r/manifestingSP

I see so many posts about hot and cold behavior, chasing texts, and just wanting your SP back no matter how they’re showing up. But that’s the problem… you’re focused on getting them, not on who you are in the relationship.

There was a time my now husband wanted nothing to do with me. No effort, no consistency, nothing. 4 years of long distance and I was just like everyone else, I wanted him badly. The only difference was the last fight we had, the one where I just couldn't put up with that version of him, was the day I told myself I needed me more. Instead of forcing it, I pulled my energy back and worked on my self concept. I became the version of me who is chosen, prioritized, and loved properly. And guess what? He came back… but not the same. Loving, committed, all about me.

Here’s why self concept matters:

If you feel unchosen, you’ll accept breadcrumbs.

If you feel insecure, you’ll overthink everything they do.

If you feel like you have to chase love, you’ll keep attracting people who run.

But when you shift it:

You expect consistency, so you get it.

You feel secure, so you stop reacting.

You know you’re chosen, so they show up that way.

So what do you actually do?

Take care of yourself like you matter, because you do. Look in the mirror and start affirming: “I’m chosen. I’m loved. I’m prioritized.” even if it feels fake at first. Stop putting them on the pedestal and put yourself there. This isn’t about ignoring them, it’s about not abandoning yourself for them.

They will come back. But don’t manifest the same version that hurt you. Manifest a better version of them by becoming a better version of you.

I wanna be honest with y’all today.

Lately, my SP just hasn’t really been on my mind like that in general. It’s not something I’ve been forcing — it’s just been happening naturally.

Today, I decided to spend some time with myself and get back into something I actually enjoy, which is walking. I ended up walking for hours, just being outside, enjoying nature, and really being present. And honestly… I loved it.

I was noticing things I don’t usually pay attention to. I saw a lot of things today that I genuinely love. And I’m not saying I manifested signs or anything like that, so don’t take it that way — but I did see things that always felt meaningful to me.

I saw three red cardinals, and I even had a butterfly fly right in front of me, which is crazy because I barely ever see butterflies like that.

It just felt like everything was kind of… flowing today. Like things were lining up in a really peaceful, natural way.

More than anything, it felt really good to just enjoy my own company again. No overthinking, no focusing on anyone else — just me, being outside, appreciating what’s around me, and doing something I genuinely love.

I’m definitely going to keep doing this more, exploring new places, walking more, and just continuing to pour that energy back into myself.

Look, we’ve all been there spiraling over a "read" receipt and acting like a private investigator on their social media lol. It feels like you’re being "productive" about your manifestation, but honestly? Obsession is just lack wearing a costume.

When you’re constantly checking in or stressing, you aren’t sending "love" vibes; you’re broadcasting a signal of anxiety and neediness. You’re essentially telling the universe, "I’m terrified I’m not enough to keep them."

The Paradox: Why Pulling Back Works

People can feel when you’re "chasing" them energetically. It’s heavy and suffocating. The second you stop trying to control their every move and focus on your own life, the dynamic shifts.

The Goal: You need to be the prize, not the hunter.

How to Chill Out (and actually see results)

1. The "Main Character" Energy: Get back to your own life. Go to the gym, hang with friends, or dive into a hobby. If you were already in a secure, happy relationship, you wouldn't be glued to your phone 24/7.

2. Visualize & Drop It: Imagine the relationship is already a "done deal." Once you feel that's true, you don't need to keep checking for proof. Trust the process.

3. The Subliminal Cheat Code: If your brain won't shut up, use subliminal audios. They’re great for "rewiring" those anxious loops in the background so you can stay calm and aligned without it feeling like a massive mental struggle.

Bottom line iss stop chasing. Start becoming. When you’re genuinely happy and secure on your own, you become a magnet for exactly what you want💗

ok please dont judge i have been manifesting an sp who rejected me, ill be honest i still like him and i feel like i dont want anyone else right now. im afraid he denied me cuz i was ugly and physically unattractive to him

i know circumstances dont matter and i feel like i dont wanna give up, but is this even possible?

Most people try to change their life by forcing action.

They ignore the layer that action comes from.

Your dominant feeling state.

Not surface emotions. Not temporary moods.
The baseline feeling you return to when nothing is distracting you.

That’s what runs everything.

You don’t experience reality directly.
You experience a filtered version shaped by what your mind has already accepted as “true.”

And the mind doesn’t accept ideas through logic.

It accepts them through feeling.

If something feels real to you, your system treats it as real—regardless of external evidence.

That’s why two people can live in the same environment and experience completely different outcomes.

Different internal states. Different interpretations. Different actions. Different results.

