u/Cheez-kip

There is this girl I known for years, since I was 9. 14 years later, we are sister in laws through our partners. Her and I haven’t talked in like 2-3 years now due to the last time we spoke, she was quite cruel and I had pointed it out that she was saying something not nice and she ignored me ever since, demanding an apology from me. I don’t feel I owe her an apology, but she owes me one, but honestly I don’t even care if she apologizes or not, as long as she changes her behavior to be a better individual. I have seen her at family events since then, when she chooses to appear, and she won’t even look at me. They usually only show up for 15 minutes if they even show up at all.

Her and her partner got engaged last year and also got married immediately in secret. They spent the rest of the year pretending they weren’t married, and telling everyone who was going to be invited and who wasn’t. This led to tons of unnecessary drama because people were being told “you’re invited, but your boyfriend isn’t because I don’t know him.” Which, hey, I mean if you can’t afford it, then so be it. But realistically, it would have been a 10 person-20 person wedding to begin with if they invited everyone, partners included, so honestly the family was like “whatever dude” you want like 5 people there, and none of them can invite their partners that have been together longer than y’all… ok.

Keep in mind, they been married secretly the entire time.

The groom ended up not choosing his brother as his “best man” due to the fact he didn’t like his girlfriend (that’s me) so he asked his best friend. His best friend is on an ankle monitor and can’t leave the city. The groom was telling his brother and best man how the bachelor party is going to take place in vegas, 1000+miles away. They’re all poor, so they were humoring him asking him how they would travel there because it was not going to happen. The groom was talking about driving separate so the groom and bride could be alone, but also the brother’s girlfriend and the best man’s girlfriend were not invited for the trip. As if we would even all be traveling together? And isn’t the best man supposed to plan the bachelor party, not the groom?

So yeah, it was just unnecessary drama and them purposefully causing fights.

They were supposed to get married later this year, but holiday morning, most the family is gathered at the mom’s house, planning the small bbq/bonfire party for the night. The groom shows up unannounced, surprising everyone because he shows up to a party maybe 2-3 times a year. He’s only there for 5 minutes, just long enough to tell everyone he’s been married for a year secretly and the wedding was off, and they’re just going to buy a house instead.

The room went mild. No one gave a shit. All they did, was stop the future fights that would break out when wedding day came, and couples that are married and have children would be split up to choose if they will be there for his wedding or spend time with their kids.

Look, I don’t even want a wedding myself. It was never in my plans, tbh. I would also skip a wedding and just get married too, maybe take everyone out for dinner or spend $100-$200 on some drinks and food and cook it ourselves. I can respect not wanting a wedding, but dear lord, keep your mouth shut about who is invited and not, if you’re not even throwing a wedding and already secretly married. Jesus christ.

Got scheduled tomorrow 5 hours ago. got a funeral so not going in 100%. Manager was trying to act like i had to talk to the PL to not have to come in. Obviously she is not going to be in today. Def not my problem. But what are the rules for future reference?

Overnight stocking here, power been out a minute or two, supposed to rain all night. How long is the wait?

I never had this issue at my other jobs as much as this one. They hire some of the worst people, I swear. I’ve worked here 3 years and pretty much hate everyone in the store, all the good ones go

I been suffering all week, but today is bad. I would like to get a calpotectin test. Never had one ever, as I just learned what is was perusing google.

Where does one go to get it done? I hope urgent care, cause I could get it done today then. How does the test go?