u/0neoftheb0ys

Hi there, I am reaching out to the community to ask for some advice on the smell of my D. My gf has said it doesn’t smell good and tastes bitter, I have only recently started into s*x and she was the first one. I don’t have much experience with full downstairs cleaning. I take a shower each morning and usually am busy in the afternoon, does any guys have advice on how to
A: keep it clean so she don’t have stuff in her mouth
B: make it smell better so it’s not bad (hair or no hair)
C: how to improve the taste of the shaft not the liquid

I 18m and my gf 18F have been together for almost 3 months, we’re not religious and are fine with sex. If you have a problem with that please don’t reply with something like that.

Basically, we started having sex 3 weeks into the relationship, and sometimes it’s great, sometimes it not. Before her I never had sex so she took my virginity, but the last few times the sex has been “boring”. As in Its one position, not much engagement from her, and idk what to do. I’ve tried to do more foreplay but I’m still new to sex and struggle with it and consistency. How can I bring these issues up with my partner? I want more positions and more engagement from her to “spice” things up.

I’m 16M and my father is 38M, my father has neglected me for a lot of my life and hasn’t been around very much. I’ve gone through a constant back-and-forth relationship with him. When I was younger, my mom used to make me go out to his house because the courts demanded it, and I hated it so much. He would sometimes make me skip dinner and sit in my room for a whole day because I didn’t say yes, sir at the table. I don’t remember much of my childhood because a lot of it was very bad. And I stopped seeing him when I got a little bit older and started going back to see him when I was about 13 or so. Things were great for quite some time and then one night we got into an argument and he blew up saying that I’m always a disrespectful prick and that I’m nothing but a check to him. That exact line has stuck with me to the state. I attempted to off myself about a month after he said that which me and him hadn’t met since that time. I went throughout a year of therapy before I considered reaching out again, and things were going great for quite some time. But about two months ago, I just stopped going out there. I don’t know if I want to have a relationship with my father because of what he said to me in the past. But I also have two little brothers and one little sister that care about me very much and I care about them, but I also don’t wanna put myself into an environment with my father. What should I do? It’s been two months since we talked.

I 16m got a message from my friend at school 16M and he admitted to me that he tried to off himself. I assume everyone knows what that means. He asked me not to tell anyone and so far I’ve respected most of it. I went to our other friend cause there’s mainly three of us and I didn’t say he tried to offer himself, but I’m more said that we need to support him more and try to include him more. Recently, he’s been acting a little bit more out of pocket and random and so we haven’t been including him as much because of it. Was I in the wrong for doing that? From here what should I do? I really want to respect his decision of me not telling anyone but I also don’t wanna carry this alone. I went through something very similar about two years ago, and I think it ruined my life because of how much it stopped me from doing job wise. I feel like I shouldn’t tell anyone to give him another chance in life but I also don’t want to see him waste that chance and end his life.

Contextfor everyone, I have some problems mentally with anger and jealousy because of childhood issues with my parents and previous relationship problems. Yesterday I was with my girlfriend and I saw her messaging someone. She’s from Ukraine, and she speaks fluent Ukrainian, Russian, and English. So it’s not like even if I wanted to read the messages I could because it’s all in Ukrainian or Russian.
TLDR: my girlfriend 18F of 2 months speaks a different language and she’s messaging someone on an app.
She noticed me looking, and I’ve talked to her before a little bit about my past. I have a lot of issues around this type of stuff. she told me that it was a female she was talking to that was trans. She told me in the past that she is a little bit by and he’s not completely against being with a female. Our two month is coming up in a few days and because of our ages and because we’re both still in high school I don’t wanna just break up and leave it. How can I bring this up to her of my feelings of jealousy around this without seeming like a jealous boyfriend? I feel really bad that I even have this stuff going on and I hate it sometimes and it causes me a lot of anxiety. But I feel like the only way to get better at it is to confront it directly. Any help would be really appreciated.

Context, my gf has admitted to me that in the past this one guy in her class she had an “obsession” with him and wanted to make him “hers”. I already have some jealousy and have a history of abandonment and betrayal. Problem is, this guy is in her 5th period, they sit right next to eachother and other than that I never see them together. I have some anger problems when it comes to stuff like this, I’d never hurt her. But if I found something behind my back with Him, I get worried about how I’d react. How can I work on my anger and jealousy? I’m usually the bigger and stronger person when it comes to a fight or antagonizing situation which makes it difficult to manage my emotions knowing I could do anything I want. Any advice is good, mainly from men with this problem.