The mechanism is simple:

• The conscious layer selects ideas
• The subconscious executes them
• Feeling is the signal that tells the system: “this is real”

No feeling → no imprint
Weak feeling → weak expression
Dominant feeling → consistent output

Most people try to “think positive” while internally feeling lack, doubt, or pressure.

The system doesn’t respond to words.
It responds to what is felt as true.

So nothing changes.

The shift happens when the desired state stops being a concept and becomes a felt identity.

Not “I will be successful.”
But: this is already done.

The most direct access point is the moment before sleep.

External input drops. Resistance lowers.
The mind becomes receptive.

At that point:

• Strip away the future framing
• Construct a simple scene that implies completion
• Generate the feeling that would exist if it were already real
• Hold it without forcing
• Let sleep take over

No repetition of words. No effort to convince.
Only stabilization of feeling.

What is consistently felt gets accepted.
What is accepted gets expressed.

This is the most bizarre and strangest thing I have ever experienced 😅

I’ve had my Apple Watch for years. Whenever you charge it or take it off your wrist, you have to enter a 4-digit passcode to use it again.

Over the past few days, I’ve been using my Apple Watch as usual, taking it off multiple times and always entering my passcode normally (the same one I’ve used for years – the last four digits of my birthday, my birth date).

The last few days, I’ve been manifesting quite intensely. I’ve manifested things successfully before, but I’ve never experienced my reality shifting this actively.

Today, I put my Apple Watch on charge, and when I wanted to use it again, I entered my passcode. Incorrect.

The same passcode I’ve used for years? I entered it again because I thought I had mistyped it. Incorrect.

I didn’t even consider that it could be a different one – I just thought I made another typo.

A third time. Same thing. Incorrect.

My Apple Watch got locked for 1 minute. And I was just thinking: what the hell?????? Why isn’t my passcode working????

Out of nowhere, I suddenly had the thought to try the first four digits of my birthday. At the same time, I had this feeling like I had changed it (which I definitely hadn’t).

After the 1-minute lock, I tried it. And guess what – it worked ??????

It felt completely unnatural to type in that number combination ?????? Like when you know it can’t be right???? But it was ?????

I NEVER changed my passcode ??????

But somehow I knew I had ?????

What ????? 😂 Like I can’t explain that. It had to be my reality shifting ?

About 2 months ago I saw a instagram influencer on my for you page I I was kinda interested in her content. You know the OF but not quite there OF Beside that info I saw she was doing a west coast trip in her travel Van or bus I don’t quite remember. I was visiting my daughter in the northern coast at the time. I remember looking at her reel she wasn’t far from me. I followed her account and said "how funny would it be if I ran into her someday here along the coast". Two month go by and I’m visiting northern Cali coast to see my daughter at a coffee shop and I walk in I see some very familiar woman ordering her coffee and sitting down on the table filming herself doing her content. I was shocked then it clicked I manifested this meeting. I as playing with my daughter around the coffee shop and we made I contact multiple times I eventually went and introduced myself to her. All I can say the day went extremely well, and because of that situation my sp who I’ve been manifesting for almost a year now (ex-wife) I started to see the 3D align with my reality as-well now after that visit my ex-wife has been more positive and attentive towards me asking to go on dates and even asking if some day we could try again. I managed to manifest two outcomes because I one jokingly affirmation.

Hello all,

I finally understand how manifestation works. After struggling with months and consumed so much contents. I realized things happens around us come from our thoughts and we have been unconscious manifested the entire of our lives.

Manifestation is all about your state of being/your identity and who are you being.

My question is if I am looking myself being someone who loved, chosen, happy in a committed relationship, prioritized by my sp.

Do I just think that I already in a perfect relationship with the version of the sp that I want?

The reason I am asking is whenever my old thoughts pops up. It does reminded me of my sp, of the unwanted circumstances.

Do I just shift myself to the new version of me already in a relationship with a new version of sp that I want?

Thanks,

Do you think that if you think about someone that person might start thinking of you aswell?

Currently, I am in a stage in which I am grieving like in that story that Neville Goddard told in one of his readings:

>"I have had people say to me, 'You know, I want that man, and no other man.' I said, 'No, you don't; you want to be happily married. You don't want that man or no man.' 'Oh, yes, that man or no man.' Then, of course, this always shocks them. I say, 'If he dropped dead right now, would you want to be married?' 'Well, he isn't going to drop...' 'I didn't ask you that. If he dropped dead right now, or if he is right this very moment accused of being the world's greatest thief or murderer, do you still want him?' 'Well, now, why ask those questions, Neville? I want that man.' But, you see, it isn't that man. They want to be happily married. I have gone to so many weddings where it was either that man or none, and it wasn't 'that man'! And they are embarrassed when they see me standing in the aisle, because it had to be 'that man or no man,' and here it isn't that man at all. And they walk down—they are happy with their new mate, but a little sheepish as they pass by because they know I know he was not the man."

