u/Active_Goat3549

So am a 20M (turning 21 soon) enlisting into NS soon. I have a very strong baby face look, which in turn makes people think that I am still a secondary 4 or poly year 1 student

So am a 20M (turning 21 soon) enlisting into NS soon. I have a very strong baby face look, which in turn makes people think that I am still a secondary 4 or poly year 1 student

Enlisting into kranji camp as a pes c in less than 2 weeks. How to mental prep

I am 20M Abt to enter NS (in less than 2 weeks time).

I have been single all my life, partly because I have this mindset of "being too lazy to plan dates, go out and even talk to people".

\\\*There has been girls that has hinted on me that they like me but I didn't take any action

I have also been very dependent on my parents. I had a very good childhood, whatever I wanted my parents would give me, bring me out to eat good food all the time. I never had to work part time in sec sch, poly and just spent the entire holidays doing my hobbies.

I know many people say NS will change my mindset. However, I am non- pes fit (C2) which means I wont be going through the tough training in tekong, but will be going to kranji to do the modified bmt.

Sometimes, I feel like I want to engaged but fear all the responsibility that will come to me. Consistent in rs is very important and I know I am not very consistent person so yea😭😭

I am 20M Abt to enter NS (in less than 2 weeks time).

I have been single all my life, partly because I have this mindset of "being too lazy to plan dates, go out and even talk to people".

\*There has been girls that has hinted on me that they like me but I didn't take any action

I have also been very dependent on my parents. I had a very good childhood, whatever I wanted my parents would give me, bring me out to eat good food all the time. I never had to work part time in sec sch, poly and just spent the entire holidays doing my hobbies.

I know many people say NS will change my mindset. However, I am non- pes fit (C2) which means I wont be going through the tough training in tekong, but will be going to kranji to do the modified bmt.

Sometimes, I feel like I want to engaged but fear all the responsibility that will come to me. Consistent in rs is very important and I know I am not very consistent person so yea😭😭

So am gonna go into kranji camp real soon (~2 weeks time) and I just wanted to ask if can use washing machine?

Cuz I heard some people say can some say cannot. I mean I don't mind washing with my bare hands also lah but if got washing machine then it will help greatly HAHAHA

So I am (PES C9) who is gonna enter army in may (2 weeks) time and will ord in May 2028.

I was just wondering if from may to August I got nothing to do can I extend my service from may to Aug 2028 so that I can some extra cash?

So I am 19M going to enlist soon and I have been talking to this girl that I met through some games. We called on whatapps on some occasions and even talk with each other for hours without feeling bored or anything. We clicked really well and soon we exchange igs... I saw her and she's really my type but here's the thing

1. She's from JC and heading to NUS next year while I am from poly (have to wait 2 years before going uni, so we might not be in the same phase of life)

2)I am a very low maintenance and lazy bum guy, like I won't text when I am tired (So NS gonna worsen that) and don't know to plan or put in much effort to plan dates

I really at a lost, one part of me really wants to be with her another part holds me back as I feel that I am not ready to be in a relationship. I don't want to force myself into a rs only to end up badly nor would I bear to see her with another guy in uni

😭😭

So I am 19M going to enlist soon and I have been talking to this girl that I met through some games. We called on whatapps on some occasions and even talk with each other for hours without feeling bored or anything. We clicked really well and soon we exchange igs... I saw her and she's really my type but here's the thing

1. She's from JC and heading to NUS next year while I am from poly (have to wait 2 years before going uni, so we might not be in the same phase of life)

2)I am a very low maintenance and lazy bum guy, like I won't text when I am tired (So NS gonna worsen that) and don't know to plan or put in much effort to plan dates

I really at a lost, one part of me really wants to be with her another part holds me back as I feel that I am not ready to be in a relationship. I don't want to force myself into a rs only to end up badly nor would I bear to see her with another guy in uni

😭😭

Hi so for context I am an applicant with a CGPA of 3.02 and have not received any news or interiview since the start.

Am starting to think no hope already. I know that appeal phase is gonna start in may but then again I am going bmt on the 19th of may (pes E), and might be too tired and stuff to do my appeal properly. Also I can't bring my laptop to camp so yea

I am planning to try again next year but if possible I want to try to appeal for this year if can thanks

Like I genuinely don't get for context I am 19m going to NS this year and have a lot of friends asking me to run these paid marathons with them..

But I don't get the point, cuz firstly

1. it's expensive just to a run either 21km or 42km,

2. it's so crowded (not to mention when leaving the place it's gonna get troublesome)

3)Have to wake up early (at unreasonable hours)

4. Have to smell sweat smell (no offense to anyone but just a personal take)

Like com on I can just do it at the comfort of my house, at my own time, at my own pace.

I am 19M (turning 20 soon) and enlisting into army soon next month. Am not looking for a relationship now but jus a question.

I come from a family of taoist and some of my family members have "supernatural powers" I don't want to delve too much into it (believe it anot it's up to you). But yea I certainly do believe it very deeply because certain things have happened.

I am also a very stanch believer. I have never eaten beef for 20 years in my life, I treat very single superstition very seriously and during offering months I will help out my family with folding of the Joss paper, praying my ancestors etcetc

I am asking this is because most of my friends rather female friends have no religion or off another faith so which comes to my mind whether I would be compatible with anyone in the future