r/sexuality

So I have only ever dated women. I am only really sexually attracted to women (i.e., I only find women sexually/physically attractive). I have never found another man to be “hot” or ever felt compelled to kiss or sleep with another man—the idea just holds no appeal.

The past several years though, I have found the idea of sucking dick or having my dick sucked by another man IF a woman is present and participating a big turn on. In any other circumstances, the idea holds no appeal to me, but the idea of an MMF just makes me so hard these days. Recently, I came across the concept of heteroflexible identity, but I’m not sure this fully captures the nuances of how I feel. For instance, penetrative sex (giving or receiving) with a man holds no appeal at all. But oral sex when a woman is guiding or part of it? Extremely appealing. Help.

I have a legitimate serious question. How wet is too wet? Or is there really such a thing? A person that I have been seeing for a while well we finally had sex (penetration) as we have literally done everything else just complained that I am too wet! Like what! Say that again sir.

I am literally so confused. In my many years on this planet I have never had a man complain about that. It’s actually always been the opposite.

Thoughts?

I am a guy who is attracted to lesbians is that something different because I’m not really attracted to other girls tbh

I have what someone like you would consider bi thoughts a lot. Especially when I am drunk. I personally think it comes from my lack of luck with the ladies. I feel like I need any sort of intimacy so I go on grindr and find a feminine looking bottom.

I have lost a bunch of weight and I have been working out for two years now but it hasn't helped getting a gf. Now I succumb to finding "femboys" on grindr to fulfill my intimacy needs. I don't like it and I don't want it at all. How do I stop having these feeling of lust?

This is not a brag or whatever, not that finding bottoms on grinfr is a huge achievement. but I still need help managing my emotions.

I am not great at typing out exactly what my struggles are, but I mainly want to stop my attraction to feminine men.

Please help, it is destroying my life and mental health

Heya!, i come here for a more serious discussion and talk. My name is maya and i have hs. i control it, I'm not ashamed of it but i have days when i get really horny and i can't stop masturbating for hours but this weekend i'm more horny than usually and i think It's going to be a long weekend. if y'all have any advice, I'll hear you

Like bruh I'm 26 and all my life the only sexual encounter I had was with my ex girlfriend and my friend 😅, I'm 26 already and still haven't lose my virginity all the way 😅😵 (It felt like I'm missing out and at the same time having trouble connecting with someone, specially now that I've close myself 😅)

My earliest memories are of me wanting sex. I mean from 5 and 6 and always craving it. My wife is not and find myself frustrated or masturbating.

So, as many may now, I'm a hypersexual and i've been thinking lately that unfortunaly i don''t think a human being could bare My sexual energy. so i've been thinking, Will it be Bad if met another hyper like me and stablish a bond with them?, i read you

I’m not homophobic and I don’t hate myself for being gay. I just don’t get along with women or least they don’t get along with me. Every women I’ve been interested in has led me on and secretly hated me for some reason same with friends. And it’s weird because I ask people if there’s anything wrong with me in social situations and they say nothings wrong. So I don’t get why everyone hates me, Everytime I turn around there’s a girl secretly talking shit about me. When all I do is stay to myself. The crazy part is I’ll leave these weird people alone and remove them from my life. But then they just talk about me more and make up rumors. They’ll even try to come back into my life without an apology. And when I don’t let them back in there obsessive reasons they become even more aggressive. I’ve had like 3 stalkers who are all women in such a small time frame in my life. And it’s only women I experience this with. Friends and romantic wise, I’m just looking for genuine connections. Don’t get me wrong the men aren’t the best group of people but I literally only get along with men. There’s no gossip or secret animosity, when I communicate my words are used against me. They’re open and honest, I love being a lesbian but I can’t help but think if I were born straight I’d be married to the love of my life already. And it’s eating me alive.

Couple in our early 30s, me[M] have previous experience opening up my couple , I often fantasize about sharing her with another men, but wondering how I should bring it up to her. I know she had a previous experience in her early 20s MMF , and she used to kinda "brag" about it so assume she must have liked the experience.

Any recommendations on how to bring that up? Curious on how you would react if your bf brought this up to you?