-Neville Goddard, "Power" lecture, 1968.

Let me tell you a little more about my SP. She is currently with a 3P, we have had our things despite it. Long story short: In August 2025, I invited her to my birthday party, curiously enough the 3P left the city for work around that time, but she still attended. Throughout the entire party, she didn't leave my side. She was very affectionate and interested in me, and we ended up kissing (the story is much longer, and I'm omitting many details, but I don't want to make it the focus of this post; I hope to share it someday). A lot has happened since then. I've seen her again at events and parties, and honestly, I've been accumulating impatience and anxiety because a relationship with her hasn't materialized (3P is still there...).

I've never had a girlfriend in my life; it's always been situations that ultimately leave me devastated, and sometimes I can't stop thinking that the same thing will repeat itself. Fortunately, I realize that it's simply attachment, and that I have the power to decide that neither that nor anything else will affect me more than I allow it to. And don't get me wrong, I know that self-concept is crucial in manifestation, and I constantly receive evidence that I am loved, chosen, and appreciated, since there are always people seeking me out, asking for my advice, inviting me to places, including me in their plans, showing me their appreciation, my friends adore and praise me, and my family is the best I could have had (obviously with its flaws). But my ego (doing its job) starts to wonder, "Why not? Why am I not with the person I choose, despite the circumstances?"

Going back to my initial premise, "I want that man, and no other man," I've thought deeply about whether if what I really want is a relationship and not that person, but for now, honestly, I wouldn't want a relationship if it's not with her, and I know I must learn to embrace the feeling of the wish fulfilled despite what 3D shows. Sometimes it's hard not to spiral and abandon the desire altogether. Sometimes I wonder if it is the best thing to do.. but I can't help thinking that's exactly what I did in the past, and I keep wondering what would have happened if I had persisted…

Feel free to share your thoughts and perspectives. I appreciate any comments in advance, especially if anyone has been or is currently going through a similar situation.

I need some advice, please. I’ve been manifesting my ex-boyfriend since November. I had a few small signs, and the last big sign came after weeks and weeks of no contact. He visited my LinkedIn profile after posting that he was moving to Paris next year — Paris being the city where I live and the city we had always dreamed of being together in, since we had always been in a long-distance relationship. So, naturally, the day he posted it and then visited my profile, it was clearly a signal that he wanted me to see that he was ready to talk.

Next, he came back a week later for the first time, and then I visited his profile, and since then we’ve had a kind of daily ping-pong, each of us visiting the other’s profile every day. Then it stopped completely.

Today was his birthday. I wished him in a friendly but short way, and he responded very positively, saying he really appreciated my message. He even sent a second message saying he hoped everything was going well for me. I replied that yes, everything was going well on my side and that I hoped the same for him — and then nothing. I’m still a bit disappointed because I was expecting him to want to do more, maybe continue the conversation.

The fact that he looks at my message but doesn’t reply — I don’t understand. Given the LinkedIn situation, it’s clear that I’m not imagining it and that something is working.

Please someone to help me I don’t understand

hi All,

kindly needed your advice or suggestion. I'm still working on my former partner for 2 yrs. Last April 4 was my birthday. I didn't receive any movement. I don't know what to think or what to do.

at this point I just want to drop but I know deep inside of me. Don't want too. For the past years I have been doing and being the person I wanted to be. he is the only has only 1% progress. I do receive a movement last year just asking me through my email address just asking if its active. then nothing.

I lost my interest to re-reading neville books again. I know I am best version of now. i got promoted last year, I got better health, my dogs improving a lot,my parents are financially stable. with him it is radio silence. I did the same thing of mediation and affirmation and scripting.

and now I am human I cried and my heart hurts. hate this feeling

I've posted on this sub before and oh boy is the 3D testing me today. However, I'm going to persist. Mark my words - I'm coming back with my success post because I am gonna f****** persist!!!

His family member unfollowed me yesterday and his other family member posted about selling a concert ticket that I can infer was the ticket that was supposed to be mine. However, I do not care. Sure I wavered a bit, but nope. I'm grounding myself. The 3D is just testing me and the 3D literally does not matter because I am going to persist. persist. persist. My SP and I are already back together. I simply decide this. I know this. We're in a happy and healthy relationship. I do not care what is happening in the 3D. I am persisting and he is mine because I simply said so. There is always movement and my SP is going to come crawling back to me in no time. LFG.

I’ve been manifesting my sp for exactly 8 days now. And yes I’ve seen results but they haven’t been linear.

