r/sexeducation

i had a wet dream whcih was my first time ever ejeculating in my life and i'm really nervous about it, how often will it happen, i dont masterbate at all because it scares me

when my bf (M20) and I (F21) are making out, he likes to suck my breasts, why? I know it's like a personal preference thing but I didn't know that was something that guys like.

I’m 19 male. My girlfriend(18F) and I are going to have sex for the first time.

Yeah, I’ll be wearing a condom.

General advice?

All advice welcome.

Okay so this is a first, I've never been this public about anything sexual but at the same time this is anonymous so heh. So right now I'm 18 and ever since I was 10 I accidentally learnt how to syntribate and I've been doing it ever since. But like recently i wanted to learn how to finger myself but I don't really know how to :( I tried to fit just a finger but it was really scary. Like even after I insert a finger what do I do from there?...

So i recently linked with my guy friend, and we ended up doing you know what. We didn’t use protection and he didn’t finish , and he only went for about a minute, but i’m still stressing over the fact if im pregnant or could possibly be. He said he didn’t nut or prenut. Any advice or help? ( and yes i know it’s my fault if i am pregnant because i was irresponsible without protection )

I’m 19 male and I’ve been having sex with my girlfriend(18F) for a couple of months now and still cum in like 40 seconds, all minute if I’m lucky.

Advice?

I was 6 years old and I had 2 friends (my neighbors kids)same age as me we used to show each other, touch each other (IS THIS NORMAL?????

so I like know nothing about sex or anything sexually (I'm rlly rlly innocent). but last night my boyfriend and I were taking out, it was pretty intense and he had fingered me. but after a while it was hurting so I made him quit, I went to the bathroom and I was slightly bleeding, nothing too much that would freak me out cause I knew it was normal. but when I got back to his room, he had told me he "popped my cherry" I immediately went to freak out mode because I knew that term was sometimes used as saying "hey I lost my virginity" but he said that it doesn't mean I lost my virginity since we didn't have sex but I have read that popping the cherry does mean losing your virginity so I just need some reassurance and clarity. thx in advance

I’m 17F and very fucking confused.

I’ve always been curious about sexual themes and already as a kid (7-8ish) I watched kink/fetish videos on YouTube and genuinely felt aroused by it. My interest for sex has remained about the same up until now, but I don’t FEEL much anymore. How come I could get all tingly as a child all of the time but barely now?

I think a part of it has to do with being groomed and sexually exploited, which left me feeling disgusted and shameful about my body and sexual actions. I can’t touch myself without feeling embarrassed and gross, as if there are cameras recording me everywhere.

Another thing I’ve noted is that when I fantasise about people, I can only see myself doing stuff to them, not the other way around. It’s not that I wouldn’t want them to do stuff to me, it’s that I’m scared of not being in control or taken advantage of. I hate feeling weak, I hate being looked down on.

Maybe things will get better once I find a partner and actually have sex for the first time, but now I feel like I’m stuck in a place where I can’t let myself be sexual cause it feels wrong.

I have a therapist and I’ve mentioned just a little bit of it but talking about sex out loud and my own thoughts about it makes me so uncomfortable.

How do I get comfortable with it again?

well, as the title says, I need some advice with anal masterbation, I've done it before, but I've struggled with my prostate, I believe I've hit it but the sensation wasn't all that nice? felt like I had to use the bathroom rather than pleasure, I got some lube thankfully but I've run out, and I'm certain my parents wouldn't be approving of this, what are some alternatives? and how can I make my prostate sensations more pleasurable?

My first few worries is about development. How can i know i have developed right because i dont know if ive got anything to worry about. Aswell ive got a worry about foreskin as like it does come down when im hard, easier when soft but i need to do it like manually it doesnt go down naturally and when i do bring it down when hard it goes back up and idk if i need to go doctors or anything like that.

how can i be certain on development?

do i need to go somewhere to checkout my foreskin or is there a way to help on my own? or is it just a case of time

my other worry is about masterbating i think ive either got an addiction or close to. im doing it like 3 times on a busy day like a day i go to school but a free day it can get up to 6 times. aswell can i cause any damage or effect my development from doing it this much.

is this an addiction? if yes how can i stop and cut down?

can i cause damage or effect development from doing it so much?

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Hey so this is myb akward to post but here we are.

I am fay, but not to fat.

I wanna have sex with my bf but to scared that he would find me gross, specially in cowgirl position.

Idk what to do to make more awkward bcs of that and yeah i know everything, so telling me that i should not be ashamed is not helping.

I need something that would help me (in that position) to feel less emberassed or akward.

And if you can help about how to make him more horny, cause that would be really helpful.

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15m btw. Are condoms important? How do I know what size? Whats foreplay? How do I make it good for her? How do I know when is the right time to start? What should I expect the first time (she’s never seen my dih so will she just look at it or will I go in). I literally need help w everything

Almost everytime my boyfriend and I have sex i end up with a UTI after. I pee right after sex and he wears condoms and is clean. We have also used latex and no latex so I have no idea what the problem is. What can I do to help prevent this more?