r/ugly

Guys is it only me or when I open true rate me subreddit and I see these fucking cute people getting 4s wtf if I posted there I will get -67😭

I've been removing these posts and tagging them as BDD posts because I genuinely feel like if you have a bf/gf who actually loves you and cares about you, then you can't be THAT ugly. No one who is genuinely ugly is going to find someone. I know it's possible, because i do see couples around who are ugly and they are clearly in love with each other and stuff.

But it feels like a slap to the face to those of us here who have literally never ever felt a tiny sliver of love from someone else. Who don't even know what it's like to have someone's arms around you and have them want to be with you and cuddle with them and kiss them and all that. ESPECIALLY the ones where people talk about how loving their bf/gf is towards them or the people who have managed to have multiple bf/gfs. I feel like if you've had many bf/gfs you probably should be banned from here because in that case, you're definitely not ugly.

So I've been removing them, but what do you guys think? Maybe I'm just bitter/biased since I've realized I'm going to die alone and will never experience love, so I want to get other opinions

I thought the colouring, hair, diet and inhibitions segments were pretty useful. Mainly the colouring one. I found the clothing section funny and not useful which is on brand because clav is known for not having the best of clothes.

I’m going to research more into pregablin before I get some, does anybody else who’s ugly have experience with it?

So I need some help figuring out if I’m actually ugly. I’ve had people say I look like a gargoyle and laugh at me, and I’ve even been told to kill myself. But at the same time, I’ve had women express that they like me. I’m not trying to brag or anything—I’m just confused. It feels pathetic that how good of a life you have can depend on some random person’s perception of you.

What are some of the things you can get away with if you are attractive that an ugly person can't get away with?

It’s so wild to me how other people have the unknown privilege of getting most of their fulfillment from OTHER people

The average person I see has SOO much family and friends and partners that they can hang out with at any given time, Who they talk to on the phone with regularly, who they text all the time, who they have sex and intimacy with (with the partners of course, shit sometimes even their own friends)

Point is the average person seems to spend most of their time around people rather than on a phone or in a book, like me

I’m forced to get my source of enjoyment from the internet and on my phone or through other solitary means when I want to interact with people

But when youre ugly, you know how that goes, people just don’t want you around them

And this just makes me feel so abnormal

If you saw my screen time you’d be embarrassed for me I have very little interaction with people and it’s all because of my ugly face and I hate it

I wish I looked normal

instead of an ugly woman, and It's not because women have it worse, I'm not making a comparison here. But for one thing, that is SPENDING MUCH TIME TRYING, like I take at least one hour and half to get ready (makeup, hair, clothing, accessories..) and it's so exhausting I despise every second of it and the worst part after all that effort and time spent, you are still below average. And I know it seems like a choice but not for me, as it does make a small difference in the treatment I get in public and the kind of stares I receive and I'm not ready to face society's cruelest side, that's why I never go out bare faced.

As for men the only thing they can do for daily look maintenance is go to the gym and wear some good clothes.

I know they have it bad or might be even worse but I wanna feel the peace of having nothing to do to help it, they'd either accept their ugliness or live miserably, while ugly women they too do have to accept it or live miserably but add to that the pain of giving much work for some slight differences.

I know I might sound exaggerative or lazy, but to go through this shit everyday is exhausting, you might say yeah 2 hours won't kill what's the big deal? NOT EVERYDAY FOR FUCKING YEARS TILL YOU DIE AND FOR NOTHING.

I'd rather be beheaded alive with a blunt knife than go through the experience of growing up ugly again. People just dont even see you as a human being who deserves some decency. Other kids at school either avoid you like the plague or treat you like you did something wrong to them by bringing your presence in. I remember this one time, the teacher made a girl sit next to me at class and she already seemed pissed even though i didn't even talk to her, just smiled even if that was not enough..her friends teased her saying "omg are you two best friends?" and this bitch fucking cried infront of the whole class and the teacher reassigned her seat with someone else leaving me alone. (Which i am fucking grateful for cause i'd rather be by my own at this point). The other girls would pick on me and pretend to be nice to me just so they could make fun of me. They would post our pictures on their socials and use me to look better. I always kept to myself hoping that no one would notice me but folks still did. "Why are you like this?", "Ew, who would marry that?" referring to me when my name came up in a kiss marry kill, "xyz has a crush on you", "how are you so beautiful?" in a mocking way. I don't think these words would ever get out of my head. I am just undeserving of love or basic human decency because i exist as me. I lost the weight, tried different hairstyles, tried makeup and I am still a fucking pig. I can't help but feel envious of people who can enjoy life fully because they atleast look pretty enough for basic decency while the only thing which keeps me motivated is the thought that i can get cosmetic surgery in the future and finally be worthy of love. I am 20 and never had a boyfriend or even held hands with a guy, the closest interaction i ever have with guys is when they come up to me with their middle school joke "oh my friend there likes you" just to get some laugh out of his friends. I was supposed to be an abortion but destiny had other plans and now I fucking hate the life I am supposed to be "grateful" for.

I thought about this question because even on the phone, some people have more or less attractive voices.

I also noticed that some international students may face discrimination due to their accents, and I was wondering if, for those who do have accents, your accent is perceived as adding or taking away from your attractiveness.

For example, in the media, there are certainly voices that are made fun of and associated with "wimps," "nerds," etc., while there are other voices that are associated with attractive women (like that sort of "bubbly," high-pitched "customer service voice").

I've noticed that whenever I go places to order something, they always ignore me. It's one of the main reasons I hate going places that happen to not have a line atm because it ALWAYS HAPPENS. They just ignore me and pretend not to see me, or worse laugh at me and whisper about me and then go back to what they're doing like I'm not even there.

Yesterday I popped into a store to get some sweets real quick while I waited for an order from another store nearby to finish being made, and the people there all just ignored me. After a while, I decided it was probably better and faster to just put the order in online (like I typically do), especially since i was worried about my car since i parked in bad spot/not a real parking spot since parking is bad in that area and didnt want to risk getting a parking ticket. A few seconds later after I stepped out of line, a guy came up behind me and they took his order IMMEDIATELY. Like he didn't even wait 2 seconds before they welcomed him in and asked what he wanted.

I'm SO FUCKING TIRED of the constant disrespect. I feel like the only time this doesn't happen is when I go in through the drive through (since they have to keep the line moving obviously, but sometimes they'll still laugh at my ugliness and be rude or call me a sir when I'm a woman) or when I put my order in online and can just pick it up from the pick up area without ever having to interact with someone. It's just exhausting. It's not like they will get some disease from me just because they have to talk to me.

And other times they're even ruder and blatantly extremely disrespectful when I go to order to pay for something that it makes me want to avoid going to that store ever again or interacting with that particular person.

I wish I could be like normal people and just be able to waltz into stores and have people be respectful, be happy to talk to me, or even just take my order and leave me alone

i’m fucking tired, getting bullied in my final year of college by grown women. everyone has their own friends while i have none. i do one fucking mistake then i’m a terrible person. i’ll be nice to people then on a random tuesday they give me dirty looks or forget about me

why can’t i be treated like a normal person

why do i have no friends

i’m 21 f i should be outside having fun with my friends

thought this bullying shit will end in high school