Is heteroflexible the right term?
So I have only ever dated women. I am only really sexually attracted to women (i.e., I only find women sexually/physically attractive). I have never found another man to be “hot” or ever felt compelled to kiss or sleep with another man—the idea just holds no appeal.
The past several years though, I have found the idea of sucking dick or having my dick sucked by another man IF a woman is present and participating a big turn on. In any other circumstances, the idea holds no appeal to me, but the idea of an MMF just makes me so hard these days. Recently, I came across the concept of heteroflexible identity, but I’m not sure this fully captures the nuances of how I feel. For instance, penetrative sex (giving or receiving) with a man holds no appeal at all. But oral sex when a woman is guiding or part of it? Extremely appealing. Help.