u/Distinct-Library5173

I’m a male and looking for good company for jogging, running, badminton, gym, or any sports except cricket. I recently started getting back into fitness again after a long break.

Last year I used to go to the gym alone for around 4 months because most of my friends got busy. Since my last post, I also went on a short trip to Sonbhadra. Really beautiful place with amazing nature and very humble people.

I had some serious health issues in the past, so I’m rebuilding my body slowly. Because of that, I might not be able to match your level at first, but I’m trying to improve step by step. Hope you’re okay with that.

Don’t care about gender, just looking for genuine people with a fitness mindset. Prefer people who are not into alcohol, smoking, tobacco, or similar stuff. It would be nice if you know a little about fitness, nutrition, macros, recovery, etc.

Also not looking for people who are too much into politics, religion debates, or forcing opinions all the time. Just want a peaceful and positive vibe.

And to make it clear, I’m not looking for anything NSFW, even with same gender. Just genuine friendship, sports, and fitness company.

I’m currently in Sonbhadra and pretty new here, so I need some guidance.

First, I’m looking for a flat on rent (1BHK) preferably around Robertsganj or nearby areas. If anyone has leads, owner contacts, or broker references, please share.

Also, I want to explore nearby places but I’m not sure how local travel works here. Are there any places where I can rent a bike/scooty? Or is it better to rely on autos/cabs?

And if you have suggestions for must-visit places around Sonbhadra (waterfalls, viewpoints, forts, etc.), please drop them too.

Any help, tips, or personal experiences would really help

Hi everyone,

I’m planning to travel from Prayagraj to Mirzapur and wanted to know the best way to reach there.

- Are trains frequent and reliable?

- Any good bus options?

- How much time does it usually take?

Would really appreciate suggestions on the easiest and most convenient option. Thanks!

I don’t want something where people start asking about past, money, and future from day one. I just want something simple. Like meeting someone randomly… at work, in an auto, anywhere. They like me for my voice, my vibe, the way I am. I like them for who they are. No pressure. No planning. Just talking and knowing each other slowly. Few coffee dates… then a friendship… then something more… then a relationship… and faaaaaaaa — marriage. At this age, I’ll probably know after some time if I want to settle with her or not. But that whole process… that’s the exciting part. The way I try to impress her. Late night talks. Waiting for her at a restaurant. Learning about her past and family. Dropping her home. Picking her up from office. And one day it’s like — Damn… I didn’t know you were like this.

Maybe I need to quit watching kdrama (inspired by other post's)

I’m thinking of watching Michael today… or maybe tomorrow.

Also, my brother is shifting to another city soon, so it’s probably going to be a little boring for the next few months.

At the same time, I really want to start going to the gym again. But staying consistent feels so hard these days and I’m still trying to figure out how to stick with it.

Life feels a little weird right now. Three of my close friends got married this year, and suddenly everything around me has changed. Different priorities, different routines…

Not sad exactly… just adjusting.

Anyway, I guess I’m just bored and needed to rant a bit. Maybe it starts with Michael. Maybe it starts with one gym session. Let’s see.

I had to make a fresh post because of some misunderstanding

Let’s say there’s a guy who is fully independent. He makes his own decisions career, lifestyle, everything. His family doesn’t control him.

He’s not very rigid about traditions. He’s fine with festivals or occasional pooja, but he doesn’t follow customs strictly.

Now my question is simple:

how much does his family background actually matter to you in this setup? do you think a setup like this might feel lonely in the long run since it’s mostly just two people? Would things like caste, customs, or how involved his family is still be important?

Like: What if he is not close to his family?

Or he doesn’t want to stay in touch with them? Maybe very less

Also things like caste, traditions, customs.

I quit my first job. I worked really hard to get it and clear all the interviews.

Reason the head of the firm sexually harassed a new joinee. She was crying in front of me and decided to leave and not take it further. After that, I couldn’t stay there, so I resigned too.

What’s bothering me more is my friends’ reaction. People I’ve known for 10+ years said things like “it has nothing to do with you” and “why would you leave your job for that.”

It just doesn’t sit right with me. And now I feel uncomfortable around them.

I’ve been living in a toxic home environment for many years. Things are better now, but I feel like the damage has already been done. I still feel anxious and my heartbeat gets fast.

I do go out, talk to people, go to the gym, and stay active. I’m not isolated, but I feel like it’s time to properly address this with a professional.

I want to work on this and learn how to stay calm.

If you know any good therapist (Delhi or other cities) or online options, please suggest. Thanks.

I live in a toxic home environment for many years. Because of this, I feel anxious and my heartbeat gets fast.

I want to fix this and learn how to stay calm.

If you know any good therapist (offline in Agra or online), please suggest. Thanks.

Edit - I'm male !!!!