5 days in he reached out to me telling me he’s been thinking of me asking me how i am. We ended up talking for a while until he said he doesn’t think we should be talking. However, the next day the conversation kept going on, with even more enthusiasm and we ended up calling that night where he told me he never stopped loving me and that he misses me everyday and he invited me over to his house so we can spend time together and talk in person. I was over the moon excited and dancing around saying Thankyou to God and the universe. I knew my manifestation had worked.

The next morning he woke up and was texting me very dry, i talked to him like normal throughout the whole day and just kept affirming until at 10pm at night i asked him what’s wrong, i can tell something is up. Here’s where i messed up, i assumed something was wrong instead of ignoring what i don’t like and going on with my day. Texting him that one thing ruined the whole game for me, he texted me saying forget everything that was said last night and that he doesn’t want to keep talking to me. He told me to stop texting him. The switch up was crazy.

Now its the morning after that happened and were not talking. I spiraled, i cried and now I’m back. I meditated and i feel good again because i know i am the creator and that i just need to keep persisting. I’ve heard people say that sometimes the 3d shows the opposite of what you’re manifesting and it’s draining out your old identity and your old beliefs and can be known as a “purge.” I’ve heard TikTok creators say that this is a good thing because it literally means your manifestation is around the corner, so that’s what I’m going to believe as it’s in my favour. I get mad at him but then i stop myself and realise he is just my assumptions pushed out, i am the creator. I do get frustrated at myself though because I feel as if i had it in my hands and it all slipped through my fingers in only a day.

I’m supposed to go to his house tomorrow, I have 3 options.

1. Don’t go and keep persisting, he’ll reach out to me first and apologize

2. Text him about it tonight

3. Just show up since technically I’m not uninvited.

I’m leaning towards the 1st option right now. However i want to know if people have experienced the same thing, if they went through a “purge” when manifesting their sp. And what do i do from here? It was very disheartening and upsetting and i very much want to go to his tomorrow still. I’m living in end state right now trying to lock in so that time can collapse so that my 3d reflects what i want instantly and that his house tomorrow is done and settled and we both know I’m going to be there.

Can people please share their experiences and offer advice below!

I’m sure everyone here has saved a success story that motivated them to keep going. Share those here, so we can all use this as a motivation to persist! I love love love reading success stories because I know soon I’ll be sharing one too with tons of details🫶🏽

I’d really appreciate some insight from a manifesting/SP perspective because I’m a bit confused.

Back in 2021, I dated a guy I ended up liking a lot (which is rare for me). After about 3 months, he broke up with me, and I later found out he had started seeing another girl.

At the time, I was very triggered. I was constantly checking his social media, feeling anxious, crying, and reacting to everything I saw. I tried a lot of manifesting techniques to get him back, but nothing really changed. Eventually, I just gave up and started removing Instagram on and off so I could detach and focus on myself.

Then in June, I noticed he had unfollowed me, which made me feel like the connection was completely gone. I accepted it and unfollowed him too.

But before this Christmas, he randomly requested to follow me again. I was really confused. I ended up asking him why, and he texted me saying I’d been on his mind the whole time and that he wanted to stay in touch. He even asked to meet up, but at that point I told him I had moved on.

Around that time, I also reconnected with a friend I’ve always had a hot-and-cold dynamic with. I ended up spending Christmas and NY with him and we ended up sleeping together. He was the first guy I’d been with since my ex, so I think I got more emotionally involved than expected.

I knew he wasn’t fully over his ex, but we stayed in contact. He even sent me a “miss you” message 3 weeks ago.

Then about two weeks ago, I reached out about a recent health scare that affected both of us. There had already been some stress around that earlier this year. He replied initially, but after I followed up, he stopped responding completely.

What confuses me is that when I was very attached before, nothing happened… but when I let go, my ex came back. Now I’m trying to do the same with my friend, but I miss him and the connection we had (we used to send memes all the time).

So my question is: why did it “work” when I let go before, but not now? Is it attachment, self-concept, or something else in how I’m approaching this?

I’m not looking for “just move on” advice—I’m more curious about the manifesting dynamics here.

I just miss my friend.

I am manifesting sp and have realized i have a lot of resentment towards them because of the rejection and how much they have hurt me.

Has anyone else felt anything similar? It feels hard to manifest them while feeling resentment towards them as both of those feelings are quite the opposites

So there’s a girl I really like and for situations I won’t explain we can’t be together and she’s not ready to talk to anyone right now

For the past month I have been visualizing us together at night and whenever I’m free and I have been telling myself she’s mine and she’s already mine. There have been other girls who have come into my life and even then I just wanted to put my energy towards this one girl and haven’t talked to them. Recently though past 2 days I really just am starting to stop caring about her like in a ideal world I want to be with her but now I really don’t care if she doesn’t text back or talk to me. Am I doing this right