steroid withdrawals so he quit and he had enough money now fast forward to now his health was actually doing so well until again he had a flare which I’m 99% it’s from stress. What stress? Day trading. Before when he would get suicidal talking to me would make him feel better but now he blocks me and I get very worried I’m currently blocked right now I texted his brother and friends to check up on him. He wants money to day trade but I’ve gotten in trouble from my dad for sending him money. I’ve sent him 1k I think in total in the last 1 1/2 year I’ve been with him. He wanted me to buy I him a trading acc each cost 120 I told him my dad would get super upset (my dad yelled at me last time) now he’s saying he will kill hinself if the market dumps. It’s been like this for 2 weeks. Im trying to help so again I applied to so many jobs and he landed another general manager job that he will train for 2 weeks then start so he will be making good money so Im not sure why he’s doing this to himself. Hes currently waiting till the market goes down so he can kill himself and is staying up until that happens despite him being exhausted he’s on steroids for his flare and that makes his head worse. I don’t know what to do I’m also in the middle of studying for AP exams. I’m so lost on what to do and have been on edge everyday worried something bad will happen. I don’t even know what to do. He is telling me to leave him alone find someone new and to go fuck myself. Currently right now I’m blocked because I can’t send him money immediately right now because my dad got so mad at me i offered to give him cash but I have to wait till he doesnt have work he said he wants it now which I can’t do now he said he will kill himself and blocked me on everything and is saying he wont go to work and stuff. Please give me any advice I legit I’m so lost I have no one to talk to about this I’m sorry if my story isn’t super clear I’ll answer questions I’m just desperate for help.

Warning suicide

I ‘18F’ have a bf ‘21M’ have been with bf for 1 1/2 year. I am going to try to keep this brief but provide a lot of context to the situation. My bf has been acting very not normal and he has been and currently is suicidal it comes in waves but when it starts it gets very bad and each time this happens it has escalated. For context he has an autoimmune disease called ulcerative colitis and is taking Skyrizi. He recently had a flare because he has been so stressed about day trading he made a lot of money on it like 18k then he didn’t work and traded for like 5 months and gradually it all went away. He recently has been struggling with money but the financial problems have happened before in August and that’s when he tried to commit by swallowing steroids in his mouth I called 911 and he was sent to the hospital thankfully no damage was done but it was very traumatic bc he FaceTimed me while he was swallowing them. It was because of day trading. When he lost money it would hit him very hard. I told him to take a break and that I’d find him a job I applied to 100 of jobs and somehow landed him a general manager job and he was getting paid very good but he was on steroids and went through steroid withdrawals so he quit and he had enough money now fast forward to now his health was actually doing so well until again he had a flare which I’m 99% it’s from stress. What stress? Day trading. Before when he would get suicidal talking to me would make him feel better but now he blocks me and I get very worried I’m currently blocked right now I texted his brother and friends to check up on him. He wants money to day trade but I’ve gotten in trouble from my dad for sending him money. I’ve sent him 1k I think in total in the last 1 1/2 year I’ve been with him. He wanted me to buy I him a trading acc each cost 120 I told him my dad would get super upset (my dad yelled at me last time) now he’s saying he will kill hinself if the market dumps. It’s been like this for 2 weeks. Im trying to help so again I applied to so many jobs and he landed another general manager job that he will train for 2 weeks then start so he will be making good money so Im not sure why he’s doing this to himself. Hes currently waiting till the market goes down so he can kill himself and is staying up until that happens despite him being exhausted he’s on steroids for his flare and that makes his head worse. I don’t know what to do I’m also in the middle of studying for AP exams. I’m so lost on what to do and have been on edge everyday worried something bad will happen. I don’t even know what to do. He is telling me to leave him alone find someone new and to go fuck myself. Please give me any advice I legit I’m so lost I have no one to talk to about this I’m sorry if my story isn’t super clear I’ll answer questions I’m just desperate for help.